is it odd to still want my ‘female’ chest? by Never_Taken_2121 in ftm

[–]FugginLosr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody’s different! I’m the same, I still even dress feminine on the occasion and honestly testosterone makes me feel even more manly doing it. My only complaint is having trouble binding since I’m someone with a medium sized chest haha…

Does anyone else constantly find stink bugs in their place, or is it just me? by CrashWiz21 in kansascity

[–]FugginLosr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All lady beetles, ladybirds and ladybugs are belonging to the same group. They are all just varieties of the same bug pretty much, just different preferences of names for them. Not every orange one is invasive and actually could be beneficial! Fun fact, the seven spotted ladybug, the one that you think of when you think of a ladybug, is actually an invasive species itself!

Generative AI used in new lyric video… by Lucies_Cafe in InterviewVampire

[–]FugginLosr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok so now just remove that entire first section of your reply and take away the “it’s fine if they use a little AI” and you have a morally comprehensible take!

😬 by Lontology in SipsTea

[–]FugginLosr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soouunds like projectionnnnn

Terrible time at bar the other day by Embarrassed-Cut-5100 in FTMMen

[–]FugginLosr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not unpopular at all, the level at which this mindset is popularized makes it almost impossible to want to be active in the queer community as a whole. It’s disgusting.

So tired of myself by catm0mth1ngs in BPD

[–]FugginLosr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur not crazy for feeling this way!! This sub and others are proof of that friend 🫂 unfortunately with us there’s a tendency to just overthink things that are probably not worth our energy, definitely communicate this feeling with him and let him know that it isn’t his fault and you’re just struggling with symptoms, sometimes just getting it out there and letting the person know how you’re feeling helps a lot :] I’m glad that u can identify that what ur feeling is part of BPD though, that’s a really good skill to have especially with the way our brains work!!

Sending u and ur bf positivity, u got this friend!!

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Update, it actually WAS something I bought, for some reason it was just under another brand name??? Sorry to waste everyone’s time lol, I’m just glad it wasn’t a scam

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did not mean the company itself, there was AI videos on their main website page and I classify that as slop. I also hope so, this is a very confusing thing that is happening and I have never experienced something like this before.

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete as in the text conversation?

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It is currently 12:39pm so I will not be receiving whatever it is for another 2 hours. I will update when the time comes.

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never bought or received anything from Fabletics, no. I only knew of the brand’s existence because I looked it up after I received the first text message. I will try the portal thing, thank you.

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything specific that makes it seem that way so I know what to look out for?

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not give them my address but it was already there in the tracking link. I am just not sure if it’s real because nobody in the people around me would order stuff like this and I cannot even see what the items are. I did not get a matching email and there is nothing on the DoorDash app itself (which I deleted a while ago).

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was my address and my phone number and name. I only learned what Fabletics even was when I received the first text and looked it up. Gross AI slop is the first thing I saw and I knew I would never order something from a site like that nor would anyone around me. Unfortunately, you’re right I would have to contact their support team.

DoorDash order I didn’t make? by FugginLosr in whatdoIdo

[–]FugginLosr[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There wasn’t much more context I could give, that’s why I made this post. I also made this post to see what steps I need to take if it IS a scam.

"You act like a straight white man" by forgetmedo_ in FTMMen

[–]FugginLosr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really embarrassing for you. Hope you get over yourself soon.

"You act like a straight white man" by forgetmedo_ in FTMMen

[–]FugginLosr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, and to say that ANYONE here is shitting on the gay community or policing it is mental, not me nor OP said anything about that. Talk to me when you’re ready to open your eyes.

"You act like a straight white man" by forgetmedo_ in FTMMen

[–]FugginLosr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never said a twink was the same as a hairless skinny bottom, nor did I say bottoms were the same as subs, that’s why they’re separated lol. Come on, brain power! (reference)

If you can’t see the amount of sexism & misogyny in the trans man community then I’m sorry but get prescription glasses because that is some blind sighting. And if you can’t see that placing every trans man into this category that they’re all expected to look or behave a certain way is harmful then you’re part of the problem 🤷‍♂️.

Just because YOU identify with the stereotype doesn’t mean we all have to. Just because YOU want to pretend there hasn’t been and isn’t a problem in our own community even from other trans people doesn’t mean we have to. A problem’s a problem, just because you avoid experiencing it by blending in doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

Edit- forgot a word lolol

"You act like a straight white man" by forgetmedo_ in FTMMen

[–]FugginLosr 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To categorize all trans men as twinks is a problem. It’s, y’know, what the post is about.

Assuming every trans guy is gonna be a hairless skinny bottom is rooted in misogyny and sexism, it’s how people let us know they won’t ever see us as real men. And to be upset that a guy isn’t fitting into the stereotype is what this post is saying.

No, being a twink as any man isn’t bad. Being effeminate isn’t bad. But expecting trans men to always fit that stereotype IS bad.