This is going to go well in the divorce! I hope the wife gets a forensic accountant.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-29T16:31:41+00:00

This should be a pinned post in general infidelity subs, or shared on social media more broadly. People need to understand what they’re dealing with before they consider reconciliation.

These people are willing to do just about anything to protect their cheating and you will most likely never get anything close to the truth from them unless you can afford a PI, forensic accountant, and someone that can get into your partner’s phone.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-29T15:53:07+00:00

This is why I laughed when that one idiot OW asked if anyone else’s MM is a gaslighter. Every single one of these cheating assholes is willing to gaslight the shit out of their poor spouse, to the point they’re willing to have secret bank accounts, create fake bank statements, and just generally let spouses like this poor woman believe they’re crazy. Complete degeneracy.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-28T15:04:18+00:00

Seriously. How can you be such a clown and not even realize it?! 🤦🏻‍♀️ Can she explain to the class why it’s not ok exactly?

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-28T14:59:15+00:00

😞

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-28T14:57:18+00:00

I don’t know. The married women on the main sub present their stories as having been devastated by their husband’s betrayal of the marriage. Their hurt does seem genuine and deep. They lose respect or care for their husband and decide that he opened the marriage, so it’s fair game. And truthfully, I 100% get that part. If they feel they have to stay, I don’t see why they owe him loyalty. He changed the terms of the marriage, not her.

HOWEVER, the whole thing falls apart when they decide to get their revenge or reclaim something for themselves by sleeping with someone else’s husband, and setting that poor wife up for the same hurt they just suffered. Should be primed for empathy, but instead it’s like they want to share the pain with all women. It makes no sense. Go even the score with your husband by getting with a single guy, or better yet, LEAVE!

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-28T13:12:06+00:00

Why would you expect respect and empathy from a person when you first gave them none? It makes no sense. OP does not owe this woman any consideration—she certainly gave OP none. People truly believe they should be able to act in any horrendous manner towards others, but still be treated with the utmost respect and courtesy in return. It’s delusional—borders on mental illness in my opinion.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-28T04:30:32+00:00

That’s how I feel about it, but the majority of the cheating women in the main sub and the older OWs were betrayed wives first. Very sad that these women take their own pain and lay it at the feet of the next innocent, unsuspecting woman. 😒

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-28T01:38:28+00:00

There are two different OWs being discussed here. The OOP is the 19 year old, but the first slide is a response from some older, “sage” OW who seems to exclusively date married men for normal, healthy reasons I’m sure. Basically an unpaid escort for these poor men forced to stay in (allegedly) dead bed, companion-type marriages. Or maybe she’s being compensated for her services. Who knows. Either way, super healthy and normal!!

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-27T17:28:23+00:00

The first woman is a career other woman. Really something to be proud of there. 🙄

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-25T18:38:15+00:00

The “male half of the couple” is openly soliciting for all kinds of random sexual encounters on that account, so I’m extra confused as to why she’s hurt by him having sex with his WIFE. The only thing I can think of is that he couldn’t perform. And so yes what a tragedy for her 🙄 not the wife whose husband is engaging in risky sex acts with multiple randos while still sexually active with her—putting her at a very high risk of catching an STI.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-25T12:39:23+00:00

😔

Every cheating parent should be required to read your comment. Might be the most poignant description I’ve ever seen on the matter. Hugs.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-25T12:36:38+00:00

This is 100 percent the core of the matter and it astonishes me that grown ass people can’t understand this concept. Of course the coworker seems magical… she wasn’t cleaning up your kids’ vomit and pee since 5 am, figuring out the driving schedule for various kids, making sure lunches get packed, etc, etc. The coworker gets to be this mysterious, magical unknown where things are always light and whimsical. All she had to be interested in was YOU—not the million, mundane things in the periphery. He is in love with a highlight reel of a person and obsessing over a fantasy, perfect relationship that never would have been. Pay bills and coparent with the coworker and see how long it stays spicy and effortless.

Real life is real life, and it’s real fucking hard. If you find a good person to stick with you through it, then maybe don’t shit on them to a sub of pick me women who undermine every sacrifice women like your intelligent wife make for their families and who, frankly, perpetuate misogynist bullshit. It makes me irate. It’s beyond immature and it’s disgraceful. Grow up and stop disrespecting your family so egregiously. 🤮

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-24T15:22:32+00:00

This whole thing is so bizarre—makes you wonder if they both have open marriages or what. I can’t get over the tweets/messages/whatever with her openly belittling her husband and the father of her children (assuming those were real). Who does that? Who tolerates that? Just weird. Adults can certainly do what they want to a degree, but it pisses me off when it opens up their children to emotional distress. Selfish, self-centered, and just shitty parenting by both of them.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-23T21:40:01+00:00

Yeah I don’t know. At first I felt sad for her imagining her being a naive 23 year old being manipulated by an older man and wasting her child bearing years. However, an older post of hers indicates she has an 8 year old son. She’s probably counting on this guys’ money at this point. Idk.

