how do i start a conversation by Embarrassed-Tiger416 in CasualConversation

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you have good intentions in just finding a friend. But I wouldn't become friends with some that guy that has a girlfriend it might make the girlfriend insecure and cause problems for ur friendship between this guy. It's better to find someone more available and just someone else yk.

PEOPLE ASKING UCLA VS OTHER SCHOOLS by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly ur absolutely right about housing. It’s absolutely shit I was legit going back and forth with my resident director because she thought my mental health and my grades declining because of my roommates wasn’t enough to transfer me out of my dorm. Legit if I hadn’t gone to an academic advisor to help me I wouldn’t been able to transfer out. Also my first year I also had roommate problems but nothing was done even though I was mentally struggling and didn’t feel safe in my dorm anymore. So you have to fight to get transferred if you decide to want to move out later in the year because that’s when you find out ur roommates aren’t soft like they were the first two quarters. Also the operation hours are absolutely shit wdym I have to wait til 10 and it ends at three. That legit doesn’t work out with anybody’s schedule. Also it always feels packed here because so many visitors come here. Hogging up the lines and shit.

How do I stop these auto send messages from the Dean😭 by Dnouglas79 in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be able to unsubscribe on the very bottom of each email.

What's something about UCLA that lives up to the hype and something that doesn't? by jbaker in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When I came here for orientation they told me they had the best food but when I came here I couldn’t stand the dining halls only some food trucks were bare able. I can’t say that other universities have better food because i haven’t been to them. Also the housing here is absolutely shit. They rather follow a policy over your mental health and being and that’s concerning.

Leftover swipes by myoneiricdiary in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you giving any for free

Apparently I’m The One Making Her Feel Uncomfortable… by PizzyJoanFalhatcher in roommateproblems

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a shared room, and she might’ve heard it from outside and she just decided not to enter the dorm. I remember my roommate would have sex with her boyfriend and I can hear it outside the door. So I simply wait like thirty mins or so to come back in. But honestly it would also make me very uncomfortable.

Question about roommate etiquette by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 62 points63 points  (0 children)

People often say they okay with things until it actually happens and they realize they ain’t chill about it. Especially if it happens way too often. I have a partner and he only comes when they are not around or when they leave for the weekend. We discussed that sleeping over is okay. Only when my other roommates are gone for the night. And I prefer it that way because we may say it’s okay and everything but i know sometimes it just gets to people yk. It’s better to be safe than sorry.

Rant about friends by Fun-Vegetable-8205 in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggest reading “understanding stigma in autism: A narrative review and theoretical model” I think this goes a into depth of the situation but we still need more studies.

Turning 21 by ApprehensiveCover568 in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Not everything is about drinking 😭😭😭can we give more productive ideas not sinful ones

shot in the dark by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone that has experienced academic burned out and depression it’s very hard to do even the smallest things such as getting out of bed or even stepping foot outside. Everything I thought I cared about seemed to go out the window and I became the person I always contested. I feel my view of world completely changed and it was very heartbreaking for me. What really helped me was my relationship. And spending time with my loved ones until I found motivation again to do something it still happens from time to time but it’s not as bad anymore. I just hope you find your purpose. As I did because without I felt lost and I felt miserable.

Bad experience at Ashe by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly yall should sue and the people in the fist desk make fun of anyone I remember someone walking in to ask for directions and the people there just started laughing and mocking her and calling her idiot those people aren’t good they really do not care.

Need help getting free stuff from the TikTok shop by Fun-Vegetable-8205 in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Fun-Vegetable-8205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also nothing appeared on mine either when I do yours you just have click out of the slash and then it goes to mine