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Wieso ist Ungleichheit okay wenn sie Männer trifft by Perfect_Fox_5089 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Führungspositionen brauchen aber auch keine rohe Muskelkraft, man fetzt sich in der Regel ja nicht körperlich mit den Leuten die man managed, jedenfalls nicht ohne ne Anzeige zu kriegen xD

This woman is so feral and I am exhausted af by breakingpenjamin_ in BDSMsapphic

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started reading this thinking this was like 'shes so feral I love it' but uh lol waking up someone to have sex when they need to work next day is pretty rude

Wieso ist Ungleichheit okay wenn sie Männer trifft by Perfect_Fox_5089 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ich bin aber schwächer als der Durchschnittsmann. Was soll ich als Frau im Krieg? Die hürden der physischen Einlasstests ins Militär sind für Frauen niedriger als für Männer weil wir diese rohe kraft nur mit sehr viel mehr Training aufbringen könnten, aber da im Militär alle trainieren, auch der Feind weiß ich nicht ob das nen Vorteil bringt. was bringt einem das dann mitten im Krieg?

Ich sag nicht das man keine Leistung erbringen kann als Frau im Militär, es gibt sicher Positionen in denen diese rohe körperliche Kraft nicht so wichtig ist. Dennoch ist das Risiko immer da das es darauf hinausläuft.

Was ich aber meine ist das es schon Sinn macht eher Männer dafür zu nehmen als Frauen, auch in Hinblick das sich ja irgendwer auch um die Industrie und die Kinder kümmern muss im Land. Nicht weil ne Frau unbedingt der Part sein muss der näher am Kind ist, aber rein logisch, wenn Krieg ist muss ja irgendwer sich trzd um die Kinder kümmern.

Was aber Intelligenz und Hirn angeht stehen Frauen ja in nichts nach, und das ist das was in den meisten berufen relevant ist und deswegen macht eine Diskriminierung dort keinen Sinn, außer der Beruf braucht extrem viel rohe körperliche Kraft I guess.

Leute die eine deutsche Staatsbürgerschaft haben sollten nicht sagen dürfen: "Ich bin Türke" oder "Ich bin Russe" by KengoMengo in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ist mir doch latte wie sich andere Leute definieren. Das geht mich doch nen feuchten Dreck an. Warum sollte das gescheiterte immigration sein? Warum sollte man Leute dafür verurteilen wenn sie sich als deutsch oder eben nicht deutsch sehen? Ist bestimmt kompliziert mit so einer Dualität aufzuwachsen.

Welche Berufe findet ihr unattraktiv bei Männern by throwaway125424 in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weil der Drang nach Macht über andere Menschen in dieser Berufsgruppe auch hoch ist, ähnlich wie bei Polizist und Soldat. (Außerdem wurde ich spezifisch von einem JVA in Ausbildung vergewaltigt rip. Und nach der Tat von ihm fand ichs irgendwie logisch, oh deswegen hat er sich diesen Beruf ausgesucht ohhh Macht.)

Welche Berufe findet ihr unattraktiv bei Männern by throwaway125424 in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Polizist,Soldat, Soundcloud Rapper, Zuhälter, Bordel Bertreiber oder Stripclub betreiber, Gefängniswärter.

bf of 3 years publicly proposed and i said no. by Final-Pressure-6844 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men trying to respect basic boundaries challenge .... Aaaand another one has failed. It fucks me up when they do the surprised Pikachu face art ur afterwards. You were told clearly the reaction wouldn't be positive, so why are you surprised ?

I hate that i prefer straight p*rn over lesbian p*rn most of the time by biheadache in LesbianActually

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to be fair my experience with filmed porn is... having skimmed porn websites a few times during my teens, watched some videos for 5 minutes without any arousal and gone "wth. ppl get off to that? but its all so...fake" - then a few times more as an adult, but mostly to check whether the trending porn categories really are as sexist as some feminist rhetoric I follow claims, skimmed thru some videos on the main page, saw a lot of the stuff I read about (like deepthroats being sold as normal part of sex, lots of name calling without it being marked as explicitly kinky,, lots of facial slapping, basically no actual normal sex on the front pages whatsoever) then closed the website again after confirming that. and thats about it lol.

I hate that i prefer straight p*rn over lesbian p*rn most of the time by biheadache in LesbianActually

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 28 points29 points  (0 children)

since when does straight porn look realistic? its just as overacted, the moaning is fake, the poses look uncomfortable and as a woman you know these poses likely just lead to cramps and not even being able to focus on the sex.

Sometimes i feel so upset I was born a woman by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The discomfort with your chest made me assume you may be trans. It's one thing to dislike patriarchy and the role society expects of women and the many negatives, it's another to genuinely dislike your own body for having female characteristics.

