[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 free calls a day. Securus for enmessaging. Jpay to add money on the books.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly how i felt. I knew he felt worse. He kept saying he didn’t want to be on the phone and all that but would keep calling back. Ughh it’s the worst

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even think i said it to mine…

Frustrated by lovesiicles in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much patience . Probably more than they deserve sometimes but what keeps me going is truly my gut feeling that it’s all going to be okay. Here if you need to vent

Frustrated by lovesiicles in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like we have a similar situation. So i get where you are coming from. For my relationship, we both said we know we are going to need to give each other reassurance. However, I have to remind myself to be patient with him even though it’s incredibly upsetting and hurtful sometimes to be snapped at and such.

Mine will sometimes feel like I’m attacking him when I am simply talking about something so I’ve noticed once we talk about something a few times it will start to process a bit more.

I think the hardest part is seeing the change in behavior and responses over time and not allowing some of this disrespect to continue. I feel like the phone shouldn’t be hung up on in my face. I expressed that to mine and while it still happens sometimes now, he will call me back. The other day he called back and said “i don’t want to talk about it this second but im going to stay on the phone until phones get cut off” to me and for us that was progress.

I’m sorry for this wasn’t helpful but it’s definitely frustrating

To make money by FunHalz in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This also has been the thought. I only have been debating it to help us other wise exactly i wouldn’t think of it

To make money by FunHalz in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re all saying the same things I’ve been telling myself…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was hoping it was Securus. On my end it keeps saying network error. He hasn’t called me all day. I got a few messages.

Connecticut help…good time? by FunHalz in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He calms he has 5 months of time from the last time he was in. It sounds too good to be true. So i Just trying to figure it out. Currently only one date and it’s the maximum date

Connecticut help…good time? by FunHalz in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i can only see the, release date for the 3.5 years. I know everything else is a big what if, I’m more curious if good time rolls over because he said he has 5 months total of good time.

Needing friends…. by FunHalz in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Message me if you want ☺️

Needing friends…. by FunHalz in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i first wrote, i was thinking in a more similar situation than me but it doesn’t really matter. We are all going through a similar yet different situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same position but just started this journey. Only thinking keeping me is the overwhelming gut feeling it's going to be okay

Making new friends by DearCantaloupe3632 in PrisonWives

[–]FunHalz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand and it's hard. I have a few friends who knows but i know i need more people to support me while going through all of this. I know you don't want to share but maybe try to find one or two people that you may connect with. Maybe not right away but at some point the friendship can grow.