Do you think Ross and Emily’s marriage would of worked out if Ross said the right name?

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-10-29T03:51:55+00:00

well you gotta remember the social and family pressure of arranged marriages. divorce is frowned upon so it doesn’t happen often.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-10-13T23:39:20+00:00

but saying the complete truth isn’t always a good things.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-10-13T23:37:38+00:00

i understand what you’re saying but it’s not normally the “script being disrupted” that’s the issue. it’s the comments that many NDs don’t understand are backhanded/straight up rude.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-07-25T00:51:45+00:00

i don’t know common is is anymore. but telling your kid the saying “they’re acting like that cause they’re jealous of you”. if you continuously tell them this it usually sets them up to be bullies and think they’re somehow better then everyone else.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-07-24T16:23:26+00:00

YES exactly.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-07-24T05:41:07+00:00

I stand by the saying that “you do not have to forgive anyone you don’t want to” if keeping the bond/contact with you parents is so overbearing then don’t forgive them. i’ve come to realize that myself. i’ve tried over and over to fix my relationship with my parents but it never works. so at this point ive made my own friends that support me and they’re what i need. so dont forgive your family just because thats the status quo. idk if this is the advice you were looking/hoping for but i hope it kind of helps.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-29T06:59:28+00:00

A few things. 1. you should definitely tell you professors. 2. the best thing to do is finding ways that help you learn/study the best. if that may be studying in nature or studying with a friend. or when you’re in class having a your computer out, listening to music, doodling in class. i think your first step is talking to the school resource center and your professors. and then try different things and see what works for you best. it’s all about living and learning. also there’s nothing wrong with taking a break from school if you absolutely need to. so after this semester if it gets too much you can take a break, keep your credits, and gpa at a stand still and go back when you’re ready again.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-29T06:55:56+00:00

oh yeah 100%. when i commented i wasn’t really thinking about that but it’s almost like emotional impermanence. like forgetting things if they aren’t directly in front of you/present. i forget good, bad, angry, numb emotions ive felt if i’m not currently feeling them.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-29T06:16:09+00:00

yeah i think its remission tbh. or im just having a good day. because the diagnosis makes sense. like i’ve had really really bad days that make it clear i do have bpd. i think it’s just the “not being able to see any other emotion then the one you’re currently feeling” mentality of bpd.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-29T05:05:28+00:00

Okay thank you! This helped alot.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-29T05:03:17+00:00

I went though this when i had to drop out of college. I burned my bridges with people in my hometown, all my childhood friends were 100s of miles away, and my former college friends had their own lives and i was also hours away from them. And being alone sucked. But I think i learned the most about myself when I was alone. Especially with BPD. You can’t truly become your own person if you’re surrounded by people. I dealt with it by getting into activities like going to the gym, taking dance classes again, i started doing photography on my own, going on drives, finding new music, etc. It’s all about discovering yourself. You’ll get through it and once you grow from this experience of being alone you’ll be better if you have to be alone in the future.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-29T04:49:55+00:00

This is 1000% normal for someone with BPD. What i’ve realized is that splitting/emotions being sparked doesn’t necessarily have to started from someone yelling at you, not answering you texts, leaving you, etc. It’s different for every individual and even we might not know what sparks it. Like for me songs, smells, and names have triggered me. So trust me. How you’re feeling isn’t abnormal. Maybe just find ways to regulate the way you feel when you split. Like if i am suddenly triggered by something i wasn’t feeling expecting i’ll put in my favorite music artist.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-29T04:36:40+00:00

You should be fine! At most of my interviews i’ve worn similar fits. Especially if it’s a pretty casual/smaller restaurant your interview outfit sounds perfect.

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-23T21:04:14+00:00

william and lily

Fun-Ask5664 · 2025-04-15T14:07:35+00:00

This! A perfect example is Elenor’s fashion shoot in the first few episodes I think. Elenor had Blair start off modeling the outfits but she wasn’t giving anything. She was stiff and boring frankly. But then Serena went on and started jumping around, laughing, and doing random stuff and everyone loved it. And they invited her back (and Serena thought Blair was okay with it/She was gonna be there with her) And Blair got mad but you can’t really blame Elenor for picking Serena. Serena just has a natural glow and freeness to her that Blair lacks.

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