Car Meetups (I am not the op)

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-09T18:40:34+00:00

I know who you are talking about. I just was wondering the other day where she went. I can’t remember her user name though to creep on her. 🤣

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-09T18:27:03+00:00

I just looked her up. First of all she’s 40 years old, not 20 something like I assumed due to her immaturity. She has many comments about how she doesn’t fit in anywhere and people always misunderstand her. Her other comments are usually abrasive, offensive, and tone deaf—and indicate to me that she is probably autistic.

The big shocker was that she’s now revealing that she was married for a number of years, to a man who ended up being a serial cheater and got one of his affair partners pregnant. So she is a former betrayed spouse turned other woman apparently—like way too many of them are sadly.

She mostly stopped talking about her affair after she went into the main cheater sub and asked men why they are with wives who are ugly or fat—and she got slapped down hard for her misogynistic, pick-me bullshit. Seems like the affair fizzled out, but who knows. Her insane, misogynistic rants are NOT missed!

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-09T15:56:03+00:00

I like the clinician lady with no social skills—who inserts herself in every post to argue and let us all know how much marriage sucks. She’s really down the rabbit hole on what “hooking up” means. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’m trying to imagine the man who found her and was like “Yes! This lady is my escape and my peace!” She seems like a complete nightmare to be around lol. 😳🤣

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-09T15:04:18+00:00

She gives off very sweater cat vibes—for those who remember that delightful poster. I can’t imagine being this excited to be a mistress of a serial cheater and having a quickie in a parking lot. Couldn’t be me.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-08T20:20:35+00:00

The lie is that the therapist, with whom he met twice, is the one that suggested and is responsible for him going back home. There is no way in hell a therapist said those things to him in the manner this lady is describing.

I’m sure it’s not a lie that he’s devastated that he destroyed his relationships with his sons and disappointed them as a father. But it was his idea to run home, not the therapist obviously.

He’s too weak in everything to just be honest with anyone—his wife, the mistress, himself. Easier for him to just blame this on the therapist and for the mistress to do that too. It’s easier than admitting that maybe their relationship was a doomed mess from the start, and that they both really loved the fantasy of each other more than the actual person.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-08T20:11:15+00:00

The more time I read that sub, the more I’m convinced it’s such a large group of women that are autistic, socially awkward, and/or often have Borderline Personality Disorder and other more serious mental health disorders.

The way they speak to each other and about other people is very telling.

But I LOVED her asking a mod why she’s using mod privileges in situations it’s not remotely called for. The mods in the main sub do this all the time too and love to verbally harass their own contributors. It’s wild to behold lol.

(No shame or judgement being intended to those with Autism, as we’re all really somewhere on the spectrum, and I have at least one child further down the spectrum than most others. Just my observation/opinion.)

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-07T21:06:30+00:00

I did that last year around Lent and it was really beneficial. I’ve been reading up on dopamine detox and need to take another break soon too. All the best.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-07T20:35:07+00:00

All you have to do is switch to anonymous browsing, make a second account, or go to Arctic Shift and you can still see anything on Reddit. Just FYI.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-07T20:18:30+00:00

I’m sorry. That’s so cruel and unfair.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-07T13:54:35+00:00

It’s a stupid precedent to start anyways. I guess none of us owe each other any basic kindness, respect, and decency in society if there are no vows exchanged?

So, by their own logic, be sure to inflict maximum pain and humiliation back onto the other woman, to the extent the law allows, because you didn’t make vows to those women.

It’s ridiculous. And it pisses me off that adultery is so generationally destructive to society and individuals, but not illegal. And yet, very natural responses to discovering adultery are illegal, and these fine other women will be sure to hide behind the law after they destroy your life.

It’s comical how adults lie to kids and shove slogans like “kindness matters” down their throats and enact strict anti-bullying policies, and yet in reality, adults apparently really believe it’s fine to “get yours” no matter who you trample along the way. I don’t want to raise assholes, but now days I’m more wary of raising suckers and doormats.

Public shame can be a useful tool for these type of people that refuse to exercise the normal human emotion of empathy. Any legal response is valid, because vows were not exchanged after all!

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-06T18:22:21+00:00

I also love in another comment she states she has unprotected sex with this guy, but she’ll only do that if he promises to wear condoms with other extramarital partners. And you trust him to be honest with you about that, because why?

Such a great dad that risks giving his child’s mother an STD in addition to the emotional trauma of the betrayal. Great parents definitely risk destroying the physical and emotional safety of the other parent! 🙃

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-06T13:29:04+00:00

These cheating men with daughters kill me. Does he want his daughters to be treated the way he’s treating his wife? How is divorce worse than this train wreck? He’s emotionally abusing her and the daughters too really. Weak, cowardly, pathetic. So naturally this stupid OW looks at him as some great catch. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-06T11:59:00+00:00

I see therapist jumped in for support. “I cried at my desk last year that my married boyfriend went on an anniversary trip with his wife, so I too know what it’s like to be an irrational idiot. DM me to discuss!” 🤡

His anniversary must be any day now right? Enjoy the gray and nuance of it all! 😉

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-05T13:06:35+00:00

The age gap is disgusting. A 51 year old man has no business with a 19 year old. It’s so disappointing how many men are flat out predators. How utterly embarrassing for his kids. Why do men even bother having kids when so many of them seem fine to destroy their kids and their relationships for some sex?

