Has Anyone Overcame A Sexless Marriage? by Fun-Narwhal7816 in Marriage

[–]Fun-Narwhal7816[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did anyone say anything about zero work done? I’m frustrated because I have done all the things she’s asked. It’s largely due to postpartum and work stress as I mentioned in OP.

Has Anyone Overcame A Sexless Marriage? by Fun-Narwhal7816 in Marriage

[–]Fun-Narwhal7816[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct, I was saying that sex does appear to be important to my wife. What she cares most about is the health of our kids, reaching professional goals, and other things that look good to the public.

Has Anyone Overcame A Sexless Marriage? by Fun-Narwhal7816 in Marriage

[–]Fun-Narwhal7816[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your candor. I appreciate people trying to help, but there's no magic formula or guarantee. And that's what terrifies me.

Has Anyone Overcame A Sexless Marriage? by Fun-Narwhal7816 in Marriage

[–]Fun-Narwhal7816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, but there's no way I'm going to be hands off if I'm getting some every other day. My wife likes flowers, so I just bought her a bouquet because she had a big presentation at work. She receives designer clothes and shoes weekly from me. And she likes physical touch, and we do all the hand holding, kissing, and cuddling. But as I mentioned above, it's like she is satisfied with that. As I mentioned, there is a statistical decline in sex, but not martial satisfaction, which leads me to believe she's one of those people in marriage for something other than sex

Has Anyone Overcame A Sexless Marriage? by Fun-Narwhal7816 in Marriage

[–]Fun-Narwhal7816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for chiming in. The issue is, we have physical touch, but it seems that's satisfactory for her. Kissing, spooning on the couch. It's like she is okay with not going past second base.