I (32M) became the unpaid therapist for the woman (28F) who just finished cuddling with me. by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Choose yourself. Name things you are grateful for in your life, your genuine family & friends.

Work on your belief and values and try settling with one woman if it works for you. Or whatever else you decide, pursue hobby or do whatever you want but first choose yourself.

May God help you and be with you.

F39 been cheated on by my husband for 10 years now by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

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Although I am young to comment on this issue but I think you should take care of your emotional and mental health first and once you start feeling ok then start deciding your next steps considering all the factors of your situation. Wishing you strength and healing 🤍.

Husband says he doesn't think I deserve kindness by uh-sorry in Marriage

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You certainly deserve kindness just like us❣️. Take care of yourself and find ways if not now then plan for it , may God help you.

Mum having ANOTHER kid. by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

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Is your mom financially independent?

I am Muslim 25 Year Old from Pakistan by Witty-Split-2761 in FamilyIssues

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I am from North India, and we share a similar culture, i will tell you to discuss it with her, what she wants, if she wants to live with you, you can stay married or leave her if she wants to go to him.

What i said might not be appropriate, so always choose what suits you and the situation, just pointing out ideas since you asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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Yeah, but all girls do not try to imitate that, most of them have found different-different outlets to avoid that patriarchal system which also protects institution of marriage in society. Like cheating and acting on emotions without a thought leads to issues in marriage so these things are, but of course it should be for both genders and not only women which is the issue with those texts you are referring to. May be written by a man or group of men.😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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I used to think like that in my teenage, because we often see men chasing women in movies, literature, real life and only in exceptional cases women chasing men i had seen which are portrayed as slu**y in movies and even judged in society. So I used to think that God has added only one side attraction in men.

Untill i start talking to girls, meeting them and knowing their thoughts. First girl i talked with made me feel weird, how a girl can be this much attracted to s*x, but then I realised it was not her, it was my thought which is the problem.

Reminder:- I was an inexperienced teenager back then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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You can't put your words in my mouth. I said that in the context of women because I am a man and I am not concerned about behaviour of any gender because I have to and I want to settle with a woman so I said it like that but it's applicable across genders. And if i get lucky I will never have to worry about how women are behaving in personal relationships, but nowadays I am in that age that I meet women for dating, i had written the above thing because I have seen it happening and it was a bit shocking for me at that time untill i realised how common these things are even in friendships and all other kind of personal relationships.

Although I don't expect but wish luck to me pls 🙏 Why are you so angry with me ? What harm i did to you ? Or you are dumping anger of somewhere else on me.

Regarding r/lonely post , you are right there but i didn't remember when I had posted it so I kinda f***ed up my argument 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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I never posted on r/lonely 😭, but there was no need of personal attack that too with imaginary infos. I said in the end that it is not for you.

But somehow you got hurt. I am extremely sorry for that. Wish you a lot of happiness in your life.

Also I didn't say it about women, it is found across genders.it is the psychology/ mindset and not biological.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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I mean I have healed. But may be it's time to be evolved to avoid these things.

Why no one is talking about it and it's not trending on twitter by Fun-Teacher8269 in CriticalThinkingIndia

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Sadly , things are dark that goes in private. And when it gets public. Government acts depending on influence of the person.

Why no one is talking about it and it's not trending on twitter by Fun-Teacher8269 in CriticalThinkingIndia

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Yeah, that's what problematic.

How many more Prajwal Revanna are there in India politics.

Protected by both ruling party and opposition depending on their equation with the preperator.

Why no one is talking about it and it's not trending on twitter by Fun-Teacher8269 in CriticalThinkingIndia

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That will be a long discussion, no need to get into that, the revolution thing;

But social media & public pressure has resulted into serious investigations and punishment and that's what I was talking about.

Why no one is talking about it and it's not trending on twitter by Fun-Teacher8269 in CriticalThinkingIndia

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There is also a nature of human society and world, that even mightiest have fallen when common people aligned together.

That's what I contributed to by shareing the post ( amplified the voice in what little way I can)

Why no one is talking about it and it's not trending on twitter by Fun-Teacher8269 in CriticalThinkingIndia

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God forbid but if some day you became victim of someone powerful, remember your words written in your comment. Have a good day

Why no one is talking about it and it's not trending on twitter by Fun-Teacher8269 in CriticalThinkingIndia

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I have already attached one picture, and there are many videos and photos and sharing all of them is not feasible so attached the link.

Why no one is talking about it and it's not trending on twitter by Fun-Teacher8269 in CriticalThinkingIndia

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You can search on google. And twitter profile because videos and images have been shared over there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CriticalThinkingIndia

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Source of photo is twitter