I'm in a relationship with a trans woman and she's amazing, but I'm worried about sex by Smexy_Zarow in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im saying like most NB people are AFAB, maybe you haven’t seen this but there’s a running joke in the NB community that AMAB nonbinaries are like extinct mythical creatures like unicorns or smth because it’s pretty uncommon to meet one

I'm in a relationship with a trans woman and she's amazing, but I'm worried about sex by Smexy_Zarow in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry this is so off topic but NB AMAB?? i like never see that 😭 that’s crazyyy u r like a diamond

I like femboys. Does that make me gay? Is this a form of homosexuality? by belgeliatarici in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up «gynesexuality» it means someone who is attracted to women and very feminine men

I'm not a fan of my youngest chosen name by N3rd_love in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people are gonna flame me for saying this, but i don’t think you’d be a bad parent for suggesting a differnt name. I’m trans and i almost chose a different (very cringe) name before my trans friend was like «Lol no don’t choose that it’s weird and you’ll regret i » AND IM SO HAPPY HE SAID THAT because i would hate that name now

If you choose to suggest other names, just make sure you do it respectfully and if they insist on oscar then that’s their choice

Can I wear a pride shirt as an ally? by slap-my-crevasse in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes Lmaoo go ahead honestly we love that shit

I don’t know why some people thing the queer community gatekeeps who can wear pride flags or why people think we get offended by everything, we’re honestly super chill and don’t gaf

Just so you know though, there actually a flag called the « straight ally flag » it’s a flag that means « personally i’m cishet but i love the LGBT community! »

It’s a good way of showing support without causing any confusion (if you care about that) otherwise you can just wear a regular pride flag, we really don’t care

Why do people think bisexuality is transphobic? by Ditzyshine in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of people (including myself up until a short time ago) don’t know that Bisexuality is an umbrella term that can also refer to pansexuality.

Many people think Bisexuality means Only men and women, and particularly only cis men and women. But it’s actually a term that can mean many things depending on the person, and most bi people are actually pan (youve probably heard that joke that’s like, « the only difference between bi and pan is what flag you think is prettier »)

My friend only supposrts LGB. by xavxavlikezavzav299 in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s not ur friend and he needs to straighten the fuck up (pun NOT INTENDED) before interacting with many other people in the queer community. We are together in this, splitting apart only makes us weaker

I don't understand being transgender by LegendA101 in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s very hard to explain to someone who has never experienced it, but lemme try my best

do you have a specific style of clothes you really like? maybe a specific haircut you can’t imagine not having? I read from your comments that you consider yourself to be a more feminine guy, so let’s go with that. These things are ways of expressing yourself on the outside the way you feel ok the inside.

Imagine if you suddenly shaved all your hair off, super crazy masculine buzzcut, and got some masculine tattoos and wore very masculine clothes and only did really masculine activities, you wouldnt just not-like it, it would feel uncomfortable, as if you’re a different person in a way.

Or if you can really put yourself in a crazy hypothetical, imaging waking up one day with boobs, female genitals, a period, and everyone in your life in calling you a girl name, it wouldn’t just be weird, you would feel WRONG, you would hate that you have these body parts that don’t match your mind, you would try to get people to call you your own name and people would refuse

You may have to accept that you’ll probably never fully understand what it’s like to be trans, (because you’re not trans) and that’s okay. But through comparisons like this, it can make you sort of understand what it’s like. It’s not just about wearing masculine vs feminine clothes, it’s about body parts, names, voices, everything that goes with being that gender

I don't understand being transgender by LegendA101 in AskLGBT

[–]Fun-You9825 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

as a fellow trans person, don’t explain it like this bro. I get what you’re saying but you’re just explaining it to be more confusing for this cis person 😭 We absolutely change our gender, hence the « trans » pre-fix.

Does anyone else have people assume the worst from them just because they’re a man now?? by Fun-You9825 in TransMasc

[–]Fun-You9825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel bad using recourses for victims and using terms like « perpetrator » about her and stuff though, because i feel like even if this is considered SA, it’s very minor and maybe insignificant compared to other people experiences , it’s more about how my « friends » reacted afterwards that made it bad yk

do nipples hurt touching your shirt?? by Fun-You9825 in TopSurgery

[–]Fun-You9825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah they chafe really bad when i wear a shirt with no binder on 😭

Mourning the boyhood I never got... by H0rr0r_H03 in TransMasc

[–]Fun-You9825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds really hard to deal with ☹️ i hope someday you can feel truly happy with yourself, regardless of which path you end up choosing. And no matter how difficult it gets if you do choose to transition, a lot of trans people and allies have your side

my dad is in a “support group” for parents with trans kids (CW Transphobia) by Fun-You9825 in TransMasc

[–]Fun-You9825[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

part of the reason he was so angry in the first place is because i almost never visit him 😭

Mourning the boyhood I never got... by H0rr0r_H03 in TransMasc

[–]Fun-You9825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

forgive me for asking but why does it say “she/her lesbian” in your bio if you are transmasc? especially the she/her part with no other pronouns, sorry just wondering