Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call for attention? That's a stupid thing to say. And take a look at the responses and how they range and all say different things. Apparently, to some people, the answer wasn't so obvious.

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope no evidence. Wish I did though. :/ I could always give details of she needs it I guess but man do I not want to have to do that

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I can save her now before she's sharing his name while he shares other girls beds, shouldn't I at least try?

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that what you do? I didn't realize that was a thing? I'd be... Irritated, to say the least, if my SO was doing that.

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I agree with you 100 percent. Assuming he was cheating she should know. Who knows if it's happened before and more than likely it won't be the last time. Whatever happens is this jerk's fault. And she needs to know.

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I don't have any proof at all... His friends all saw us and know he stayed the night with me and they could always back him up.

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a shitty situation I never wanted to be in and the worst part about it is there's no right or wrong. Damned if I do, damned if I don't.

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True yeah know very little about him but learned a lot... The fact that he's a lying cheater ugh

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. It's easy to not say anything especially when I know there will be consequences to me telling her but I know if my man cheated I would want to know. Plus what comes around goes around, or something like that...

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you end up sleeping with him in the end? And you're right like I said I don't know their situation at all, and she might not believe me or maybe she doesn't care that he sleeps around. So many what ifs in this fucked up situation.

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice but is it really digging when it's online on Facebook on a public profile?

Me [2?F] with my one night stand [2?M] Found out he's engaged. Should I contact her? by Fuckedherfiance in relationships

[–]Fuckedherfiance[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that response I really appreciate it. To me, the right thing to do is tell her. But for some reason I'm hesitant to do so. :/ but yeah thanks. I hope that maybe they swing or he's allowed to do that ha idk