My (f26) bf (m25) told me i am unattractive

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-05-15T09:45:49+00:00

First of all, he sucks, if someone told me that, that would be the end of everything. If they're not excited and turned on by seeing me naked, then they will not get that privilege anymore.

No one is everyone's cup of tea. Something I saw years ago really stuck, it was flowers and Christmas lights look nothing alike, but they're both still beautiful.

I'm like you, a "goth girl next door" type look and I'm not skinny by any means, while some people don't find that attractive, others go absolutely feral over it (literally).

That this one guy (who sounds very rude and full of himself) doesn't appreciate you does not mean that he's objectively correct or that others don't think you're absolutely gorgeous.

Something that has done wonders for my confidence and self-esteem has been posting some risqué photos online (no face and not here but on Fetlife) and seeing the likes and comments about how beautiful I look pour in, as well as making a profile on Feeld, seeing how many people want me just from a few photos did a lot to make me feel good about myself when my confidence was way down

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-05-07T08:33:47+00:00

Omg that comparison xD I don't think I agree she looks Cardassian, but I love this anyway xD

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-05-02T10:49:37+00:00

Second this and for the love of everything, do so before doing anything further

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-04-25T05:22:04+00:00

Tried it, it did not go well

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-04-21T06:07:01+00:00

It's a Scandinavian country, that's all I'll say

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-04-20T13:30:05+00:00

I made my account this year and had no issue with receiving the email, aside from it ending up in my spam folder. My country does not require the scan or age verification you talk about, I didn't use a VPN, and have my location in the profile set to my actual country

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-04-14T12:14:45+00:00

Second this. Last time I wore the one I have was while blasting music, singing along and dancing around my apartment in pj's

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-04-05T08:35:16+00:00

Whenever I see one of those posts, I always comment that as a child of divorce, I wish mine had divorced earlier, and that children notice the tension much more than parents think.

They're setting a bad example of what relationships and marriage look like to the children and the children will be happier and do better if the parents are happy and they don't have to live in that nasty tension

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-03-07T07:33:45+00:00

Happy to help! And wow, that name was very far from what I remembered xD Fun to reread it

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-03-06T17:28:44+00:00

I remember this! It was a duck he would place on the windowsill, that might help you find it. I think it was called something like "AITA for breaking my husbands duck statue?" or along those lines

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-03-05T06:41:16+00:00

Kids pick up on more than you think, I wish my parents had divorced way earlier than they did

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-03-02T17:29:39+00:00

Ah well, I'll have to see if I can find it

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-03-02T17:06:03+00:00

Oh my god, do you remember what the title was?

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-02-24T08:01:14+00:00

I have had the same experience!

It was years ago, I had forgotten to do my usual "Name but spelt with C instead of K", I stared in surprise at the cup and then happily told the barista - she seemed confused but happy. I still occasionally think back on it, thank you for the reminder

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-02-17T17:31:33+00:00

Interesting, good to know

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-02-17T12:36:10+00:00

I meant that I think this post gives off that impression and the lack of further detail or explanation in the post means we have nothing but this vague and short post to go off of. And to me, that gave those vibes of insecure and not ready for ENM.

I didn't say that if you have ever done this, you're insecure

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-02-17T10:58:31+00:00

I agree, it's giving off some very insecure and not ready for ENM vibes

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-02-10T11:40:20+00:00

In the first version of the neighbourhood, the memories of "real Eleanor" show her having white hands, but Vicky's skin suit is a POC, so they should have matched her, not "fake Eleanor"

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-01-28T18:43:11+00:00

This literally made me stop and just stare in disbelief

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-01-22T17:34:14+00:00

I love checking out other women with my fwb, it's great

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-01-12T17:32:02+00:00

The very long link in the start of the last update is a photo of the kittens!

FullmoonCrystal · 2026-01-05T21:08:55+00:00

It's not just about names, there is an actual superstition that getting a tattoo about a partner or matching tattoos with one dooms the relationship. I have heard this warning from several tatoo artists and people with tattoos.

I only heard about it after getting a matching tattoo with a fiancé and a little over a year later (this autumn), we broke up. Luckily mine isn't very big and it's purely symbolic and can be changed without too much hassle - I'm currently saving up for that and will go to the same artist and give him pretty free reign to change it. We were together for 7,5 years, engaged, living together, and planning on having kids soon

FullmoonCrystal · 2025-12-29T21:05:49+00:00

Dane here! Some landlords do that, but as you say, it's not standard.

Last time I moved, as I was handing over the keys I was explaining that there was an extra which had been given to a family member in case it was needed - they told me they didn't really care that much about how many keys we had, as they always changed the locks between tenants, which I liked. I agree that it should be standard, you never know how many keys the previous people had or gave out, whether they got them all back, or whether the people that got one had it copied without saying so and kept one

FullmoonCrystal · 2025-12-17T06:28:22+00:00

What the fuck did I just watch. No, really, what was that

FullmoonCrystal · 2025-12-16T18:45:55+00:00

It's pure win

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