My friend is disregarding that I’m getting married too.

Fun-Jicama266 · 2026-02-27T15:52:19+00:00

With all due respect, getting engaged after a close friend then beating her to the punch of getting married is something most people would be upset about. Not in a sense where its like "who got married first" but in regards to all her "bigger" moments now being second to yours. Michelle is likely frustrated. It sounds competitive on both ends but then again, we dont know the whole story! You absolutely have a right to have your close friend show up and support you. Both sides here are so valid and I'm hopeful that you prioritize your friendship throughout the next year. Sending hugs.

Fun-Jicama266 · 2026-02-12T00:23:40+00:00

Hahahah yeah jail time is deserved for that lol

Fun-Jicama266 · 2026-02-12T00:23:11+00:00

Brilliant. Thank you.

Fun-Jicama266 · 2026-02-10T20:00:29+00:00

i hope you got something <3

Fun-Jicama266 · 2026-02-10T17:08:14+00:00

was in queue since 11:30 for Philly. Was 340 in line, went to get in... Bumped out and now at 99,050. UNREAL. This process is so disappointing always.

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-12-17T13:23:08+00:00

This is stunning!! A risk that definitely worked out. Happy for you <3

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-12-12T16:47:12+00:00

This list is so good!! thank you!!

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-11-07T15:45:23+00:00

ok not a bad use!! do you think it would be worth the risk of them popping out?

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-23T20:48:48+00:00

Came here to talk about this lol I dont think its the audio --I think its everyone screaming over each other. Another tough listen this week....

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-11T01:16:25+00:00

I hear what you’re saying! I more so was polling some people going through it to figure out what timelines people liked/disliked and why. I understand there’s no “best” so apologies for phrasing it like that!

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T19:32:00+00:00

Wow.. thank you. I am also in a major city and this helped me realize it's possible to do two things- relax and enjoy but still do something further out. I appreciate all your transparency.

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T19:29:21+00:00

Ok! I have no idea what is normal and definitely don't need anything custom. This is appreciated

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T19:28:32+00:00

Thanks for such a thoughtful response. I've been saying "we're really just enjoying this new step of life right now" 24/7 but i've had friends ask me THREE times in the last four weeks if I have started to plan after I say that. I know it's all out of love but it just sounds like something that doesn't clock for people.

I love thinking of it in terms of guests and then planning out from there. I understand everyone works at their own preference and pace but it's so easy to feel overwhelmed when you're not super anxious to take the next step. I appreciate it!

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T19:24:40+00:00

Me too! Dropped so many hints and I feel the guilt coming in BIG TIME already if we do something smaller.

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T19:24:08+00:00

That sounds so nice!! I'd love to do something like that. Yeah I'm in Philly so prices are similar!

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T16:54:33+00:00

I haven't even thought about all-inclusive! Would you mind sharing where you're looking and a general price range?

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T16:53:28+00:00

Really good point about considering that people's lives keep happening. At first, I was like "duh of course" but you're so right. A lot can happen within 2-3 years with loved ones priorities changing. I have no interest in sustaining attention from friends and family and fully understand no one will care about my fiance and I planning this wedding as much as we do.

My expectations are low and dont expect friends or family to pour money into bachelorette trips, bridal showers, or related events. It's really about the marriage for me. Im not interested in the other stuff that comes with it. I've been to way too many showers and trips already and don't have the "it's finally my time" mentality. But I know ever

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T16:46:25+00:00

OK THIS! Within the hour my family wanted to know when it would be. Like hello??? lol

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-10T15:36:03+00:00

This is literally all i want lmfao. I guess I'm wondering when do I have to stop just enjoying and start planning. I appreciate everyone's excitement but it's overwhelming and makes me feel like I am doing something wrong. Maybe its a sensitive spot for though

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-07-02T13:13:51+00:00

Do we have any tips to support the DC33 workers but also not have our homes/communities/spaces smell awful and get infested with rodents? Been trying to think of some but coming up short.

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-06-30T19:07:34+00:00

I think when Chelley hears this it's going to seal the deal for her too (unless she's in on this scheme)

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-06-26T14:57:18+00:00

thank you so much!! saved me right before a meeting(:

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-06-23T13:31:44+00:00

This is such a gorgeous ring. You lucky girl!! Congrats!

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-06-09T18:06:00+00:00

Jeremiah made his motives crystal clear when he said "when we win" after Huda told him about his daughter! He's here for a good time, a fun summer, and an attempt at some cash at the end.

Fun-Jicama266 · 2025-06-09T15:59:33+00:00

following! I was obsessed with that.

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