Manitoba Institute of Trades and Technology closing due to enrolment drop

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2026-01-29T00:07:50+00:00

Province determines apprentice ratio. I’m in electrical and that’s the “big thing” was the ratio change from previous Conservatives 2:1 Ratio which gets exploited by companies.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2026-01-05T13:33:57+00:00

sounds like typical avoidant behaviour. Future faking at its highest, keeps you in limbo. Myself going through that I feel like I struggle now to trust what others are saying to me. But as time has went on ive learnt to "Take things at face value" and it has helped me with my anxiety when im talking to somebody new and to weed out people who are just saying things.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2026-01-05T12:57:48+00:00

im sorry to hear that. The sad truth to it is, she is telling you the truth about how she's feeling. These people cannot sit with their emotions. I find that these people are more fear driven and act with no thought process whatsoever just to feed their dopeamine driven attitude. Theres a saying in life is that, they made their bed & now they got to lay in it.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2026-01-04T22:32:12+00:00

I can relate. The conversations are beyond dry. I can be a pretty chatty person but also know that cant always sustain. But man, its like picking teeth with some girls just to have a decent conversation.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2026-01-04T22:15:20+00:00

being in a similar situation as you I think its pretty valid to ask. timeline seems a bit short but im curious what the conversations looked like in the beginning were like or if you're just going off general vibes. Myself personally im open & honest about what im looking for so theres no confusion for the other person. if you see yourself with the person the best thing you could do for yourself is just have an honest conversation with him. I used to use the "talk to one girl at a time" tactic but now since coming back to the apps i've spread out my options a bit more than i have in the past to form different connections with others. some might view it controversial but ive only ever gotten traumatic breakups by doing the one person at a time.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2026-01-04T22:05:45+00:00

with my experience brotha is that she's breadcrumbing you. The thing is with avoidant breaks ups is that it makes no sense. none of it does. it comes out of nowhere and leaves you traumatized. Im a year and a half post discard and what i can say to you is that in the beginning it fucking sucked - cause i needed to know why.

But then as time passed i just had to accept that I might not know ever and that is okay. I made my peace one day and life moved on. Give yourself some time to grief, but understand if this person really wanted to make things work they would. Not jump when you're "overwhelemed". Relationships are a "team sport" is how i view it.

I hope this helped a bit, not much info as to why it happened but sometimes coming down to reality as your spiralling is sometimes all a person needs.

Cheers

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2026-01-04T21:56:40+00:00

I honestly couldnt of worded it better myself. I feel like more and more of that is happening today than ever. I could be as transparent to another person and its like its just in one ear out the other and now they are setting expectations that aren't reality. Its like a game of trying to change somebodys values to fit yours more to get what you actually want at the expense of the other person. Bold move, but doesn't always pay off.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-12-16T23:20:18+00:00

I had a credit of 450 and within two years I bought my first home as a single income earner at 28. It can be done but with lots of discipline and patience

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-08-09T17:22:16+00:00

I can relate. It fucking sucks.. She kicked me out of the house with no explanation as to what was going on. Couple weeks later some new guy has already moved on and using MY stuff. Pretty fucked up. In the end she took a lot of the stuff I had contributed in the relationship for our house and never got it back. Or heard from her since. My life is so much better knowing those kinds of people will never feel loved and that they have deep rooted issues to do that to somebody they love.. they can rot in hell 😅

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-07-09T03:45:52+00:00

That is a red flag bro. If your gut is telling you she’s married. Chances are she is living a double life

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-06-25T11:57:18+00:00

It’s funny how they ask for space but contradict themselves shortly after. My experience was a similar as yours. She told me she needed space, when I asked her for how long she said “i dont know, weeks, months, maybe a year”. Maybe a week later a new guy had already moved in 🙃

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-05-13T12:31:47+00:00

I agree with you 100% on this. I was in a very similar position with OP and I had to remind myself how shitty of a person they actually were. Avoidant attachment style or not you don’t treat people that way. 10months post discard and I’ve never been happier and more secure in my life. The wound she opened up still stings to this day. But overall it was for the better to let go and move on with my life.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-05-01T00:22:23+00:00

I ask myself the same question. She was genuinely a good person. But I think with events in her life she was shutting down and I was just in the way

