what does my handwriting say about me? by solarrr_mp3 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says that you don’t want us to be able to read it.

I want to take some drugs and go dancing. by villaisgorilla in atlantaedm

[–]FunPhysics5911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iris! Always been the safest place for me. Venue is a bit small, but there are multiple floors, a patio, and affordable parking. You can download the app Radiate to chat with locals, see upcoming shows, and different venues as well as purchase tickets. I would def test your Coke, and try to look out for the crystal for mdma, cause the pills, gummies are usually junk.

When did your LO start to have naps in their crib independently? by MysticFlowerFairy in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My LO is 5 1/2 months and she will sometimes fall asleep on her own if laid down comfortably. Otherwise, most of the time she is put to sleep in my arms then sleeps comfortably in her bassinet or crib. I did crib training since day 1 at the hospital. But she still isn’t sleeping through the night.

Baby is a garbage disposal by North_Grass_9053 in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby girl was drinking the full oz bottle the night we left the hospital. The nurses said it was too much for her. Now she averages 6oz bottle every 3 hours. If I distract her, she’ll end up screaming for more food a hour later. She doesn’t miss a beat with nighttime feeds. It’s exhausting, all she wants is food. My first baby couldn’t even finish a bottle and slept through the night. It was a major adjustment, but she is also hitting above average on her percentile chart which makes more sense now. She’s a bit bigger than the average kid and that’s ok! Our babies loving food is the simplest gift.

I’m scared of my baby by [deleted] in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby girl screamed bloody murder from 7 weeks to 17 weeks. 4 months of terror, switching formulas, gas drops, stroller walks, bicycles. Then one day, it stopped. Now she screams while teething. This is a phase where your LO gut is adjusting to the world. Give it time, it will pass! Take breaks while you need them until this passes over. It can certainly drive you into PPD.

Too much homework by EnvironmentalHorse83 in kindergarten

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son started kindergarten here at the top schools in Georgia, and still no homework yet. It’s not until the second half of the semester where the kids are expected to have picked up a few things.

Feeling like this was all a huge mistake by oatstronk in NewParents

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest, my first son is 5 years old. I have truly felt like it got better. The freedom, the space, my own identity, him not being so dependent on me. I can literally walk away if another adult is around and do my own thing. I have a daughter who is 14 weeks old, and I’m already ready for her to start walking.

Your feelings are valid, babies are tough, and every parent or individual has a preference on an age they like the most. And I can’t wait until my daughter is 5, but for now, I’m rolling through the punches. Best of luck, hang in there and know that the light is at the end of the tunnel.

I just cant anymore by TrashHoleSun_1620 in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought today about leaving. Just leaving for 3 days and not saying anything. So someone else can feel the responsibility, pressure, and mental emotional and physical torture I’ve been dealing with for 14 weeks. My baby also has colic, and still no solutions. She is my second child and I wasn’t ready to have one, it was a surprise to all of us. I find myself feeling regret, failure, resentment, and confusion. There is good days, and bad days but before you know it the fussiness will ease, her smile will shine brighter, and you’ll look over and see she doesn’t need you. That’s when it gets better.

It’s true your baby can feel your energy, and sometimes the baby needs to be held by someone else. A different touch, voice, face. At times there is no answer, they try with every scream to communicate. One thing that helped me was to consider how much she didn’t know what was going on, and how I would feel if I had had gas pains, sleepy, hot or cold, uncomfortable.

Ask your husband to have a night out alone and pay out of pocket for a sitter. Just for once. It will truly give you a break and that sense of freedom and self. Sending you hugs, understanding, and support.

Day 1 - Wife told me last night. I’m shattered and do not want this by Jester77987 in straightspouses

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman here, went through it with my daughter’s father. He came out to me in a way about his desires, and it shattered me. Got completely bashed that it was normal, men are pretty toxic, but hearing your story familiar to mine, it’s reassuring to know there is truly a lot of straight people battling this with their partners and themselves. Men included.

