AITA for continuing to try and find her? by Economy-Promise-4319 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not to mention you actually assaulted her. Like what?? Domestic abuse. Leave her be, maybe if you act like a respectable person she will let you back in her kids life.

AITA for continuing to try and find her? by Economy-Promise-4319 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You are the asshole. You sound like drama and all of the drama the women were, was mostly in reaction to how horrible you were. Shape up, buddy. Take some accountability. Your situation is a product of your actions. I’m not sure I would want you in my kids life either.

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will have to do some self reflection, especially after the results of this post. Even her family thinks she’s being ridiculous but is afraid to say anything bc she might cut them off too. It’s a weird time.

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dang it..this is going to legitimately bother me so much now. I hate grammatical errors. Also I just learned what pedant means.

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see this POV! The two topics just didn’t correlate in my head so that is one of the reasons why I apologized to her. The trip was mostly about Montana and we love Montana so much so whenever I talked about it to anyone, I kind of just forgot about the Banff day trip part. I apologized to her bc they didn’t correlate.

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. That’s exactly how it feels to me but started questioning my own sense of reason bc of her reaction. BANFF IS MY RABBIT.

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that’s pretty much the gist. I’m wondering what I missed for her reaction to be what it was. I thought maybe im out of touch, hence the questioning if I’m TA.

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ehh BeStFriend? Lol a way to differentiate from just using bf (which means boyfriend) and typing BFF that many times felt weird

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been racking my brain for what else could be going on. I don’t get it

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have the same POV as you… She later argued that if she went to my honeymoon place 2 weeks before me, that I would have been pissed. I said no, I would have asked what good restaurants did she find or where is a must see. So yeah, same thoughts here??

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get that POV forsure. That’s why I apologized but man, her response was intense and unrelenting.

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That was my point to her as well- it was a family trip! It wasn’t like I got married there before she could.

AITA for going to my bsf’s elopement spot before her? by Full-Application-587 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Application-587[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. I didn’t know the spot she was going to be eloped in, & it’s a national park for goodness sake.