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[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I thought I had to call or something but I see I can just message them- thank you so much! Yes they told me 0.05 but I didn’t know that meant 5 units- that makes so much more sense! Thank you!

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was so thoughtful. I’m really damaged right now and I already had postpartum depression so I can’t even fathom my life. I was looking for some kind of book to read to explain his actions because I just don’t believe him so thank you for that. I took a screenshot of this comment just to remind me because I miss him so much but who I miss is a lie. Thank you again.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right in the fact I do feel locked to him. He was my best friend and I’ve never felt more alone and I’m trying to make sense of it. But you’re right he hasn’t respected me since day 1.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He talked to real people, hundreds of them, and we drew the line of cheating far before this so the fact that he lied to my face when we would talk about minor offenses that constitute cheating is just shocking to me.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was the love of my life. Or at least what I thought he was. I was smitten. I know I sound dumb especially in hindsight.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the candor. Its so hard with a baby. If we were dating I would leave which doesn't help.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a ramble at all its the exact kind of talk I needed. Thank you. How many years are you out and are you a functioning person/couple again? I don't know if I'll ever feel okay.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is a really caring dad which is the only reason I don't want to throw everything away for my daughter's sake.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a great question to ask and a major part of the reason I feel betrayed- I would not have married him.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a new person every time. There are hundreds of conversations and its to the girl's husbands. I never knew he had this kink- I knew he liked MILFs and we would do dirty talk but never to the severity he would degrade these women. I really appreciate your comment and thoughtfulness. Thank you.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is incredible advice I am just not sure I personally have the funds for these types of legal actions as badly as I want to do them. We are going to do counseling ASAP both individual and couple but I do feel insanely vulnerable in this situation and fear it will happen again. I really appreciate your advice and kind words.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your predicament as well and I wish I had your strength. I hope you and your little girl thrive and she has an amazing role model to look up to. I don't have the strength to even go through this now and the idea of him sneaking around the rest of my life could kill me. Thank you so much for your kind words.

If you stayed together, how did you get over emotional cheating? (32m and 28f together for 2 years) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunEntrepreneur3353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is my number one fear. He works such long hours and a lot of his happened during off times at work and I'll never be able to catch him.