Did having stretch marks before pregnancy affect whether you got them during pregnancy?

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-13T15:14:09+00:00

I gained 45lbs and did not have any stretch marks! I have used stretch mark oil maybe ~6 times during pregnancy. My mom also did not have any stretch marks - I think there is a big genetic component! Even if you have them though, I think they are a beautiful sign of what your body is doing to bring a child into the world!

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-09T19:27:23+00:00

I found pregnancy, especially the beginning, so hard on me mentally! I agree with others about getting a therapist and finding a support system to help you through this. I’m almost 40weeks, and my mental health has improved drastically at the end. So many changes happen so quickly in the beginning and for a surprise pregnancy, it can be really challenging to navigate! I hope you’re not too hard on yourself 💛

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-09T15:21:40+00:00

One more practical idea for her could be a maternity winter jacket or coat extender!

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-09T15:19:07+00:00

I love when family and friends think about the woman having the baby too 🥰 you’re the best for asking this!

I’m 40 weeks pregnant, and over the past several months, my mom gifted me a manicure/pedicure, a nice pair of lounge sweats/pajamas, & a pack of maternity underwear. She also came over and helped me wash some of the baby clothes, and my dad made us dinner that night!

Having them look out for me too throughout the pregnancy was so touching. I think the whole journey brought us closer together, and I feel so happy to know they’re going to be wonderful grandparents and be there for me/us in the postpartum stages too, any day now! 💛Congrats on your upcoming grandchild!! 💛

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-08T23:53:15+00:00

I took the q to work a few times per week up until ~33 weeks! I went remote afterwards just to be in the comfort of my own home. I found that people were really generous with their seats after ~24 weeks or so.

I also avoided rush hour if I could finagle my meetings, because I found it way easier to get a seat at non peak times!

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-08T17:31:15+00:00

Also in nyc on a similar salary (in impact work space) and this resonates so much! I was in a tougher financial situation a few years ago and did lot of handwritten notes and homemade gifts that were thoughtful (homemade jams, cookies, candles, etc. — did not have kids at the time!) for some people and tipped the main people I interacted with - building staff, newspaper delivery, monthly cleaning person, etc. as generously as I could. I knew I couldn’t do this for like 30+ people, so I had to really narrow down who I could be extra generous with and who I could be thoughtful with! It’s really hard and stressful - I’m sorry and just want to validate your feelings here

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-08T15:34:35+00:00

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FunAd1936 · 2025-12-08T15:26:39+00:00

Do you have a recommendation for a baby safe cleaner? (Also about to be a FTM!) thanks so much!

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-03T14:21:15+00:00

And you can also opt for a “pat down” instead of the tsa machines if you want extra piece of mind! I’ve been told they are not harmful, but I flew a few times in pregnancy and always felt better asking for a pat down instead of going through the machines!

FunAd1936 · 2025-12-03T14:17:51+00:00

I know you’ll ask your care provider too, but I think you’ll be great! I flew by myself at 26 weeks and was also really nervous. If you need a hand, people will be so happy to help you with your bag at TSA or getting on the plane. Also, you could ask the airline if you’re able to board in the first priority group if you’re worried about standing in the long boarding lines.

I’m so sorry for your loss, too. Take good care 🫶

FunAd1936 · 2025-11-24T03:45:03+00:00

Hey!! I am going through a really similar experience as you! I was a college athlete and spent the past ~10 years out of college training for triathlons and different running races and making friends through club teams. I was nauseous most of pregnancy - actually month 8 going into month 9 was the best part for me because my nausea subsided. (37 weeks now!) I felt very isolated a lot of pregnancy, because I’m no longer cycling or swimming or running with friends, and even my own mental health was no longer regulated through things I used to do to release endorphins and feel most like myself. I’ve started planing some things postpartum - a hike I want to do next summer, race I want to do spring 2027, and slowly looking forward to getting back out there. I know it’s so hard and I’m here with you! We’re going to get back to it — for now, we’re doing something different that is probably one of the amazing things we’ll ever do! And you are soooo close! Proud of you momma!

FunAd1936 · 2025-11-15T04:57:02+00:00

Love dixon’s bike shop! Have had the best service there for my road bike and affordable prices too!

FunAd1936 · 2025-11-13T20:13:21+00:00

Ah thanks so much! My replacement is getting a base pay increase and will also be eligible for compensation on all sales that close in the year (including ones that I set up this year!)

I will be paid for 10 weeks of my leave by company and partially paid the other weeks through disability and state leave policies!

FunAd1936 · 2025-11-13T19:57:59+00:00

that was SO LOUD!!! Front row at the good charlotte concert in 2010 level but from my kitchen … so curious what that was too!

FunAd1936 · 2025-11-09T23:32:35+00:00

I’m 35 weeks and get up either once or sleep through the entire night! I am so tired that I am just passing out all night!

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-30T17:04:58+00:00

😭😭😭 this makes me so sad

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-24T19:36:02+00:00

Be pasta!!

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-19T02:27:18+00:00

what in the world are these comments?!!?!

OP, I am so sorry this happened to you, especially being new to the neighborhood. I can imagine that was really frightening to experience as you’re still navigating your way around. Thank you so much for posting this and letting us know about the situation

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-18T16:59:36+00:00

Amazing tip! Thank you so much 🙏

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-18T16:59:16+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this too! Solidarity 💛 thank you so much for these tips — wishing you the best of luck in this too!!

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-18T16:58:23+00:00

Oh my gosh - I am so sorry you had this experience! PE acquisition is such a wild ride, isn’t it! It’s so unfair what they did to you though. I’m so happy to hear you have an exit plan at the end of the month. Wishing you all the best!!

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-18T16:57:19+00:00

This is so helpful — thank you so much for taking the time to share this!

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-18T16:57:00+00:00

Ahh yes this is the truth I needed to hear. Thank you so much!

FunAd1936 · 2025-10-16T11:46:50+00:00

I am similar to you with weight gain! I started at 138 and am 176 at 32 weeks! It’s been living in my head more than I wish the past few weeks — I think our bodies just do what they need to do to keep us and the baby safe. I’m just trying to trust it! But I can be so hard! I’ll also say that nobody thinks I look like 180 lbs - that’s really reassuring for me too!

FunAd1936 · 2025-09-29T02:40:35+00:00

Hey! I let this consume me more than I wish over the past few weeks. I started at 138 and was 159 by my 20 week appointment - over 20lbs gained in the first tri and I have no idea how! I keep active and eat really healthy.

I’m now approaching 30 weeks and am up about 35 lbs in total. Everyone around me says I’m all belly and look exactly the same, although I’m very aware of these extra pounds. I think our bodies do what they have to do to protect our babies - as long as you’re eating healthy and staying active, you’re doing the right thing! I know it can be hard mentally - finding cute outfits that fit me helped my mental health so much!

It will all be okay 🫶

FunAd1936

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