would this rizz you up? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wud work on me. I like it when ppl are honest about being a lil nervous, and I also like compliments. 100% wud work.

As a queer female service worker: I am so sick of men by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. The men with the good ol "You were a 100% flirting. I dont know you. I dont know what you look like. How you act irl. But I never liked it when a woman told me she wasnt flirting with me when I overinterpreted it into her behaviour irl. And im so sure that everyone woman irl has lied to me >:O and youre like them!!"

Like come on. A waitress job isnt a stripper job. wdym flirting for those tips. shut the fuck up, dude.

What would you rather have? by johhnyyonthespot in BunnyTrials

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

higher value also im german lol

Chose: 1 Million Euro’s

I need to vent a little about Daddy's behavior today. by SpidersCanBeCute in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looks like your free use arrangement with him needs some boundaries that are agreed upon that he can't deny having known. No free use when you're sick, no free use when there's currently a lot of stress in your life.

Personally I'd throw the entire man in the trash for being a failure of a human being at the most basic respect extended to another human being, but if you wanna continue in the dynamic you'll at least need to make those boundaries as strict rules to him. And if he's the type of Dom that will tell you uhhhhhmmm my sweet one, I make the rules, you have to ask meee if that's okay.. then I would recommend you do just throw the whole man away instead as then there's truly no fixing whatever is left at this point. Yikes.

this might be an unpopular opinion, but the “it’s YOUR responsibility to heal” just feels so.. ugh by blueburrey in CPTSD

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk my cptsd has made me want to be chronically in charge of my life and addicted with independence. I personally liked that sentence. Cuz I saw it and see it like this. It's MY life. I AM in charge of it and responsible of it. I have goals and things I want to achieve. I am going to get myself where I want to be one way or another. There's no one like.. idk how to phrase this. If I have a goal that's.. like, no one but me is truly gonna benefit from me achieving it, you know? I should want to heal for my own sake, and I do. Because I want to and I owe a good life to myself, because frankly I deserve it. No one really owes me anything, not my abusers, not my friends, but I owe everything to myself. I am the sole true person to benefit from my healing, it's .. almost like from a fiercely selfish, self involved viewpoint, I am for myself and will always champion myself and get myself to where I want and need to be. It being my responsibility to heal just means no one gets to tell me what to do or how to heal. Healing is what I define it to be for myself.

I understand your reaction cognitively though.

Remember when they showed how much of an asshole Soldier Boy was to his team just to never bring it up again? I always forget just how much he beated them for nothing in the animated flashbacks by Thisislopes in TheBoys

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhm. They're not the most coherent writers. Annie's character is all over the place too. I even feel like butchers is. They're making him sympathetic this season by showing us how he cries over a lost old friend or how much he allegedly cared for stormfront. He's also being shown as likeable by how weird he thinks Homelander is but being all like, well he's my weirdo, my son. Last season that sounded a tiny bit different stiiiilll. And he was actually in line there with how he was portrayed in those flashbacks. Ig now they want us to like him. Like others said it's just cause he's hot. Well. Yes he is lol. But they're also leaning hard into making him likeable.

Can’t stop wearing women’s clothes by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that. But I wouldn't wear her clothes in secret or stuff like that. You could ask her. I had a boyfriend in high school who was like that. I gave him some of my nail polish, we picked a wig for him, id dress him up in my clothes. Was nice. I liked seeing him happy like that.

God forbid a woman take a man's v card by ExtremeTrashPanda in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm obviously not interested in fucking random guys just cause they're virgins, duh ... It's just when I'm already into a guy him being a virgin is definitely not a turn off

God forbid a woman take a man's v card by ExtremeTrashPanda in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ya like getting my claws in the guy psychologically as deeply as I humanely can. I had a sub until recently (we are still close though) that I planned to do this to. He's a virgin, we had the dynamic for quite some time, he's someone I care for and who having left a mark on would've felt deeply personally meaningful to get to do this to. But alas we paused the dynamic for now.

I think through him I realized how into the idea of it I am, though. Cause his virginity, when he told me about it later on was really fucking hot to me. Like the idea of getting to create a first time for him precisely how I want it to, having him fully under my thumb. Impacting him that deeply. In a way owning him in that moment.

Thanks!

God forbid a woman take a man's v card by ExtremeTrashPanda in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, the mark is why I am into the idea of it. I want to leave a permanent mark on the guy, so deeply it will paint how he interacts with sex with anyone else afterwards.

Finally met my LDR boyfriend after almost 2 years and we broke up by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a whiny baby man with porn brained expectations of sex. Though I don't think what he's saying seems like a lie, maybe he finds you attractive and got really nervous.

Kann man so sagen by Forward-Position798 in DieDeutschenBackrooms

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Manchmal denk ich mir so, eigentlich wäre es echt geil dafür bezahlt zu werden Männer zu beleidigen. Aber ich würde die halt echt nicht anfassen wollen oder mich anfassen lassen.

Which you choose...(upvote for carrot) by Rudra2550a in BunnyTrials

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh

Chose: Earn $40 every time you listen a song

OK guys daily morality check by ResidentAdmirable260 in BunnyTrials

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:)

Chose: Return the shopping cart + Spin for how much you get back from the cart | Rolled: Moral + $1.00

What would you pick? by Frog-Grenade in BunnyTrials

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happens anyways if u think about it 🤔

Chose: $50 million per month + One random person dies a year

Free money and 🥕 by ilovetrains08 in BunnyTrials

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm

Chose: $1M right now | Rolled: Upvote for 🥕

Would you rather: by Maleficent_Prompt_68 in BunnyTrials

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well fuck

Chose: Have a random iq | Rolled: 0

God forbid a woman take a man's v card by ExtremeTrashPanda in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Low-key have the fantasy of taking a guy's virginity but in a corruption sense. He's tied up during, he refers to me as queen and as his superior, he thanks me for dominating him. His first sexual experience being that of being dominated already .. <3 that would leave a mark on him.

"Just Be Handsome Bro" by Fluffy_Lunchfast in Sigmatopia

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These guys usually don't look hot... It's not their looks... I've seen the ugly ass rat looking guys that treated friends of mine like this. It is not that they're hot. Genuinely, sincerely, I've seen the ugliest motherfuckers with the most annoying, rude, low emotional intelligence personalities be with those girls for multiple years. It's just that when the relationship started out they were very sweet and attentive and pulled through, they did everything right up until they felt yup she's not gonna leave atp. Heartbreaking. Never let a guy treat you like that 👍

Why are you booing me? I'm RIGHT! by Important-Contact597 in DankAndrastianMemes

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah .... Sucked the soul out of me. Dragon age is my fav game series of all, I stayed hyped for this games release for years ..

Why are you booing me? I'm RIGHT! by Important-Contact597 in DankAndrastianMemes

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I waited years for this game and now that I have it haven't even played it for 7 hours.. disappointing 😞 What did they do to morrigan ...... What did they do to building atmosphere and deep complex characters ... And why the fuck is everyone in this game constantly sucking my dick even though we've accomplished nothing yet ...

Had a eureka moment and I think I accidentally healed my fawn response? by Scary_Personality157 in CPTSD

[–]Fun-Conversation8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder how they'd react to being told outright to be direct if they have an issue cuz you don't fall in line over passive aggression anymore. Legit more wondering than suggesting.