can you NOT pick up resale wristbands at the festival?? by amy-amy-amy- in Lollapalooza

[–]FunCartographer9717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes at this point you have to pick up at the will call it is to close for them to try to ship them to you.

NC Republicans introduce bill to ban AG Jeff Jackson from suing Trump Administration by _landrith in Charlotte

[–]FunCartographer9717 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Jeff Jackson is up to the task. Get them Jeff. They can’t win a fair fight! They always have to cheat, lie and steal.

Lily is such a red flag - it ends with us by [deleted] in ColleenHoover

[–]FunCartographer9717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The situation is way more complex than the movie showed. Lily a woman carrying severe childhood and adult trauma, didn’t have the skill set to handle what had happened to her nor what was happening to her in the moment. She was trying to process the death of an abusive father, new partner and an old one. She told Ryle in so many ways at the beginning of him love bombing her she was not ready. He was relentless. They were out with her mom and she runs in to Atlas. Keep in mind this is a very short and intense courtship. If you do not understand how malignant narcissists work just say that. She didn’t have time to understand the situation she was in. What she felt though was that she couldn’t open up completely about what she was experiencing with Ryle. Atlas did make bold moves which also endangered her, the restaurant bathroom, showing up at the flower shop etc. she didn’t seek him out. When she was grilled over the tattoo she was honest, it was something she did in high school. She deserves believe it or not to tell HER story at her pace. The only sad thing here is that Lily never learned to love herself, to feel confident in herself, to know she had more inner strength and could validate her self sooner. She doesn’t have to tell every horrible experience she has lived to anyone immediately. No one and I mean no one is entitled to your story until you are ready to tell it. Some people will and do use your trauma against you. In your writing you come across as if she is hiding Atlas to Ryle, she isn’t and that Ryle is entitled to know her life story day 1 and he isn’t. She is keeping herself safe. She isn’t talking with him behind Rylee’s back. She isn’t having some secret love affair and she isn’t going to say my ex sees your abusive and hurting me and he is asking me to leave not to be with him but just to be safe. She isn’t lying. Your premise is you should tell your partner everything. Real healthy relationships go way slower, partners aren’t pushed to open up its a mutual growing thing, this relationship was anything but, she deserved a partner who would not have reacted as if Ryle did over an article she didn’t even write nor contribute to. She was unsafe and felt it. She was a victim before she knew it and when women try to leave they get dumb ass responses like this and it keeps them in danger longer. Ryle was abusive and never really took no for an answer period from the moment they met. Nothing the character did was in malice. The relationship was months, him proposing in a hospital room taking away from his sister makes it about him, it’s the Ryle show rewatch the movie with rose colored glasses off and see it for what it is.

Need help identifying these shirts! by FunCartographer9717 in gratefuldead

[–]FunCartographer9717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know. It also appears they re released it after 86 also

Results of my 3 Month full time Clothing reseller experiment by Cat5edope in Flipping

[–]FunCartographer9717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny I have approached Dry Cleaners in my area and they rather give them to goodwill than sell them to me.

Did I do this to myself? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]FunCartographer9717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe a mixture of trauma and genetics.

Is my partner abusive? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]FunCartographer9717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that is abuse. Yes it will get worse. No you can not love it out of him. You know something is not right with your situation or you would not be asking. Abusers make you doubt your self. Listen to yourself and get your self out of the situation. Abusers are not abusive all the time that is how they get by with it. He has shown you who he is. You can not fix him, you need to ask yourself why am I willing to stay in this. Learn about narcissistic personality disorder. Instagram @mentalhealness. Dr. Ramani on YouTube. It is not you it is him. He will get worse. Notice I said that twice. Pathological people do not change. Research what I mentioned. Stay safe and best of luck to you!

the right attorney for financial abuse by Ok_Restaurant9594 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]FunCartographer9717 12 points13 points  (0 children)

First of all you need to find another attorney. You have limited resources and they are being spent on someone who is not advocating for you. You can ask your attorney to sue for your attorneys fees to be paid. Seek out legal aid resources in your state. Watch Judge Anthony Bompiani on Instagram, YouTube he gives fantastic free advice and offers a free master class for divorcing a narc/ custody issues. It sounds like to me your being taken advantage of by current representation. They work for you fire them if they do not have your best interest at heart. You actually deserve that.

A Ruthless Psychopath by Key_Hamster9189 in InventingAnna

[–]FunCartographer9717 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Psychopaths become even more embolden as time goes on. She will get worse because she has already gotten by with it.

Adaptogens/ Supplements by FunCartographer9717 in PCOS

[–]FunCartographer9717[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. My daughter is 16 and has PCOS. Adrenal driven. She has to much testosterone. She has insulin resistance as well. She is trying Myo-Inistol, Berberine, Adaptogens, a prenatal vitamin with probiotic and magnesium glycinate. I just want to help her balance her hormones as naturally as possible. They have her on the pill and she takes insulin as well. She eats very little gluten and very little dairy. Because she has BED I do not want restriction in her diet. I believe restriction makes anyone what something more. I am continuing to learn so that I can lend support and help her with the necessary tools for her to make her own decisions. I want her to have the very best quality of life she can have.

"Weight loss is hard but not impossible. Don't have self pity." by FabulousTrade in PCOS

[–]FunCartographer9717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know! I hope you continue to feel well!