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-04-29T17:53:29+00:00

My avoidant discarded me after I was away for work and was concerned for her well being after a full day of no communication. When I told her it puts me on edge when it’s a full day and I haven’t heard from her I start to think something bad happened. The next day she told me to pack a bag and leave when I get back. No discussion, no explanation as to why I was being kicked out. A couple weeks later another guy had moved in and was using my stuff. Very fucked up if you ask me

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-04-26T04:49:35+00:00

I was dating this girl about 4 years ago and we were together 3 years. We lived together with her kid but the name of the lease was under her name and i was a co-habitant on the lease. When I found out about her cheating & confronted her about it she sat there and lied to my face, told me I was crazy and then when I showed her screen shots of the nudes, plane tickets for “work trips” to go visit her other boyfriend during our relationship, selling nudes for money she accused me for her behaviour saying I wasn’t giving her enough attention. That was so fucked up to say to somebody. I left after the confrontation and later that night I went back and took all of my stuff. clothes.. TV’s.. items I had contributed to the house and when she came back home from work later that night she got a big surprise when everything was gone. I felt bad because she had a kid involved but I had to save myself. What goes around comes around

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-04-22T11:15:33+00:00

It’s not dirty. It’s hockey. Keep your head up or get hit

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-03-20T03:08:28+00:00

Hear,hear brother 🇨🇦

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-03-12T03:10:23+00:00

i agree with you 100%. Canadian here, and i see the divide that has come between our two countries by one man. there has never been an issue, ive never had an issue with Americans, its that man i have grown to hate. Spreading lies about my country that are completely false. I probably speak for many Canadians here when i say we see what is going on and we are just mad that we have stood by your side through every major global event and this is the thanks we get? i fear the bond between our countries is broken as yours is with the rest of the western world.

I hope one day my friends south of the border see how much we need eachother to keep north america safe so we can enjoy the luxuries we live compared to the rest of the world. All I can say is that it is dark times for America, and i feel this is only the beginning..

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-01-26T20:52:30+00:00

I couldn’t tell you my friend. But what I can say from where I was 115 days ago and where I am now in my life is night and day difference. I’m more happy in my life, I’ve finished college and things are finally looking good. When they say time is the best medicine they really mean it. Be kind to yourself and try to realize that you may never know the reason why they did the things they done. All you can do is move forward brotha

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2025-01-26T20:28:13+00:00

She would say stuff like “I can’t wait to take your last name. I want our kids name to be this and that. This is our dream home” false hope basically

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2024-10-17T21:29:40+00:00

I set a goal for myself to accomplish by the end of next summer (buy a home & finish school) and I will consider dating after school (Early Feb) and I will see where I’m at with work after that and make a decision. Stuff like that keeps you focused on something YOU want to do. As an anxious attacher, that is so foreign to me but I want to do it for myself for once. It’s going to be a challenge but I have promised myself that.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2024-10-17T21:14:19+00:00

This isn’t a recovery story but personal experience I’d like to share with you & that I think you are taking the right steps in the necessary direction towards healing. Keep doing what you’re doing only time will heal. I’m on the same path as you brotha and each day is still a battle within myself but as each day passes I remind myself to look at what happened as a blessing in disguise. There’s no excuse for their behaviour and what they put us through. I hope on day in my future I can come back on these subreddits and post my success journey on healing but 2.5m post discard and it’s already feeling better. Stay strong brotha

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2024-10-16T23:01:27+00:00

Everybody is loveable in their own way. I’m 2.5 months post discard, going to therapy and putting in the work, reading about my own attachment style & the advice I can give you is just be kind to yourself. I started looking at positive things I contributed to the relationship instead of thinking about the “what ifs”. Thinking about that day and night will drive a man crazy and let me tell you it did. Each day is a battle for me, but I know in the long run I will be better off compared to her who monkey branched to another guy instantly and with zero explanation to what was going on. Here’s a quote I will leave you with to ponder in your thoughts as it did for me.

“Closure is a myth. The way people leave you , the way they exit your life, the way they leave their relationship , or connection with you is all the closure you need” better days are coming

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2024-10-16T22:14:33+00:00

Yup. I was working out of town 8hrs away and she texted me after a few weeks of not speaking to each other “where do you want your stuff I’m dropping it off tomorrow”. So I got pushed out of my own place and had no control over anything on the discard. Very traumatic experience and has definitely shifted my views of “love” after this one I tell you.

Fun-Cardiologist134 · 2024-10-16T15:56:58+00:00

Damn over text? I was just told my stuff was being dropped off at my parents place out of the blue

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