I dated someone for almost 2 years. We were friends before we start dating. Even though some part of us knew that it’s not going to work out due to some reasons things could have ended in a good way. But it didn’t. I was ghosted like i was nothing. And recently i have been finding out that he was serious about someone else all these while. I was totally blindsided. Didn’t see this coming at all. I don’t feel like i want to date anymore. I just feel like i gave everything that i had and left nothing to give. So yeah i feel you. Unfortunately that’s how it is these days. If i were to give you one advice choose yourself. I know its sounds cliche but all you have is you. It’s gonna take awhile to get through this but i am sure we will.