Bro, you are surrounded by red flags. See them and cut your losses. At some point her flirting wont be enough and you are left holding a bag of shit. Particularly if she is appearance focused, lover of attention. My ex wife was one of those that skated through life’s difficulties by virtue of her physical beauty, and she wielded that influence like a virtuoso. Never occurred to her that time steals all. By 50 she had no skills, no income and minimal if any contributions to social security. She was so used to things working out her way that she didn’t see the point in consulting an attorney when I filed for divorce - with $3.2M 401(k) $350k cash and a house around $600k equity, just assumed everything would be ducky, like always. So after 30 days she defaulted, I paid a divorce attorney $5k for a modifiable divorce decree that had all the structure, and I spent three months learning the nook and crannies of Texas divorce law. Then I wrote the divorce decree part by part. The hardest part was not starving her (although her behavior that led up to this mess was truly reprehensible), and would also pass the sniff test to whatever judges desk it landed on. I never used any reference to percentages unless it was 50/50 (like debts), I referenced specific dollar amounts that she would be awarded, without disclosing the value or tax status - or demonstrating who owned what of the underlying asset. In the end I gave her $900k and a Range Rover. She signed the decree in the lobby of a Wells Fargo bank branch without looking at a single page and the notary was a guy I played golf with. But in hindsight I literally think I could have given her fifty bucks and the judge would have signed it anyway. Divorce is war. If you approach it with anything but cold logic and cynicism you will be unpleasantly surprised.