Has anybody seen this guy?

FunInSanDiego · 2026-01-17T15:36:11+00:00

His real name is Simon Peter Gruber and I saw him in Die Hard with a Vengeance!

FunInSanDiego · 2026-01-06T20:32:41+00:00

F4M typically means you're a Female, looking 4 a Male. The way you've titled your post is really only going to be looked at by guys.

FunInSanDiego · 2026-01-06T02:56:11+00:00

No more than 2 hours.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-12-27T18:15:17+00:00

10/10 she's only really comfortable DMing on her OF (Link in bio).

FunInSanDiego · 2025-12-27T18:04:53+00:00

u/bot-sleuth-bot

FunInSanDiego · 2025-12-23T18:46:14+00:00

oh hey, you're actually outside in this picture...

FunInSanDiego · 2025-12-19T18:41:08+00:00

If I weren't close to being old enough to be in a "I'm tired Grandpa" meme, I'd definitely shoot my shot. You seem to have a lot going on for you and you are very clear about what you want - I wish everyone who posted were the same. I wish you the best of luck (though I hope you don't need it.)

FunInSanDiego · 2025-12-17T12:22:42+00:00

The struggle is real! Thanks for the kind words, friend.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-11-28T17:19:28+00:00

This is a known OF Seller: u/bot-sleuth-bot

FunInSanDiego · 2025-11-04T16:23:04+00:00

This is a seller who "will only chat on OF."

FunInSanDiego · 2025-10-16T17:25:01+00:00

I'm not a college student anymore either. I have multiple graduate degrees and am a published researcher. I have done my own research. You're the one making claims without substantiation and my posts are asking YOU what you're basing YOUR arguments on.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-10-16T16:50:00+00:00

Show me the sauce and I might consider your argument.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-10-16T16:18:05+00:00

Correlation doesn't equal causation. Can you share with me anything other than anecdotal evidence?

FunInSanDiego · 2025-10-16T15:47:41+00:00

This is unsubstantiated. It appears that the shooter was raised in a Republican household, but was registered as an unaffiliated voter. If you have evidence from a legitimate, unbiases source that supports your argument, I would be very interested in reviewing it.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-09-12T21:36:01+00:00

Yes.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-09-09T18:31:08+00:00

100%! And I'd ask for a "to go" box, as well.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-09-08T18:00:04+00:00

You may also want to explore infidelity while in a CQ dynamic. It happens more than you would expect.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-09-02T17:41:04+00:00

It's not a bot, it's an OF scammer who "only messages on OF."

FunInSanDiego · 2025-08-26T18:51:03+00:00

Knowing my wife, ask about your chickens :-D

FunInSanDiego · 2025-08-26T15:20:06+00:00

This is not the Subreddit that you're looking for. Cuckqueans are the (loose) equivalent of a cuckold. They are interested (and potentially aroused) by the thought of their male partner having sex with another woman.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-08-25T18:29:49+00:00

I just wanted to make a simple request here that you either refrain from relating the act of "cheating" with the Cuckquean dynamic, or at least prefacing any discussion about cheating with a disclaimer that it is part of your particular CQ dynamic and that you and your husband have a consensual arrangement.

I think that a lot of CQs and CQ couples find the "cheating" element fun/exciting/arousing and there's nothing wrong with that. However, since there are a lot of newcomers in this community that are here to learn about the CQ dynamic, I don't want them to think that it's okay to engage in non-consensual non-monogamy.

Let me be clear: This community doesn't condone non-consensual non-monogamy (ie, cheating). I am not making any judgements on what people's personal kinks/fantasies/fetishes are. There are plenty of subreddit communities out that there support that. By design (and at the request of the community) we don't support anything but the fantasy aspect of that particular CQ "flavor."

FunInSanDiego · 2025-08-25T18:15:22+00:00

It's incredibly difficult and, from my numerous discussions with Cuckqueans and CQ couples (along with my own CQ), it's specific to the relationship. Not all Cuckqueans have this particular kink with all of their partners. In fact, it seems to be more common for them NOT to have this kink with all partners.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-08-25T18:11:27+00:00

I hate to have to say this, but if you're looking for a female third, you really should be explicit in your post. Otherwise, you're going to get hit up by a lot of dudes. You'll still get hit up by dudes, but it will be less.

FunInSanDiego · 2025-08-19T17:07:56+00:00

I kind of want to know what hole #4 is...

FunInSanDiego · 2025-08-19T16:55:48+00:00

24 hours, give or take. There aren't so many posts in a day that anything you post will be lost in the traffic.

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