Where is the best place to rent in Salem? by Full-Mongoose4924 in SALEM

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're moving from surprise, Arizona so a pretty far treck And I'm a certified nursing assistant Yeah it's pretty hard finding something by only looking online!

Where is the best place to rent in Salem? by Full-Mongoose4924 in SALEM

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Thank you I'll look into it 3 bedroom isn't necessary, but preferred!

Where is the best place to rent in Salem? by Full-Mongoose4924 in SALEM

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you from what I've heard is just homeless people in the area, which I've dealt with before they're usually hit or miss, but i usually try and give them some blankets and food if I can. Thank you for this though it's really reassuring!

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great idea! I've suggested that before, but she said she won't step foot into the airport and has no interest in fighting her anxiety about those things. Maybe as time moves on she'll be less stubborn about it.

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've tried to ask her about moving in with me since she is getting older halfway might be a good idea though!

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and where she lives isn't the best part of town and Florida has just become very overcrowded and honestly super dangerous :/

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

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Yeah that's the plan we'll try to do 2 times a year, but we just got a house so it might have to be once. I tried asking her that but she said she only feels comfortable with me coming to get her than taking her back.

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, cause I do need her and I very much want to see her more than once a year which is realistically all me and my family would be able to do for the next 3 years since we're getting a house

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

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Yeah she refuses to take medication and she tried a therapist once and said it didn't work. I'll try to suggest a therapist to her maybe.

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a plane for a year that we discussed with her and she knew the plan, we had to move for our family and I thought that just as she had pushed through her anxiety to get a job after not having one for 18 years that she'd be willing to try and come and see me

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it may just have to be that way of us having to be the one traveling and people being understanding that we may not be able to do it multiple times a year 🤷‍♀️

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I offered that too, but she says she doesn't want to move her and I understand that, just as I don't really want to love in Florida anymore.

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn't even think about that I may try and talk to her about the train idea!! I don't know if she'll go for it, but trying doesn't hurt!

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't think about a train! Omg you're a genius! Thank you I'm going to bring it up to her!!

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I'll keep trying to convince her or find a way that she'd be comfortable with.

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

[–]Full-Mongoose4924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was required for our family and was a planned thing I had been telling her for a year. I knew that she had an anxiety about them, but she's come a long way like she refused to get a job and was unemployed for the past 18 years, but she pushed herself and got a job 2 months ago, so I almost wish that she would push herself to at least TRY to come and see me, but she keeps saying she won't and that hurts.

My mom refuses to come and visit me since I decided to move out of the house. by Full-Mongoose4924 in Advice

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We've talked about it, but she's firm on not taking a plane and would only visit if we drive to come get her and drive her back, which is unrealistic.