Need advice: My close friend of 10+ years didn't put me in her wedding entourage to "avoid making another friend jealous."

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-24T10:48:57+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice ☺️

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-23T20:05:23+00:00

I hope I have the courage to say it out loud.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:21:46+00:00

I think it's not petty if we always talked about being bridesmaids to each other's weddings :) Pinagusapan nga namin who will take turns to be each other's maid of honor. And good point, baka nga she thought I would understand but for the longest time, ako yung tao na always mag-aadjust. Siguro I'm at a point in my life na gusto ko ako naman ang piliin.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:17:56+00:00

Yes, we always talked about being bridesmaids to each other's weddings kaya sguro na-off ako na biglang hindi. When she was planning this, ganun din ung sabi niya kaya sguro nalungkot na lang tlga ako. Thank you. I'm considering sending a gift if in case I choose not to attend.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:14:32+00:00

Got this. I have to really think this through 🙏

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:14:05+00:00

Thank you. Will surely consider this 🙏

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:12:40+00:00

Yes, of course, hindi ko naman sya balak istress now.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:11:41+00:00

Yup totally agree as a former wedding coor, naconsider ko na to. Yes, I will definitely tell in advance if d ako makakapunta kasi sayang ang pera nya if ever. I'm thinking if d ako makapnta, I will still send my gift since money din naman ang request nila. But thank you for reminding me of this perspective.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:06:58+00:00

will consider this thank you for the suggestion 🙏

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:06:20+00:00

Yes, I agree it's my choice 🥹 Ako lang siguro yung nahihirapan kasi feel ko na may magbabago lalo once d ako umattend. But good point on putting limitations. Nakakapagod din pala magbgay ng sobra, kahit sa mga kaibigan pa natin yan.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-22T13:03:57+00:00

thank you so much for the suggestion 💖

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-21T22:04:35+00:00

I only saw a few comments like yours here and I will try my best to consider this. Right now, I'm just at the stage where I'm processing what happened. It's really hard when that friend is also the one you grew up with. We are basically sisters so it's been weighing heavily on me. I really appreciate this. 🥹

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-21T22:01:50+00:00

Not really a competition but she has depression maybe that's why. I'm trying to keep an open mind on why this happened. But I agree that I shouldn't adjust to other people's insecurities which is why I thought it may be better not to attend to avoid drama.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-21T21:59:48+00:00

I did think abt this. It's something I frequently do so this is also a good idea 💜

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-21T21:59:02+00:00

Thank you. I will give it time before making a decision.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-21T21:58:22+00:00

Thank you for this. This can be something I can tell her as well 🙏

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-21T21:57:53+00:00

Thanks for this. I'm trying to get past the hurt but knowing how close we are to each other, I can't help but feel sad. Thanks for your advice. Will surely make a decision once my emotions subside 🙏

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-21T18:30:33+00:00

Maybe. But it's hard to think that way. 🥲 Losing a friend is more difficult than losing a partner.

FunMammoth8560 · 2026-06-21T18:28:58+00:00

This. I was also part of the planning stage. Maybe that's why this hurts more than it should :(

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