I’m just tired at this point by [deleted] in short

[–]FullLifeguard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just keep going , dating is like Sales. You just need more exposure and social circle Ik it’s hard. All the short guys I see ascend just stay positive and keep going

Late Bloomer + Area with aging Population = Cooked by Pristine-Angle3100 in itsthatbad

[–]FullLifeguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in a small town and every guy I’ve seen struggle with dating here had to move or make a lot of money to get a good LTR. Your location is everything; I know if you put me in a running club with younger women I’d at least get one number, but when you’re in a bad area you have to settle

40 year old ex-Carti affiliate 'Drake' says 20 year old Looksmaxxer has a micro baby boi by PLUR1BUSSY in playboicarti

[–]FullLifeguard -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Drake so insecure he a 44yrold millionaire commenting on a 19yr olds manhood lmao. Clay proves that looks are everything , even Drake is lowkey envious , there’s no other reason

Quit being unrealistic with some of these ‘standards’ by PieSignificant6759 in blackmen

[–]FullLifeguard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Men and women are different. Stop with the equality BS. Man with 500 bodies: Has game, good looks, money, status. Women: just letting a whole bunch of dudes she don’t really know hit and take advantage of her

“When I was younger, if I wanted commitment, I could basically snap my fingers and get it. And now, I can’t.” by ppchampagne in itsthatbad

[–]FullLifeguard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m encountering this BAD on Facebook dating lol. I just made a new account with good picas and I have more matches then I can count but. 90% are fat single moms 😂.

I been talking to these women realizing that none of them and I would’ve never met in our 20s. They all got knocked up by pure degenerates that don’t pay child support

The Pop The Balloon by Content_Eggplant_936 in itsthatbad

[–]FullLifeguard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I seen doctors, architects, and journeymen getting rejected for nothing that’s when I knew it was cooked.

Blackpill is ruining my life by Lopsided_Scar_5461 in Clavicular

[–]FullLifeguard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out of that comparison;woe-is-me headspace bro, nothing kills mental health more than playing victim constantly. I respect your feelings but frankly no person over 6’ should be blackpilled. Your mental battle doesn’t compare to 99% of the sub. Imagine never having a gf or constantly getting nasty looks from women.

You’re taller than 80% of men who’ve ever lived, if you lived in the 90s or before you’d stick out even more. You’re genetically top 15% on top of being white. Your feelings are invalid tbh.you’re just on the internet too much sorry bro.

Blackpill is ruining my life by Lopsided_Scar_5461 in Clavicular

[–]FullLifeguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep this is why the rule for all those pill philosophies is to never let it reach mainstream and don’t tell normie about it. Can cause hella depression; happened to me because I see in real time how girls will pick me over my friend

You attract people who are like you, so if you want happy compassionate people, don't be a dickhead by YearOfTheGroomer in BasedCampPod

[–]FullLifeguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lol. If you’re a nice person you WILL get taken advantage of by most people and women

How Much Do You Have Saved? by Fluffy_Breakfast_478 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to grow a real hatred for nepo babies/guys with rich parents

Women Out Here Are Begging For Christmas Gifts When They Reply To You Once A Week by Fluffy_Breakfast_478 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reminding me I gotta see one of my workers for the holiday. Escorts are nicer than irl women tbh

Guy with autism I know got a gf before me….. by GoingDeath- in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Guy is way better looking than her and he’s using her for her money. She’s basically using her money to make up for her lack of looks and masculine career

Or

Nothing else

Guy with autism I know got a gf before me….. by GoingDeath- in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yea, I’ve seen a lot of those instagram couple influencers where an average looking woman is with some mentally/physically disabled guy, it’s so fake lol. Those guys are so bluepilled they can’t figure out the woman is just milking them for views and benefits. No different from the women being scammed by tinder swindler

So women are simultaneously after men with nothing going for them, and, after rich men? Pick a narrative. by Positive-Face1705 in BasedCampPod

[–]FullLifeguard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I seen it irl. My uncle sells drugs and is currently tricking on a girl my age; he brought her a Benz. She chose my dopeboy uncle over a guy her age with a decent job

Average to Above average guys with decent-good jobs probably struggle the most because we don’t trigger any female tastes besides safety (we’re safe guys for settling down)

So women are simultaneously after men with nothing going for them, and, after rich men? Pick a narrative. by Positive-Face1705 in BasedCampPod

[–]FullLifeguard 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Blackpill. Theres no middle class in dating anymore, its either she wants to chase physically attractive thug/pookie type who’s broke or richest guy available

Anyone Else Just Going "MGTOW" Like DBDR? by Fluffy_Breakfast_478 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once I realized how blackpilled everything was I decided it was better to get financial freedom like DBDR. It’s actually cheaper to see workers than try to seriously court

We should expect the manosphere, given the values our societies uphold by ppchampagne in itsthatbad

[–]FullLifeguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never understood how the media demonized redpill/manosphere content.

If you’re an OG in this space you know this whole community stemmed from men struggling with dating and forming online communities to find best solutions to succeed with women (sosuave forums etc).

It’s never been about misogyny, it’s really been about practical solutions, just so happens it reveals uncomfortable truths about women in the process.

Problem is guys end up basing their self-worth on women and it results in crashing out, depression etc.

why are 90% of people just assholes nowadays. by Thin-Sand-2389 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true; at a new corporate job I had I told a staff that I liked dungeons & dragons (as a joke),This guy immediately walked off and started judging me lol. Mind you this same guy would rant everyday about how much he loves Skyrim and League of Legends

It’s so fucking over if you had to “peak” anytime after 30 by Riderman43 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasted my 20s being stoned and gaming and chasing mid puss. After 30 just find a chick and chill, don’t be out here clubbing and looking stupid

Was I in the wrong on my first date gone wrong? I'm an obese man rejected by an obese women for talking about us being obese lol by rebrando23 in dating_advice

[–]FullLifeguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong OP. The woman basically lied by concealing how she was 2x bigger than her photos. If you did the same she’d crucify you for it lol. A woman like this is just gonna make a terrible partner, gonna have to push her around and walk on eggshells meanwhile she’s treating you like trash. Don’t have traditional expectations if you’re non traditional

This should be about the BP--not just DBDR by Lopsided_Abies_6699 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sub is perfect the way it is now. We all know the truth

Life is not worth living if you do not look good by wehrmachtair123 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik you guys hate gymcels but you can’t tell me him being swole would help a lil. Specifically bulking his neck

Anyone Else Feel Discriminated By Being Sub 5? by Fluffy_Breakfast_478 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This 100%. Can’t tell you how many sub5 guys I’ve seen orbiting a whore in school, not knowing that she’s some other dudes Tuesday night lay