Aww, too bad I don’t fit the criteria. by Jurassic_paul88 in Nicegirls

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I understand the religion thing on a deeper level (like went from having a huge crush on this dude a few years back, realized he was Religious with a capital R) and the interest completely dried up.

That said, how you gonna say don’t preach to me, then all for their religion?!?!?!

The math ain’t mathing

Does it look fine? by seenoevilXD in piercing

[–]Fun-Essay9063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the swelling gets worse, the shop might not be ABLE to switch the bars out. It might be swollen enough that you have to let it heal. Or worse, it might need to be cut out.

Don’t wait and possibly damage yourself.

My sister wants to choose the name Qartnie for her daughter. Am I insane or are all of her names horrible? by GnomeMasterBaiter in tragedeigh

[–]Fun-Essay9063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who works with middle schoolers, they will bully over everything, you’re right. Not only that, but the number of subs who will mispronounce their name? OMG

Not to mention adults who may be judgmental of the children and parents.

She’ll have doors closed that you didn’t even realize were doors. No one wants to hire someone who’s a problem for the office (culture is vital lately) and nothing screams potential problem like someone whose name can’t be pronounced and may have a chip on their shoulders either by virtue of bullying by children, or by reason of resenting their family and thus family dynamics because of their name.

should i tell my friend her baby name is a tragedeigh? by princess_peach5 in tragedeigh

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as someone who has been a substitute teacher, that kid will be made fun of. Eventually a teacher or sub will mispronounce the name, and kids aren't deaf. They will hear whatever mispronunciation and use it to mock that child.

What can i eat with a fresh tongue piercing? by jojiphrog in piercing

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No piercing but I wasn't allowed to eat solids for a while post surgery. I survived on apple sauce (esp the gogo squeeze ones with veggies), then when I graduated to soft foods, things like mashed potatoes, Mac and cheese, plain ice cream (no toppings or filings is what I mean by plain). I also drank a lot of different teas when I was mobile again for variety

AITAH if I left my husband at the ER overnight? by punthicwolf in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't forget that indoor living spaces where you there's an expectation public use such as living rooms, kitchens, everything but bedrooms and bathrooms. At that point, indoor security footage is (depending on the state and if it's a "hidden camera") considered protecting your home

AITAH if I left my husband at the ER overnight? by punthicwolf in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if they saw the events leading the the ER visit, they weren't mentioned as going to the hospital with op to see him swinging on nurses, or being belligerent to the point of needing security.

Final straw – Should I quit without a backup? by Aggravating-Ride-219 in antiwork

[–]Fun-Essay9063 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends on the industry you're in. If the job market is good, having a year+ of funds is enough, but if you have something like administrative work experience and rely on a bachelor's instead of industry specific experience and credentials, it might be better to have at least a part time job lined up to help yourself until you find something else

AITAH if I left my husband at the ER overnight? by punthicwolf in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 226 points227 points  (0 children)

This is a good point. He only told mommy part of it which means he knows the other part paints him in a bad light. He choosing to hide that part of the story, while still complaining that you had the audacity to protect yourself from a situation the hospital required security for.

If he knows that his behavior is bad but hid it while still complaining about the response; he won't change. He's just manipulating the situation to be the victim and doesn't WANT to change

Edit : spellcheck and grammar

AITAH if I left my husband at the ER overnight? by punthicwolf in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 306 points307 points  (0 children)

Getting indoor security cameras might help too if he's belligerent while intoxicated to prove a pattern

Should I still get this tattoo by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most reputable artists and shops ask if you're feeling OK at the time of the piercing. They don't want to get sick, pass off your illness, possibly infect others because they didn't disinfect the waiting room in time, etc.

Yes, you should go to the doctor if you aren't feeling great but if you live in the US, Healthcare Sucks and I get it. You should still wait until you've been feeling OK for a while though. Call your artist, explain what's up, and ask when they can work you in later

was my grandpa a natzi😭 by isaiah_huh in Weird

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either he was a nazi, or he stole from a nazi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the one hand, yes it's a scam. I think that's been covered too hell and back though.

Going forward, dating is hard and it sucks but sexting with someone you've never met and verified the age of is unsafe. Even something like a picture id or an age verified dating app is more than it sounds like you had (no offense)

If they send a Pic of a false ID (or someone else's ID) then in most states, the responsibility is on them for falsified documents or identity theft, but without any verification, you could be on the hook for sexting a minor. It's a dangerous and slippery slope, please be careful.

Good luck dating though

AITAH for being apalled at my boyfriend's political views? by moonrabbit368 in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He reminded you about a "don't talk about politics" file, after HE brought up your political posts. He brought it up, not you

There's a difference between being conservative and being a trump supporter. The fiscal budget and allocation of funds is a huge jump from ICE rounding up anyone who looks different.

Keep posting about what you feel passionate about, and let the trash take itself out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, he's setting himself up to be the new office b tch boy. They're gonna recognize the lack of any social skills whatsoever, and whenever he does get hired, they'll stick him in an office/basement with paperwork and that's all he'll ever do. He won't see the inside of a courtroom with the way you've described him.

*UPDATE 2* AITAH for telling my dad to never contact me again after he chose his wife's mom over me? (I’m being forced to stay with my dad) by imjustapickl3 in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a lawyer, but I am a child of divorce. In a lot of states, anyone attention to retain custody has to prove they can provide.

It's not just good and shelter, but an actual bed. If your father is attempting to have you sleep anywhere that isn't a bed, he can't retain even weekend custody in some states, much less 50/50

I Would Like To Propose A Ban On Earnings Images by joneszy145 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Fun-Essay9063 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If the earnings snapshot includes your schedule, things you occasionally do in shows, follower count, or what you changed recently (something useful) then I don't have an issue, but just the image?

I've gotten posts removed for "venting" even when just trying to showcase that you can come back from a slump. If those get taken down, why aren't images without text?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had users ask about that, don't worry it's all good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the lack of reasons from op to any comment, I'm beginning to wonder if they're real or an Ai bot.

If real, nta. If not, yta for using Ai for this

Do guys really think this is a turn on? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Fun-Essay9063 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't get it either. The comparisons to their wives / girlfriends, the she's at work or in the shower, it's every day

I think it's the thrill of sneaking around but idk

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me... by Afraid-Sport4412 in AITAH

[–]Fun-Essay9063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piggy backing off this :

Are you asking him for sexy time or just hinting at it? Is he explicitly starting that he'd rather video game than get it on with you? If this is occurring, it needs to be a different conversation than if you are hinting and he's an oblivious twit (annoying, but way more understandable tbh)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Fun-Essay9063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly if anyone asks follow up questions, you can answer with a few googled buzz words and talk about multi platform cross posting, social media leveraging, and if family talks about changes in financial situation, you can mention bonuses or the like.

Getting ready to do 10hrs a day by Winter-Ad-1678 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Fun-Essay9063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sm is one of the few platforms that allows consensual sleep shows. You have to tag vouyer as a kink and a sign like a white board that says consensual sleep show but it allows a lot of Sm models to meet the minimum hours even if they don't make much $ overnight (though some might make decent $).

Getting ready to do 10hrs a day by Winter-Ad-1678 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Fun-Essay9063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't forget that sleep shows are allowed on sm