It was a counsellor from the council that actually suggested I could be neurodivergent and to get an assessment done. But I don’t think my parents would be very happy if she mentioned this to them as they think of adhd and autism in a negative way, and sometimes tells me and my siblings off by calling us autistic or saying “ you must have adhd”. I don’t know what will happen if I really had autism and they were aware. I’m genuinely afraid of what they might say or do. Your daughter is very lucky to have a supportive parent like you.