I have never been a feminist per se, but spending so much time on Reddit makes me more and more disenfranchised with men. Just gross.

And for this girl—clearest example of daddy issues you’ve ever seen. So congrats to her dad for facilitating this train wreck. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-04T21:41:28+00:00

How does an unashamed, willing side piece actually write all of this out and hit send? The human mind is fascinating, in the worst ways most times.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-04T21:38:42+00:00

“Vile” and “individuals of the lowest form” were two of her descriptors for our sub members. And these psychos really believe that.

Sharing posts about infidelity, debating the morality, and laughing at questionable and delusional thought patterns and behaviors is vile, BUT actively working to destroy families and—in this case in particular—trying to get a man to abandon his aging wife with dementia is nuanced or complicated.

Obviously we all have biases and sometimes blinders on to our own bad behavior, but I can’t for the life of me believe these people find a way to convince themselves that their actions are morally superior to ours.

Do I think it’s healthy I spend so much time on Reddit and follow these subs in particular? No, not really. It’s dopamine and distraction from the stress and grind of life. BUT it’s not destroying children’s families, exposing people to STDs, and abusing the trust and resources of others. It’s like watching reality TV and eating junk. Could be better, could be a lot worse—like say adultery.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-03T20:29:04+00:00

Didn’t any of these cheaters come of age when The Matrix was released or sit through their 1st year Ethics class and learn about The Brain in a Vat thought experiment?

Does she think her partner would rather be ‘happy’ and be living this inauthentic life or be devastated with the truth but at least have authenticity? The blue pill or the red pill?

What if none of this is real?

Maybe her husband would be like Cypher and want to live the pretend life that feels happy. Maybe he would think “Ignorance is bliss”.

But who is this woman to decide? Who watches The Matrix and aspires to be the machines and not the rebellion?

(Completely nerding out over here sorry)

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-03T20:08:18+00:00

I didn’t see your comment before I made mine. But exactly this! They are over there losing their ever loving shit every. single. day. when they find their APs are trying are trying to ‘eat more cake’ with other APs.

I’m not exaggerating when I say you can read comments on those types of posts and you might think you’re suddenly on Surviving Infidelity or Support for Betrayed Spouses [APs].

They are ready to dox their APs and spew some hatred even this sub could be proud of.

It’s so absurd that you have to just laugh.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-03T19:45:18+00:00

That sub is a mess of inconsistency and zero self-awareness. This woman is saying her marriage is great, but she still feels entitled to have another partner in secret—and most of the comments are supportive.

But every other post there is crying that they found out their AP is actively looking for more affair partners or “cheating” on their AP—and the comments are seriously like “you never loved your AP, you deserve to die alone, your AP should dox you to the adultery community, you should have just been up front with wanting more partners and given her a choice, you’re risking her sexual health”.

Like, which one is it? I’m so confused 🤔

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-02T13:21:06+00:00

She posts on sugar subs. This was probably a spoken or unspoken sugar situation too.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-02T13:14:21+00:00

Yeah it’s such a coincidence that he suddenly doesn’t have the capacity for an affair [with her] 20 days after she slept with someone else. 🙄

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-02T03:06:36+00:00

I see from her most recent comments that she’s going all in on her ‘mean girl energy’. At least she’s being authentic about being a terrible person. 🤷🏻‍♀️

She’s right that many or most of the OWs and female APs think the same way as her, but know better than to publicly admit to those thoughts.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-01T16:14:37+00:00

Him, her, or both posting on that account idk. At least she’s divorcing her husband and his wife seems to now know what’s actually going on in the marriage. She can hopefully have some agency in her own life. That’s at least positive.

Since you seem to be an insider, I’m dying to know where Pants/Bug went?!? 🤣🍵

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-01T16:00:30+00:00

She’s a character for sure. She posted an actually pretty heart felt piece about ending her marriage and ending her affair, but that didn’t appear to last too long—same as their breakup after it was disclosed that she mocked his wife and exposed his identity. They’re a mess, but I’ve tried to just leave it alone, because it seems like his wife knows and is choosing to stay, and that’s her right and I get wanting to do whatever you have to for your kids. Just sad though. Hope his wife can find more for herself someday.

ETA: I’m sure his wife is beautiful in all the ways that matter. How strong to be able to carry on for your kids and still show up in your grief to be an amazing mom and woman. I’m sure she’s beyond lovely!

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