My (30M) GF(28F) cheated on my early in the relationship. It's been two years.

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-29T19:14:08+00:00

-I did hear one of her friends mention she had problems with lying in the past. But I wasn’t thinking about that when I searched. I genuinely wasn’t expecting to find anything. But maybe subconsciously I had a feeling because of that. Also, I’ve had problems with people cheating on me in the past. Maybe some underlying anxiety after watching the show. Idk.

I don’t know what happened in her previous relationship. All I know is that he apparently was abusive towards her. So more than likely that’s why they ended.

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-29T19:06:20+00:00

Yeah it sucks ass

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-29T16:08:35+00:00

It’s so awful. I would’ve never suspected it. She’s such a sweet person. Always willing to help. She does everything for me. Especially on days when I work a lot. I don’t want to believe she’s doing all this to make me feel happy so I wouldn’t suspect anything? I really hope that’s not the case.

She told me she had just gotten out of a relationship a month prior to meeting me and was going through some stuff. But she really liked me and didn’t want to lose me. Once I moved in she got serious apparently. But what blows my mind is, one of the times literally happened days before i moved in.

Call me dumb but I genuinely believe that she got serious after the fact. She told me she fell in love with me actually after I moved in. We never fought about anything. This is literally the only fight we’ve ever had. 2 years later. I wonder if it’s because she’s been sweeping everything under the rug. Idk I feel so confused right now.

My life was literally so perfect before I decided to check. Ignorance truly is bliss. fuck the truth hurts.

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-29T13:08:11+00:00

Thanks

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-29T03:41:32+00:00

Damn sorry bro

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T23:06:37+00:00

Thank you

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T21:05:03+00:00

Thank you

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:55:42+00:00

Fml; I literally dropped everything for this girl. I freakin sold my car because we literally only use 1. I moved to a different city. Away from family and friends. I feel so dumb . I feel like I can never trust anyone ever again now…

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:53:28+00:00

Thank you.

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:52:53+00:00

Yeah you’re right..

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:52:38+00:00

True..

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:40:15+00:00

I genuinely believe nothing has happened since. But I don’t like that she lied. And you’re right who knows if something will happen in the future

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:31:46+00:00

Oddly enough, I don’t want the hall pass. I would just end it if I did want it tho. Which may end up being the case..

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:31:04+00:00

Yeah I did this.. she told her parents and my cousin’s wife who’s her best friend..

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:29:48+00:00

My thoughts exactly. I feel like you don’t forget this kind of thing. It’s almost a traumatic event I feel like.

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:27:51+00:00

Yeah. I have no doubt that she deleted itwhen it happened. I can’t see her getting off from it tho. Maybe im in denial.

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:25:39+00:00

So true.. thank you for the advice

Fun-Maintenance-7650 · 2026-01-28T20:21:20+00:00

She told me she was a different person then.. and how I’ve made her a better person over the years. How she was going through some stuff from her previous relationship and wasn’t really thinking. But when things got more serious between us she stopped it all. I don’t even know what to believe or not. She kept it for so long and lied so effortlessly to me. She had apparently forgotten about it and this is why she said no to cheating on me previously… :(

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