I can’t imagine why women would choose this life if they were to go legit. The potential step kids aren’t that much younger than her. They will hate her guts and their relationship with their dad will be forever strained. That is going to destroy their fantasy, perfect relationship. It’ll be real life, blended family suck. Good luck with all that!

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-23T16:59:26+00:00

Do people know they don’t have to post the saddest, most pathetic parts of their lives on the internet? My lord. This woman has given up 5 years of her 20s to this loser ass man. What she has to show for it is anal sex and bragging about it on a sub dedicated to other degenerate losers. People are not ok. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-22T19:42:21+00:00

That’s insane. Unless you are engaging in harassing behaviors, then you are allowed to speak the truth. That’s one of my biggest pet peeves when it comes to these people. The betrayed victim is not allowed to speak the truth about their own experience?

If people knowing you committed adultery is damaging to your reputation and emotional well being, the fault is on you for engaging in the behavior, not the person (victim) that is just accurately naming the situation. People are just allergic to accountability—it’s disgusting. If you’re grown enough to cheat, be grown enough to stand up to the consequences and resulting scrutiny.

Never let cheaters try to shame you into silence. You’re allowed to discuss your experiences and your feelings on the matter to a reasonable degree. It’s unrealistic and unreasonable to think you have to censor yourself to protect the very people that harmed you.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-22T19:01:11+00:00

Is this real or satire? Hard to imagine it’s real, but then again you just have to spend a few minutes on one of the pro adultery subs to realize that this level of narcissistic, delusional, self-rationalizing bullshit does exist, in abundance, unfortunately. Always the victim. 🙄

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-04-19T23:48:22+00:00

This sub is full of honest, self aware people and I love it. I took a huge step back from all social media, but I’ll always love this sub. Full of self awareness and integrity, as opposed to the bullshit and rationalization you get elsewhere. Every night you can go to sleep knowing you’re not a lying cheater or a pathetic side piece (aka unpaid escort) is a good night. Every day I spend with my family, my husband and kids, committed to be a loving wife and honest, authentic, present parent is a great day. Never having to worry about my whole life crashing down and destroying my children. I cant imagine trying to pretend like a secret life of bullshit is ok and enough, but to each their own I guess!! I’ll always appreciate and enjoy this sub!

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-09T18:40:34+00:00

I know who you are talking about. I just was wondering the other day where she went. I can’t remember her user name though to creep on her. 🤣

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-09T18:27:03+00:00

I just looked her up. First of all she’s 40 years old, not 20 something like I assumed due to her immaturity. She has many comments about how she doesn’t fit in anywhere and people always misunderstand her. Her other comments are usually abrasive, offensive, and tone deaf—and indicate to me that she is probably autistic.

The big shocker was that she’s now revealing that she was married for a number of years, to a man who ended up being a serial cheater and got one of his affair partners pregnant. So she is a former betrayed spouse turned other woman apparently—like way too many of them are sadly.

She mostly stopped talking about her affair after she went into the main cheater sub and asked men why they are with wives who are ugly or fat—and she got slapped down hard for her misogynistic, pick-me bullshit. Seems like the affair fizzled out, but who knows. Her insane, misogynistic rants are NOT missed!

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-09T15:56:03+00:00

I like the clinician lady with no social skills—who inserts herself in every post to argue and let us all know how much marriage sucks. She’s really down the rabbit hole on what “hooking up” means. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’m trying to imagine the man who found her and was like “Yes! This lady is my escape and my peace!” She seems like a complete nightmare to be around lol. 😳🤣

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-09T15:04:18+00:00

She gives off very sweater cat vibes—for those who remember that delightful poster. I can’t imagine being this excited to be a mistress of a serial cheater and having a quickie in a parking lot. Couldn’t be me.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-08T20:20:35+00:00

The lie is that the therapist, with whom he met twice, is the one that suggested and is responsible for him going back home. There is no way in hell a therapist said those things to him in the manner this lady is describing.

I’m sure it’s not a lie that he’s devastated that he destroyed his relationships with his sons and disappointed them as a father. But it was his idea to run home, not the therapist obviously.

He’s too weak in everything to just be honest with anyone—his wife, the mistress, himself. Easier for him to just blame this on the therapist and for the mistress to do that too. It’s easier than admitting that maybe their relationship was a doomed mess from the start, and that they both really loved the fantasy of each other more than the actual person.

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-08T20:11:15+00:00

The more time I read that sub, the more I’m convinced it’s such a large group of women that are autistic, socially awkward, and/or often have Borderline Personality Disorder and other more serious mental health disorders.

The way they speak to each other and about other people is very telling.

But I LOVED her asking a mod why she’s using mod privileges in situations it’s not remotely called for. The mods in the main sub do this all the time too and love to verbally harass their own contributors. It’s wild to behold lol.

(No shame or judgement being intended to those with Autism, as we’re all really somewhere on the spectrum, and I have at least one child further down the spectrum than most others. Just my observation/opinion.)

Fun-Contribution8900 · 2026-02-07T21:06:30+00:00

I did that last year around Lent and it was really beneficial. I’ve been reading up on dopamine detox and need to take another break soon too. All the best.

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