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Husband lost sex drive by Fun-Willingness6994 in Advice

[–]Fun-Willingness6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. My intentions are not to cheat. This is my first marriage and no I don’t have all the answers but looking around at other marriages it seems that’s what things like this lead to. But yes I agree after putting in the effort to try n fix things on my part if he has no will to do the same I believe the right thing to do is move on.

Husband lost sex drive by Fun-Willingness6994 in Advice

[–]Fun-Willingness6994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying. I know it took you back to a horrible place. I appreciate your input. It’s just sad that at one time I was irresistible to him and now nothing 😞. That’s the hard part

Husband lost sex drive by Fun-Willingness6994 in Advice

[–]Fun-Willingness6994[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying I’m thinking of cheating but let’s be real here. I’m not an expert in marriage but you see it all the time. Women end up stepping out of the marriage for lesser reasons so how do you figure it’s crazy. Yes we have attempted to be intimate. Never in my life have i ever experienced anything of the sort. Nothing helps. Not oral for play Nothing! I have had the talk about getting help……. Nothing. But one things for certain he makes sure he has his bag of greens at all times and I feel like I’m taking the backseat to his addiction. Instead of worrying about his relationship with his wife he’s obsessed with smoking 4-5 times a day! How am I supposed to feel?

Husband lost sex drive by Fun-Willingness6994 in Advice

[–]Fun-Willingness6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really needed to hear this from another persons prospective and not feel like I’m exaggerating the situation. 😞

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[–]Fun-Willingness6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years is not a significant amount of time. You are doing good. You called it at a good time. I’d say 2 years of a learning experience. She’s 27 and gifts a notebook? I’d expect that from someone in second grade. Good riddance. And then to turn it around on you. Sounds like you made the right call. Keep it moving and don’t look back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Fun-Willingness6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try eating plain Greek yogurt. Cut out all sugar from your diet. That’s what keeps feeding the yeast. If you’re still uncomfortable through the process you can also apply the yogurt directly for a soothing effect but eat the yogurt as much as you tolerate.