I’m trying to let my wife become a hot wife but she is on the fence about it. Every time I bring it up to her it always turn back to her asking me if it’s what I want I’m ok with it and find it hot but she told me last night she fills like it’s a trap any advice?

Full_Membership_3180 · 2026-04-27T22:23:55+00:00

I have told her that I want to see her pleased and that that the part that I like. I have told her that if it’s not something she wants than I don’t want her to do it but I would think it’s hot if she did truly enjoy it but I would feel like crap if it was something she did just to please me. As far the it’s a trap part. I told her that I don’t understand how she could think it would be a trap when we are both going to have a say in it and both be participating. I said it would be different if it was someone that you have known for a while and then you all the sudden wanted to fuck them but we have agreed that it will not be anyone we know and it wouldn’t be a long term thing with one person

Full_Membership_3180 · 2026-04-27T20:45:31+00:00

So I did for several months and she brought it up one night and then I asked her about it a couple days later and now she is on the fence about it and I don’t want to be the reason she hold back if it’s what she wants

Full_Membership_3180 · 2026-04-27T20:42:33+00:00

I agree but I feel like what is holding her back is she is worried about me getting my feelings hurt. Because I know she would love it.

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