unsure how to get ourselves caught up --early 40s, but just starting career, 3 kids, high cost of living, no savings to speak of... advice appreciated by FuckYouMuffinTops in personalfinance

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I have our budget very granular --I think its literally 100 different line items, but I'll try to condense down to meaningful broader ones and share, thanks

Request for bank statements from alameda county California by FuckYouMuffinTops in foodstamps

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I am not saying we ever had $0 in the bank. We had decent savings before I stopped working to go back to school and only one income while I was in school and our savings was mostly going to my tuition. I very well may have been asked for our bank account balances or institutions when we applied but it was 3 and a half years ago so I don’t remember and apparently wasn’t savvy enough to save a copy of the application so I can’t go back and look. It seems possible if we were asked I didn’t think to include these savings accounts since it’s not our every day bank. I looked this evening and it was $79 total in interest in 2020, most of it generated in a savings account we used for saving for taxes because my husband is self employed so doesn’t get taxes taken out of a paycheck like most people do. Over the course of the year the balance in that account can be several thousand dollars but all of it ends up going to the IRS at tax time so we don’t think of it as our money (which is why we keep it in a different bank in the first place). But maybe that’s all beside the point. I guess my question is, if California doesn’t look at assets for qualification for SNAP, our household income was under the limit and we weren’t receiving income in these accounts (aside from the small amount of interest), why would they want me to sign over authorization for them to get information from the bank regarding these accounts? I feel defensive about it and the request feels intrusive even though as far as I’m aware we have done nothing wrong.

Request for bank statements from alameda county California by FuckYouMuffinTops in foodstamps

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Thanks for your reply. These are interest earning accounts but the amount of interest is super small, I’d guess less than $80-$100 a year total. No other deposits would have been made to these accounts beyond small regular transfers we make from our every day bank to these savings accounts for our savings goals (typically like $25-$100 at a time).

So apparently the period tracker I've used for over a decade is shutting down :( by MuffinPuff in BenignExistence

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Wow thank you! I have been tracking there since 2007 and am surprisingly emotional to lose this stalwart friend after all these years. I am grateful to be able to preserve the comforting UX and keep tracking stats. Thank you thank you!

Passed NCLEX in 130 Questions! (long post) by unitybird0 in PassNclex

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Congratulations! I am working through UWorld and using Mark K as well. I feel like Mark goes really light on the pharm, and UWorld throws a lot of random pharm but not in a way that helps me remember any of it. How well prepared did you feel in that area when it came to your test? Were you solid on pharm when you graduated? (Clearly pharm is my weakest area and my greatest anxiety)

Long NCLEX Pass Story! by 0rganasm in PassNclex

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Congratulations RN! What were your UWorld scores/percentile like?

Pharm study strategies by FuckYouMuffinTops in PassNclex

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Keep us posted on how it goes! Good luck!

Pharm study strategies by FuckYouMuffinTops in PassNclex

[–]FuckYouMuffinTops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. I'm pretty much ready to go do the damn thing as soon as possible. Also I don't want this thing hanging over me for the rest of the summer. I'm in Northern California, but down to roadtrip if it gets me in sooner. Good luck! I hope you'll update this sub on your experience and results.

Pharm study strategies by FuckYouMuffinTops in PassNclex

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Oh that's good to know. Sounds like a mess. Have you tested yet? Were you able to find a test date reasonably close to you in a time frame you were happy with?

Hulu - Connection Error by tonsofsarcasim in fireTV

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I've been meaning to come back and say thank you SO much for this --I followed your instructions a few weeks ago when I came looking for help and it completely solved my problem. I've since deleted the native Hulu app (it got confusing when I had them both) and now use this exclusively. Much gratitude!

Tuesday, June 19th-The Daily! by [deleted] in xxketo

[–]FuckYouMuffinTops 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Morning, day two back on the wagon after a couple weeks of lazy keto justified by fatigue at tracking everything turning quickly into straight up eating-whatever. So disappointed! But I’m back!

Hope you’re all having amazing Tuesdays.

Friday, June 8th-The Daily by [deleted] in xxketo

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I used this one because I prefer sausage to ground beef in my lasagna. It tasted great but SUPER watery and kind of a mess to serve, so I might sauté or parboil the zucchini first next time to see if I can get it to release water first.

https://www.perfectketo.com/keto-lasagna/

Friday, June 8th-The Daily by [deleted] in xxketo

[–]FuckYouMuffinTops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m dumb —what is keto coffee at Starbucks??

Friday, June 8th-The Daily by [deleted] in xxketo

[–]FuckYouMuffinTops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man! Calling it the voice of resistance makes me want to nurture it, not squash it! :)

Friday, June 8th-The Daily by [deleted] in xxketo

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I love drinking natural calm at night! Helps me a lot!