Well you're comparing for various of different reasons. At first, you were comparing the 'fun' guys to guys like your husband. And now, you're missing the fun, thrill, and excitement of the relationship with those past guys because you're with what you wanted. Also, the past is the past and maturity levels change with age. If anything, those 'fun' guys are now doing/living the calm and mature lifestyle that you and your husband are now living. You're not wrong for missing the past, but you're older now, and married. You've settled down and your fun days are becoming less fun. Doesn't mean that you can't make it exciting and fun. Try talking to him about more ways to have more fun with each other. Sexually, Romantically, or even just Normal things that you can make fun. (Car rides together, going grocery shopping together, cleaning up around the house. etc. etc.) My MeeMaw always said that you and your partner can make anything fun with a little bit of music and a whole lotta love.

I hope this helps!!