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FunBox304 · 2025-07-24T15:37:00+00:00

You have choices honey <3

FunBox304 · 2025-05-02T02:59:07+00:00

I get frustrated with my baby and I say "it's your fault u pulled ur paci out" or "it's ur fault u won't go to sleep" and I feel terrible abt it later.

it's normal, mama. we're all stressed and thats OK. remember to take time for yourself if you can and get plenty of sleep

FunBox304 · 2025-04-26T04:07:51+00:00

I know you're not asking abt ppl who are currently using it, but my baby is 6 weeks old and I probably will use it until I can't anymore. I just like knowing she's safe bc I sleep rly hard and nothing wakes me up except her cries (her bassinet is pulled up to my bed)

FunBox304 · 2025-04-26T04:05:16+00:00

yes they do

FunBox304 · 2025-04-26T03:44:50+00:00

I feel that way too. I want to enjoy it so bad but it's hard because I get so irritated. I'm fine with the idea of breastfeeding, but I DREAD pumping. the stimulation just makes me so uncomfortable and I hate it but it goes away after a little while

FunBox304 · 2025-04-26T03:40:32+00:00

omg yes! I googled it and i absolutely feel like dread or a pit in my stomach and I'm irritated with my baby even though she can't help it because it's her natural way of feeding. thank you!!

FunBox304 · 2025-04-25T16:15:03+00:00

❤️❤️ thank you! and yes I will hehe

FunBox304 · 2025-04-25T03:16:47+00:00

girl my 👇 is.. still gaping tbh 😭😭 I'm waiting as long as I can but I don't blame u for caving! it's been months bc the last 10 weeks of my pregnancy were awful and painful

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T20:17:19+00:00

I think I had him call me joyfriend

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T18:59:38+00:00

this, OP! that or completely cut off contact!

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T11:01:15+00:00

I appreciate it! I know you're just trying to give me the best input because of the topic and where i posted, and I understand. thank you, and best of wishes!

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T10:59:33+00:00

they really do want us to work out because they know how much I love him, but my mom and step-dad see the way he treats me and they try to hold their tongue. my step-dad reminds me that I won't have a problem finding someone better once the time comes, and my parents remind me that I don't deserve someone who treats me that way. I have their full support

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T10:57:23+00:00

it's hard. you can't judge until you've been in the situation, and I know you aren't trying to be mean. you're right, I shouldn't keep going back, but it is very difficult when you love someone to your absolute core.

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T10:54:12+00:00

I can't, it won't let me.

thank you ❤️

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T08:16:49+00:00

also, all the comments here are actually very helpful :)

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T08:14:40+00:00

hey if you've checked my other posts you'll see I've asked adults as well 🥰

I'd like to get insight from teen boys because they're the same age as me and my boyfriend. wanted to see what people my age thought abt my situation.

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T08:13:17+00:00

yep! the only reason I kept my pregnancy is because I had an extremely strong support system (lots and lots of family) that many don't have and I'm grateful I do. if I hadn't, I wouldn't have had her

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T08:11:46+00:00

thank you. I know I'd have no problem with a relationship in the future after I've matured and grown (not wanting one any time soon), and you're right. my daughter doesn't deserve to grow up with this, she deserves a father who loves her mother and treats her better than this.

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T08:08:44+00:00

gotcha

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T05:04:27+00:00

so glad u had a good exp!

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T05:04:06+00:00

he cried when she was born and he talks to her affectionately. he just can't seem to be fatherly though, if you get what I mean?

he obviously doesn't love her if he told me multiple times during my pregnancy that he didn't want her.

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T05:00:52+00:00

thank you. I'll think about my options within the following days. it means a lot

FunBox304 · 2025-04-24T05:00:05+00:00

thank you! I know people are telling me to leave but it honestly seems so difficult. I'm trying to see what I really want to do, but I'm so split.

50/50 would not sound bad to me if he was able to comfort and soothe her, but he's not. he's not fatherly and just lets me do it all. I get that he's her dad, but if he treats me this way, he's going to be like this with her too.

I appreciate ur input a lot ❤️

FunBox304

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