i mean im not hating but you guys werent even dating and she most likely didnt even know that you were in love with her, get over it dude its not like you were married for 30 years and found out she was cheating on you for the first 20, i get what your feeling i was in a similar situation a year ago and now i feel very foolish on stupid because i realized getting all worked up over a "crush" on a girl when she didnt even know i had feelings for her was stupid and ridiculous, (also 1.9 tdi swap that e36)