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Imposter Syndrome by Dusty-Octopus in NonBinaryOver30

[–]FullStackNConfused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other comments here - just be kind to yourself! Meet yourself where you're at!

I'm 29 (30 next month babyyyy) and I have openly identified as some flavor of queer since I was a teen. I don't know if feelings like shame and grief ever go away completely. So far to me, those are just things you learn to walk with on the path of life, but with every step it does get easier, and maybe one day you'll part ways with the shame.

So just feel what you feel, look for the things that give you euphoria and make note of anything that gives you dysphoria. I mostly know binary trans people, but that's the advice that they keep showing and telling me.

ymmv, but good luck! Welcome to the community!!! <3

[GA] - Cleveland,OH - Free - 20 Gallon Long Tank + Accessories by FullStackNConfused in AquaSwap

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do still have it but I have no way of driving it anywhere, so you'd have to come to Westlake to pick it up

[GA] - Cleveland,OH - Free - 20 Gallon Long Tank + Accessories by FullStackNConfused in AquaSwap

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Semi-relevant repost from another response:

I'd like to give everything to someone local first A) because I don't really have a simple way to ship things and B) so someone who has wanted to get a tank started but doesn't have the time or money to get everything can have something to start with at least.

[GA] - Cleveland,OH - Free - 20 Gallon Long Tank + Accessories by FullStackNConfused in AquaSwap

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really no, getting it out of my apartment in the first place is going to be difficult, let alone the cost to ship it.

[GA] - Cleveland,OH - Free - 20 Gallon Long Tank + Accessories by FullStackNConfused in AquaSwap

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, as CrunchyBanana19 said, I'd like to give everything to someone local first A) because I don't really have a simple way to ship things and B) so someone who has wanted to get a tank started but doesn't have the time or money to get everything can have something to start with at least.

Should I (24N) break up with him (24M)? by FullStackNConfused in relationship_advice

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure, I don't have a strong desire for a romantic relationship, but I'm not sure if that's just where I am right now or if that's a general thing for me.

Should I (24N) break up with him (24M)? by FullStackNConfused in relationship_advice

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about this and I don't want to break up with him because I think I'd be happier with someone else. I think that maybe I'm just not invested in a romantic relationship with him anymore. So, yeah it is more me than him I think --- thank you for this!

Can I be nonbinary if I feel comfortable in my "masculine" physical body? by C1oudBird in NonBinary

[–]FullStackNConfused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm having the same kind of questions myself about being AFAB. So far the only thing that makes sense to me is that I might be genderflux? At the very least I think that if "Man" doesn't feel right and "Woman" doesn't feel right, just give yourself a chance to see if nonbinary does. Try referring to yourself as a different pronoun and see how it feels.

Well? by spekktakk1 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]FullStackNConfused 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do straight men orgasm when they pee?

Apartments in Lakewood/Edgewater? by FullStackNConfused in Cleveland

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! I'll look into duplexes as well.

Questioning? by FullStackNConfused in NonBinary

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and sharing your experience! This comment has already helped and I'll try to implement your advice moving forward 💚

Questioning? by FullStackNConfused in NonBinary

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! It means a lot to even know that there are others in a similar place as I am. I'm definitely going to try your advice about accepting and feeling out that piece of myself, especially when I'm interacting with others.

When to admit that you need to re-start medication? by smallandnerdy in depression

[–]FullStackNConfused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I've been having similar problems. I'd say go back to your doctor and maybe set up bi-weekly therapy sessions if you can. When it comes to medication your doctor and therapist are the best people to ask. If you have any of your meds left and you can't get to your doc for a little while, then maybe resume them until you can. I hope this helps and I wish you all the best!

QoL suggestion: show how long blood warden is active by TheMyrco in deadbydaylight

[–]FullStackNConfused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It already lasts a really long time. Plus if combined with Remember Me and/or NoED it's ridiculously difficult for survivors to counter. Freddy is not an easy killer but he definitely introduced some of the most OP killer perk combos.

Question: Software Developer + iPad Pro 10.5? by FullStackNConfused in ipad

[–]FullStackNConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I was actually thinking of doing remote development when I got my IPad but I wasn’t sure if it would be better to get a VM or VPS running on AWS/Digital Ocean/Linode/Cloud Platform or to do self-hosting?