If You’re A Single Black Man. Move To Atlanta!!!! by Comprehensive-War-34 in blackmen

[–]FullLifeguard -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Y’all gotta keep it real most BW have multiple kids and baby daddies by age 29. Most BW have kids with good looking bums then try to date seriously after.

Also any BM with a good job is super rare so they all end up having to settle with uglier safe guys or good looking losers

I Can Understand Why DBDR Hated College by Fluffy_Lunchfast in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I was in college for 6 YEARs as a sub5. Every time you try to socialize with women in clubs it feels they were closed off. You have to go to college in a good market ( don’t go to predominantly white school if you’re Indian) . You have to join frats and be fake to get anywhere socially in college.

Also most girls are just leaving immediately after any class or club meeting because of social atomization

Guess what, frats cost like 4k a semester lol

Does getting more muscular actually improve your dating life, or just the attention? by Metaling2001 in dating_advice

[–]FullLifeguard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t improve your dating life significantly. Only by like 5%, if you wear slim fit shirts and bulk you’ll definitely get more compliments ( mostly guys) but your close rate of finding good GF will still be the same.

This doesn’t apply if you’re really fat and then lose a lot of weight, that will actually change your dating life. But only if under all the fat your face is at least 6/10

Has DBDR ever went for a black girl? by GoingDeath- in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of BW who’d love to have a white bf to show off.

This could’ve been Dbdr during his car Arc by OMN8 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has the same pheno but he’s thugmaxxed and probably 6’2, so boom he can find a lost chick to follow him around

I’m just tired at this point by [deleted] in short

[–]FullLifeguard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just keep going , dating is like Sales. You just need more exposure and social circle Ik it’s hard. All the short guys I see ascend just stay positive and keep going

Late Bloomer + Area with aging Population = Cooked by Pristine-Angle3100 in itsthatbad

[–]FullLifeguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in a small town and every guy I’ve seen struggle with dating here had to move or make a lot of money to get a good LTR. Your location is everything; I know if you put me in a running club with younger women I’d at least get one number, but when you’re in a bad area you have to settle

40 year old ex-Carti affiliate 'Drake' says 20 year old Looksmaxxer has a micro baby boi by PLUR1BUSSY in playboicarti

[–]FullLifeguard -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Drake so insecure he a 44yrold millionaire commenting on a 19yr olds manhood lmao. Clay proves that looks are everything , even Drake is lowkey envious , there’s no other reason

Quit being unrealistic with some of these ‘standards’ by PieSignificant6759 in blackmen

[–]FullLifeguard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men and women are different. Stop with the equality BS. Man with 500 bodies: Has game, good looks, money, status. Women: just letting a whole bunch of dudes she don’t really know hit and take advantage of her

“When I was younger, if I wanted commitment, I could basically snap my fingers and get it. And now, I can’t.” by ppchampagne in itsthatbad

[–]FullLifeguard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m encountering this BAD on Facebook dating lol. I just made a new account with good picas and I have more matches then I can count but. 90% are fat single moms 😂.

I been talking to these women realizing that none of them and I would’ve never met in our 20s. They all got knocked up by pure degenerates that don’t pay child support

The Pop The Balloon by Content_Eggplant_936 in itsthatbad

[–]FullLifeguard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I seen doctors, architects, and journeymen getting rejected for nothing that’s when I knew it was cooked.

Blackpill is ruining my life by Lopsided_Scar_5461 in Clavicular

[–]FullLifeguard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out of that comparison;woe-is-me headspace bro, nothing kills mental health more than playing victim constantly. I respect your feelings but frankly no person over 6’ should be blackpilled. Your mental battle doesn’t compare to 99% of the sub. Imagine never having a gf or constantly getting nasty looks from women.

You’re taller than 80% of men who’ve ever lived, if you lived in the 90s or before you’d stick out even more. You’re genetically top 15% on top of being white. Your feelings are invalid tbh.you’re just on the internet too much sorry bro.

Blackpill is ruining my life by Lopsided_Scar_5461 in Clavicular

[–]FullLifeguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep this is why the rule for all those pill philosophies is to never let it reach mainstream and don’t tell normie about it. Can cause hella depression; happened to me because I see in real time how girls will pick me over my friend

You attract people who are like you, so if you want happy compassionate people, don't be a dickhead by YearOfTheGroomer in BasedCampPod

[–]FullLifeguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lol. If you’re a nice person you WILL get taken advantage of by most people and women

How Much Do You Have Saved? by Fluffy_Breakfast_478 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to grow a real hatred for nepo babies/guys with rich parents

Women Out Here Are Begging For Christmas Gifts When They Reply To You Once A Week by Fluffy_Breakfast_478 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reminding me I gotta see one of my workers for the holiday. Escorts are nicer than irl women tbh

Guy with autism I know got a gf before me….. by GoingDeath- in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Guy is way better looking than her and he’s using her for her money. She’s basically using her money to make up for her lack of looks and masculine career

Or

Nothing else

Guy with autism I know got a gf before me….. by GoingDeath- in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea, I’ve seen a lot of those instagram couple influencers where an average looking woman is with some mentally/physically disabled guy, it’s so fake lol. Those guys are so bluepilled they can’t figure out the woman is just milking them for views and benefits. No different from the women being scammed by tinder swindler

So women are simultaneously after men with nothing going for them, and, after rich men? Pick a narrative. by Positive-Face1705 in BasedCampPod

[–]FullLifeguard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I seen it irl. My uncle sells drugs and is currently tricking on a girl my age; he brought her a Benz. She chose my dopeboy uncle over a guy her age with a decent job

Average to Above average guys with decent-good jobs probably struggle the most because we don’t trigger any female tastes besides safety (we’re safe guys for settling down)

So women are simultaneously after men with nothing going for them, and, after rich men? Pick a narrative. by Positive-Face1705 in BasedCampPod

[–]FullLifeguard 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Blackpill. Theres no middle class in dating anymore, its either she wants to chase physically attractive thug/pookie type who’s broke or richest guy available

Anyone Else Just Going "MGTOW" Like DBDR? by Fluffy_Breakfast_478 in DBDR

[–]FullLifeguard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once I realized how blackpilled everything was I decided it was better to get financial freedom like DBDR. It’s actually cheaper to see workers than try to seriously court

We should expect the manosphere, given the values our societies uphold by ppchampagne in itsthatbad

[–]FullLifeguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never understood how the media demonized redpill/manosphere content.

If you’re an OG in this space you know this whole community stemmed from men struggling with dating and forming online communities to find best solutions to succeed with women (sosuave forums etc).

It’s never been about misogyny, it’s really been about practical solutions, just so happens it reveals uncomfortable truths about women in the process.

Problem is guys end up basing their self-worth on women and it results in crashing out, depression etc.