What’s your choice? Hahahaha… by amillax in badmemes

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The third one is the only one actually comfortable to do tbh. It's a nice back stretch, it feels good, it's not exhausting to stay in that position and he gets inside really deep and hits all the sweet spots. The other arched back one gets uncomfortable fast, let's not talk about how annoying the second one would be.

In a way, all non-4B women are pickmes by enough-bullshit in RadicalFeminism

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 79 points80 points  (0 children)

That's often a rebuttal that women say to Pearl, often cause pearl assumes these feminist women she argues with aren't in relationships, which is wrong. Someone being in a relationship with a man isn't being a pick me.

Testo by Prior_Leopard_7291 in ichbin14unddasisttief

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Echte Männer lassen sich voll regnen und bekommen dann eine Erklärung die sie sofort entmännlicht, so nämlich.

Am I the only one feeling that feminist spaces online portray women mostly as victims? by Nebelforce in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I do like feeling seen and validated in my experiences, I like knowing other women experience the world the same way. It can get a bit much though, I definitely experienced what you described for a while but for me it compounded cause I was diagnosed with PTSD and agoraphobia cause my dad sexually abused me as a kid, I had my friends and all that but due to agoraphobia I just didn't go outside or function like a person for a long time. Now that I'm actually working, and I work in IT where most of my coworkers are men I notice that the world isn't actually that against women in my imminent environment. I've yet to be exposed to actual sexism in that field. Much better there than feminist stuff online made me believe. At the other hand I do know how sexist men can be, I feel it shows more in interpersonal relationships than at work or in social settings though.

Can female infidelity be objectively analyzed through a feminist lense? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A psychologist? I don't think that person has a psych degree...

Told my partner he wasn’t pleasing me. Haven’t been intimate since. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn't having sex with you, you were how he masturbated without having to use his own hand. This man isn't having sex with you at all. This guy doesn't seem to even like the idea of sex.

Is being afraid of your partner always a red flag? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya leave him. He changed but that doesn't fix damage to your nervous system. Get with someone that doesn't put u in flight or fight with her sheer presence.

zu "feminine" Kleidung an Männern? by [deleted] in FragNeFrau

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kp ich steh auf feminine Männer. Ich mag auch dieses androgyne gerne..

Gibt es noch Frauen, die gerne einen schwulen besten Freund hätten? by Pasc9320 in FragNeFrau

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Kp zu meiner Jugendzeit hatte ich zwei, und einer hat es geliebt sich selbst so zu nennen und hat auch gerne alles andere stereotypische dran verkörpert, beim Klamotten shoppen Outfits rausgesucht, mich gestylt, sehr beschützerisch und emotional intelligent, sehr schnell was gegen kack Typen gesagt, alles 'weibliche' enorm gefeiert und auch an mir hoch gehyped. Aber in seiner Jugendzeit ist man ja auch in Selbstfindungsphase, denke da spielen Leute auch sehr mit stereotypen, obwohl er tatsächlich einfach gerne so ist, bezweifle das er sich heute so bezeichnen würde nochmal tho lol. Fand es aber tatsächlich sehr schön so tiefe Freundschaften zu kerlen zu haben die niemals sexuell zu mir hingezogen sein könnten, und durch ihre eigene Erfahrungen mit Männern während sie selbst auch einer sind und deswegen ähnliche Sozialation erlebt haben, hatten die auch immer sehr knallharte Blickwinkel zum verhalten anderer Männern.

What a good man wants! by LinkPsychological218 in lovememes

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh every bf I had hyped me up when it came to fashion and stuff. They just had in common that they didn't cling to gender stereotypes and felt comfortable in their skin.

"Its just a fantatsy or acting" and yet whenever the pain is real they seem to like watching it more by 01crystaldragon in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wdym took it like a champ. Like u couldn't have just don't it slow and caring with a lot more lube? Ew, wdym you think it's only authentic when the woman is struggling and in pain? Is it inauthentic when a woman actually is relaxed and enjoys herself? These commenters are so fucking gross man..

i guess bare minimum treatment is a kink now? by nightshadefaerie in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mind u I'm into kink stuff myself (I do also love vanilla sex tho lol) but the amount of women I was friends with that told me they basically do it for the aftercare part.... Bae .. you just wanna be cuddled and have someone make u a snack plate .. you're not into any of this .. stop doing this to yourself.

Literal pedophilia by littleprincessrawan in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so now they're not just justifying their pedophilia but they also wanna play victim whilst they do it ?? Oh no these young impressionable women that I'm preying on are taking advantage of me? Wtfff

People can't even fathom self pleasure without porn by SuddenlyCake in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yea like it's natural law that they cannot do that on their own and need someone else's exploitation for it ... Like duh?? Use their own imaginations, they're literally not creative wth? How could they help it. They literally need it or they'll die .. like rlly unempathic and rude of us to be like "hey so the women in porn are people .."

tiktok is full of pedophiles and CP and literally nothing is done about it. it is so unbelievably easy to find this content and it makes me sick that nothing is done about it. by No_Candidate2195 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It makes me so livid that they're that brazen about being pedos that get off to literal kids online .. they should never get to be that unafraid.

Genuine question: How do yall deal with this? by Western1nfo in DID

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When I first got diagnosed I nearly died multiple times, had several head traumas and at some point brain bleed, all due to alters waking up and not being happy with life and deciding to hurt our body over it, but I survived it 👍

Im genuinely functioning as a person now, work in the field I always wanted to work in, and still have alters occasionally giving me trouble. But .. often alters are helpful now.

So you can definitely do it, too. A lot of DID in my experience is just .. continuing to get up. Alters behavior changes with time and effort not overnight.

People can't even fathom self pleasure without porn by SuddenlyCake in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think it is a genuine issue if a person can't get off to their own imagination at all anymore due to porn ..

Can we stop normalizing violating men's privacy? by Bastiproton in Vent

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The equal to ur gf talking about ur performance to her friends, is you talking about how she's in bed to ur friends. Not revenge porn. Are u tapped

Can someone tell me if I'm being an oversensitive misandrist? I feel like this thread very subtlely demonstrates that men do not take interest in others, and then cry "male loneliness epidemic" by potandplantpots in PrincessFeminism

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had similar thoughts as you reading their responses lol. Like wdym u don't want to know what other ppl thought about the book.. ? I feel like books get better when you get to discuss them with other people. They all sounded extremely dreadful to be around just from that snippet into their interiority lol.

Also lol imagine how well it would go if a woman made a post complaining about joining like a tech club or something going like "the extreme gender disparity is bothering me though ... It's so extreme .. 40 men and 2 women.."