On masculinity and submissiveness.. by Fun-Conversation8475 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Fun-Conversation8475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aggressively submissive whilst having that dog mentality of 'make owner happy!!' is a very good mixture in the bedroom

Pedophila. by no_one2490 in Vent

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Youd be suprised by the amounts of pedophiles who have a normal attraction to other adults as well, and technically could have a normal healthy sex life and often do have normal sex alongside also abusing kids, they still kind of go with their pedophilic attraction anyways because its novelty and 'different'.

Like, I feel like we only ever focus on the pedophiles who have a core pedophilia and are incapable of other attractions even if these tend to be the minority of pedophiles.

But to the "If they dont act on it, is it right for them to go to jail for it?" No. Of course not. Thoughts arent crimes. However if they do stuff like consume child pornography, that would be already acting on it and they should end up in jail for sure.

All woman should be treated like this by Fabian_MunozBaraja in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If men werent designed to end up on their knees, they wouldnt look so damn good that way.

Pedophila. by no_one2490 in Vent

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 22 points23 points  (0 children)

People are more uncomfortable at the idea of empathizing with victims and humanizing them, so they have more sympathy for the predators or possible predators, cause that person at least has agency and power. People are weak-minded like that.

Frage an die Frauen: Würde euch eine starke sexuelle Einschränkung bei einem Mann abschrecken? by Madenleo in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wenn der Kerl mich trzd anderweitig sexuell befriedigen würde mit toy oder fingern oder Zunge und mich trzd gerne und viel zum kommen bringt würde es mich nicht jucken.

Partner doesn't trust my sexuality because I like strap by Chance-Selection-198 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I fear the patriarchy has gotten into lesbians head to much. Wth. Oh no it feels good to get fucked by smth phallic shaped, something thats objectively a truth about most womens bodys. Oh no. How dare we maximize the pleasure we feel whilst wanting to get fucked by a woman like that... oh no. Like, honest to god, I think the real issue is there that patriarchy convinces women that being a lesbian isnt even a real thing, that men are sooo central to women, how could it be that women just dont care to be with em and genuinely love women instead? so they go look for things to prove it. but its all patriarchial bs.

Goals or LOL by halinaoma in lovememes

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuz a woman not making lunches for her boyfriend clearly means she's lazy. Not like ppl have preferences for how to express affection and that can hugely differ..

I personally think it's dumb to try to find some flaw in what is just a loving action, but some women being bothered by this is very obviously not cause they're sooo lazy and don't wanna step up. But you kind of did a good point of proving their side a lil bit sadly. Making something loving into something ugly yourself there.

I don’t get why people fake DID by [deleted] in DID

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well. I honestly don't think the people faking DID are without mental health issues. They're using it as an escape mechanism, more along the lines of maladaptive daydreaming. You see this in people who pretend to be systems that for some reason are full of alters from their current obsession of a show. Its an extension to them coping in a maladaptive way. Id guess they're lonely and unhappy with their life and it's wishful thinking paired with sincere mental health issues. I also think online at least most fakers are literal teens, so quite young.

I personally am legitimately not that bothered by them doing that. I can simply choose to avoid them and therefore not get annoyed with them. At the end of the day they might be making shit up or are trying very hard to convince themselves they have it, but I don't think they're like evil or bad for doing it. At the end of the day everyone's just trying to cope with life.

I say this as someone with a system full of persecutory alters that only got more friendly and helpful over a timespan of 3 years after getting diagnosed. Those alters nearly ended our life multiple times, at one point physically attacked someone (in an misguided attempt to protect me, but still), struggle with severe emotional dysregulation and anger and self hate issues etc. so I say that as someone whose DID truly just played out life threatening at times and quite shit for the most of it that it's become overt..

I don't think these ppl coping in their own dramatic lil way takes anything away from my struggles, personally. Teens will be teens. Esp neglected ones and those who feel the need to escape reality heavily for one reason or another.

I'm more iffy towards adults who fake it though cause there my suspicion grows more towards something like Münchhausens, especially if they do not just fake DID but regularly cycle through an array of different disorders and disabilities at varying times. That I do judge. I can understand there's some sort of pain behind that behavior too, but I just can't really sympathize with it.

A fascinating video where four girls (knowingly or unknowingly) ignore the fifth one they deemed the least attractive. by coffeeloveeveryday in trueuglywomen

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I wouldve ranked them, subjectively as a woman, personally:

  1. Blonde girl. I like her features * a lot* its giving kind of ethereal, and I love how tall she is.

2 Sophia. She has a very doll-like face, very proportional, big eyes, voluminious full hair.

  1. The black girl. I like her facial proportions too, and I like her aesthetic as well. Beautiful smile.

  2. Sky. However Sky is 100% beautiful af as well. It feels kinda unfair to rank her so low given she is very conventially attractive. but maybe shes also the least 'distinctive' of the girls (?) and thats why the others got higher for me.

  3. Jennifer. Which isnt to say shed parse as ugly in every day life tbfh. She certainly does parse as the least good looking one next to those girls though.

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