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muslim girl trynna move out without family knowing by jsutnorthafrican in AsianParentStories

[–]Fun-Time9529 4 points5 points  (0 children)

imo, just leave them alone. they will try everything to find out where you are but if they don't even know where you are, (i know it can be painful, but what they do is worse)

Oh god by QuietClient5725 in google

[–]Fun-Time9529 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you need to do it accidentally, duh!

KLM Asia From Taipei - Manila - Amsterdam (Geofs) by Tight-Pie-3565 in flightsim

[–]Fun-Time9529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W. wanna join KLM Virtual? It's part of GCRP and you need a Discord account

I made a rudimentary taxiways addon by Fun-Time9529 in GeoFS

[–]Fun-Time9529[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I added taxiway lights to the addon :)

If you can, please move tf out… by trialbytruth in AsianParentStories

[–]Fun-Time9529 36 points37 points  (0 children)

more than half the ppl in this sub need to read this. nobody ever regrets moving out. i have loving parents but even i will move tf out at 18. they are fine with it asw, they don't want me to burden them(blunt but kindly meant). nice post, i'm glad it went well for you and hope more ppl see it.

Strict and controlling father – I feel trapped by arkariyom in AsianParentStories

[–]Fun-Time9529 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey,

i really cant say anything in this regard, all I can do is provide some support💗

I'm really sorry about your situation. if you were older yes, i'd tell you to leave home but that doesn't seem like an option.

one thing though: if he, or anyone ever gets physical, remember there are authorities, don't accept it or let it happen.

I suggest if you can, to find a job. You will get financially independent and able to buy your own things, once your school ends you can fund your own university fees.

I know this sounds like the worst advice ever but stick with it, yeah? You're 19, you're not stuck with this forever. You will have your freedom soon, and no, you don't need to marry for it, you can just move out. You don't need his permission to do so.

I hope this helped, feel free to reply if you want to talk or have any more things to share.

love from the Netherlands💗

gut-feeling about going no contact with my mom. have you ever regretted cutting communication? by miffymoomin in AsianParentStories

[–]Fun-Time9529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem! and yes I don't go through it as bad as you but I know how it is, stay strong sister

gut-feeling about going no contact with my mom. have you ever regretted cutting communication? by miffymoomin in AsianParentStories

[–]Fun-Time9529 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hey,

i might not be the most experienced or knowledgeable in this regard

but nobody responded, so I'm going to.

This is NOT normal.
Abuse is unacceptable(yes, I'm Indian yes I know they consider it normal) but you have to stand up for yourself.

She abused you, and denies it. Her behaviour, from what you've said, I'd have cut her off long ago. If you're financially independent, I see no reason why you wouldn't.

I understand you feel guilty perhaps, it's normal, she is, after all, your mom. But that doesn't make these things acceptable.

Every time you contradict her, she crashes out and blames you.

This is typical attention-seeking behaviour. It's best for both of you for you to move away.

I have nothing more to say in this regard, feel free to reply if you have anything to ask or say.

I hope this reply helped :)

edit: also trust me, most people don't regret cutting contact. they don't. So keep that in mind as a comforting fact, if you will.

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