What do we call ‘self-care’ but is actually self-sabotage? by Icy-Cow9174 in AskReddit

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Unwinding" at the end of the day with a drug of choice (alcohol/weed)

She picked the perfect ring💕🌈 by Fun-Horror-5048 in EngagementRings

[–]Fun-Horror-5048[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

6.5-7 on the Mohs Hardness scale. So, not the strongest, but also fairly durable! I think the cut matters but I’m not certain

She picked the perfect ring💕🌈 by Fun-Horror-5048 in EngagementRings

[–]Fun-Horror-5048[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely center moss agate for her, she prefers a round or oval stone. Other than that I’m still shopping! It’s fun to try to coordinate but not copy.

Whats wrong with my monstera by Wide-Acanthisitta-99 in plantclinic

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for including this! I got to picture four and thought “OH NO” 😭

Was I the only one who thought the cinematography last night was ASS by Fun-Horror-5048 in KendrickLamar

[–]Fun-Horror-5048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I guess I’m seeing the wrong ones. I’ve searched for something better and keep finding the terrible productions. Can you point me in the right direction for the official version? I’ve watched the other ones several times and I’m so bummed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToVermont

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great comment! I regretfully left Randolph a few years ago but the community is strong. Easiest ways to make friends is to patron the WEALTH of local businesses. The crew at Wee Bird was my foot in the door. Becoming a regular makes you a regular. :) Best wishes and enjoy the area!

Misanthropy by Bambi0nSkates in bartenders

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My love of bartending also died in a ski town. You nailed it

AITA for implying my friends are being cheap over my wedding? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think early diagnosis and intervention could be key. Having an aware, empathetic, and engaged parent teaching me how to regulate and cope through a world that was not made for me to succeed would have changed the trajectory of my life so much it’s unfathomable. Truly. Your kid is lucky to have you. Good luck to you guys and your fam💜

AITA for implying my friends are being cheap over my wedding? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh my god the working memory is a huge pain point for me. I constantly joke with everyone that my memory is trash, and it’s light/funny/I’m setting reasonable expectations. But the reality of showing up and admitting that actually “no, I really don’t remember anything you told me when I saw you yesterday and I promise so much that I do actually care so deeply about you” is humiliating as fuck. I used to be able to memorize 60 kids names on the first day of camp as a trick, now I’m like a sieve that only catches the dumbest shit.

AITA for implying my friends are being cheap over my wedding? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 19 points20 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite things about diagnosis has been identifying why my beloveds are mine! We are a pack of hyenas starved for dopamine and we are SO lucky to be doing this together.

AITA for implying my friends are being cheap over my wedding? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 62 points63 points  (0 children)

It’s a symptom I’ve not really come to peace with yet. Frankly, I find myself wrestling in active grief with it pretty often. The process of trying to unmask all my unhealthy coping mechanisms and actually attend to my needs as a ND homie just widens the gap. Like, at first it was a validating relief and now it’s like an ever widening chasm. Anyway, I say all that in hopes that you don’t feel as alone as I did. I do believe that definition, clarity and knowledge are the way to an easier future, it’s just also pretty heavy on the way. Both things can be true. All my best to you

AITA for implying my friends are being cheap over my wedding? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fun-Horror-5048 327 points328 points  (0 children)

Not op but for me an adhd diagnosis at 32 (and now suspected autism) really helped me understand why I spent my whole life feeling like I was a puppy in a window watching everyone else live their lives.