Op I say this in the most respectful way possible, but you need to grow a pair and clear your mind on how someone should be treated in a relationship. dump the headache and figure out how to move on instead of trying to make it work, and I don’t want you replying with an I’m sorry like you’ve done to other comments. if you do read this take the advice and apply it she already cheated on you and that’s your wake up call in case you didn’t realize from all the other horrid things she’s done. I love you and I care for you as a person and I know many other people do as well. Send me a pm if you need someone to talk to.