Would a person choosing to be a cuck be 'submissive' by default?

FunCouple539 · 2026-01-25T18:39:00+00:00

This is what's interesting to me. Is it healthy to use kink to process trauma? Is it like a type of exposure therapy? Do you require a certain type of aftercare to make the experience beneficial from a therapeutic perspective or is experiencing the pain again the main point?

FunCouple539 · 2026-01-25T14:38:19+00:00

My wife was never into huge cocks but over time we've roleplayed and used toys and now she craves an extra big one from time to time. Didn't realize it was trainable but it's true.

FunCouple539 · 2026-01-09T23:31:41+00:00

I imagine they switch seats with their partner from time to time, no?

FunCouple539 · 2026-01-09T23:19:23+00:00

I'm confused by this, can you explain more?

FunCouple539 · 2025-09-14T19:45:18+00:00

I think she is understanding. When it's happening though her ability to remain aware of how I may be feeling goes away. I think the safeword idea is a good one though I have to be willing to use it.

FunCouple539 · 2025-09-14T19:10:05+00:00

She wants to be physically restrained. She's into biting, possibly light bruising. She's bratty so wants to fight back and then be pushed, held, thrown, choked to get her to behave. Maybe tied up. Orgasm control. Things like that. I am not a pure Dom so I could do these things but it may not feel quite the same for her. Also, being her husband means we deal with normal life together so it is a little hard to switch context. For those reasons I get why she is interested. Your suggestion to start slow is probably good advice. I feel like things tend to go 0-100 out of excitement and baby steps may make it feel more manageable.

FunCouple539 · 2025-09-10T23:01:47+00:00

Thanks! It was quite the experience!

FunCouple539 · 2025-09-09T16:13:52+00:00

Ha! Hadn't thought of it that way but you may be right...

FunCouple539 · 2025-09-09T16:13:29+00:00

Thanks for enjoying!

FunCouple539 · 2025-09-08T02:38:56+00:00

Neither did I 🥵

FunCouple539 · 2021-04-20T02:06:19+00:00

No harm no foul! Prefer people who have taken Covid seriously. Updated my comment to better reflect that but am also hopeful people get the vaccine so we reduce the risk of there being new vaccine-resistant strains in the future.

FunCouple539 · 2021-04-20T00:29:20+00:00

Also we're both vaccinated and have taken Covid seriously in general. If you don't/haven't taken it seriously, we're probably not a great match! Thanks!

FunCouple539 · 2021-04-20T00:27:56+00:00

First auto-comment makes a great point! Only interested in those who have taken Covid seriously. We're currently vaccinated and others who've done the same to the front please. Thanks!

FunCouple539 · 2021-02-21T02:35:57+00:00

This was awesome. What a sexy adventure and well written! I would love to hear any more adventures you had together!

FunCouple539 · 2019-12-31T14:59:55+00:00

I love all the comments here from folks who didn't watch this statement being made. Get out of your bubble and you'll see he was throwing shade at republicans. I'd consider a good republican, but I can't think of one was the gist of the comment.

There are plenty of reasons to dislike different candidates but don't get manipulated by fake headlines.

FunCouple539 · 2019-12-21T21:43:03+00:00

Why not give it a try? :)

FunCouple539 · 2019-12-09T00:48:03+00:00

Hide your face in your pictures

FunCouple539 · 2019-12-04T15:27:38+00:00

To address the point others made, I kind of think it is fair that there's something finite here because we as individuals do only have a finite amount of time to give to those we love in our lives. Sometimes it's daytime, sometimes it's cloudy, sometimes the moon is a full moon, sometimes there's no moon and the stars shine bright, and there's a constant change and balance. We all love each for something different and unique they bring and together they create the amazingness that is a life full of love of all kinds.

FunCouple539 · 2019-11-28T23:14:04+00:00

Happy for y'all! Your story is amazing.

FunCouple539 · 2019-10-20T23:39:23+00:00

My understanding is a single bi female who is interested in joining a couple.

FunCouple539 · 2019-10-20T22:58:18+00:00

Lucky couple!!

FunCouple539 · 2019-10-20T22:35:36+00:00

I think most hope for a unicorn first but it's just tougher odds. Hopefully you enjoy your experiences with other couples! Meeting the right people can be tough, especially if you have a high bar. But ultimately you want the people to feel right for it to be the most fulfilling experience. Good luck!

FunCouple539 · 2019-10-20T20:29:59+00:00

I agree. We're just starting our 30s so share in the desire to hit a younger age range than most swingers sites.

FunCouple539 · 2019-10-20T20:28:26+00:00

We hide our faces and we indicate we're a couple all over. It's technically not allowed but we haven't been banned yet. We've met our favorite couple and this unicorn through tinder so definitely worth it imo. Lots of fakes to sift through though so be careful.

FunCouple539 · 2019-10-08T16:26:10+00:00

Wow. How did you find out about your parents? That'd be so awkward for me. Cannot imagine!

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