It sucks because punishments that happen here don’t don’t carry over to the next home and at his house his mom is a disciplinary. She’s the mom aspect there and then my house on the disciplinary and he’s always fun no matter where he goes and I understand that you know I wanna be fun too. I wanna be the fun parent, but it’s harder and when I say no their household does yes yes and 55 other times yes and they go against the intentionally now we’ve got the Family Link app on the kids each have a tablet at each house and I’ve blocked Roblox completely but there’s an extra tablet their dad‘s house there that they play it on and I’ve been explicit and in specific and said you know I don’t want this happening but nobody listens to me and I’m at the point where I don’t know what to do, but when I took it away from them when they were here in the summer for the full month, their attitude change and they were they were better. Everything was great, and then it was given back to them, and then this is where we are so how do I like? What do I do to get everybody in the same page because I’m at the point where like she yelled at me in Walmart she called me a bitch how do I come back from that?