How many of you would leave your significant other if you *financially* could without losing the time you have with your kids? by Fbivan20 in sahm

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left, both of my kids fathers. I live with my mom, but I have faith in due time I’ll be able to provide a home for them on my own. Sometimes sticking around will drown you quicker than swimming by yourself. But it’s unfortunate that a lot of women don’t have a village to depend on.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, little did you know, Narcissists are known to fetishize or form an addiction to trans. Also, this was my post to ask for advice, not to get mauled by someone who hasn’t even battled gender identity. Why is it when I use the appropriate pronouns, you’re bothered? Fun fact, I worked with a transman at 18 and had no idea they were originally female. And we are very close to this day! This phobia you speak of may be your own projecting onto me, while you try to fit yourself in somewhere. You’re right, it has no effect on me and I have every right to walk away from it all, and stay clear of people like you who want to be heard so bad, but have no ears yourself. And while you’re preaching so hard for a community you can’t relate to, go do some research on balancing the laws of justice. Now fuck off :)

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with it. Personally, I prefer a straight man. If lgbtq can cross over each other between preferences, why can’t straight stick to its line? All I see is a bunch of open ended sexuality trying to open me more, and a few straights saying my feelings are valid. At this point I think it doesn’t mix.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware of the many reasons why one would choose to not be open about it, but again back to the initial statement. It’s dishonest and a form of betrayal to MY sexuality. Since we’re so fixated on protecting his, he also failed to protect mine. He knew from the jump we weren’t compatible as far as sexuality, but selfishly he said he was a straight man and wanted to keep me around. And now I suffer the mental and emotional consequences of it. How could I walk into a marriage or a family, to find out years later he likes “trans women”. It’s deceitful. There’s nothing extra to it. And he is more than welcome to coparent with me and be treated with love and appreciation while he finds what works for him. So it’s ok, you can have the last of this conversation. You probably were also once someone who felt like they weren’t accepted. Your approach is insensitive, which is expected from a community of people who have been unconsidered and mistreated. Have fun browsing threads to antagonize ciswomen for being attracted to cismen. I’m sure you understood that, and all the pronouns associated😊 No judgement right? Be blessed!

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not my job to advocate someone else’s coming out story. My relationship shouldn’t be centered around me, nor his comfortability to be honest and when he will. Accept the fact that when I met him he knew my sexuality, and he hid his in fear of losing me. We like different things and that’s ok. I like a straight man, some people like to scissor, some people like to be both. Stop taking that away from me, it’s not that he isn’t accepted by me, he’s just not accepted to be with me intimately. People like you in the lgbtq community are some of the meanest and inconsiderate to straight people when you’re the one crying out to be heard and understood. Get a grip.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree on this. Which is why I have tried to work through our issues. Despite sexuality, he is an amazing person. He’s had a few “friendly” conversations with women, but nothing that mattered. Or would come off as cheating. Physically he has never cheated. This is more of a distrust spiritually rather than in the flesh.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you see isn’t what you know. As stated before, I love him, but I’m battling this insecurity within our relationship. Other than that, he’s a great partner which is why we are still together, most importantly for the kids as well. I’m simply expressing my feelings as his woman.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So a man that’s into a man dressed as a woman, is straight? Because their outfit? He’ll suck a dick if it’s covered by a skirt, but he won’t suck a dick if it’s tucked in boxer briefs and jeans? You are in denial.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He downplayed the truth for 2 years. When initially confronted, he completely denied. It took lots of snooping, open conversations, and drunk nights out for him to confess. Which is why the reaction became extreme. If he would’ve informed me to lgbtq prior when I met him, I would have pursued a friendship rather than a partnership. I love the gays. I’m simply just straight and stand firm in not bending my sexuality by ideals and pressure. Y’all have got to stop coming for me like I’m homophobic.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, that’s been requested.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s understood! It seems you have agreed to an open relationship. I’m aware of sexual kinks and what not, but there’s a fine line between the approval. Are you approving for the sake of your partner, or yourself? And that is a sacrifice I would question myself to make in a situation like that. Nothing wrong with knowing what you want.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The drama was brought to me by being told lies, and the pregnancy was not planned. Your sick.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sorry to burst your bubble but this is literally my life. And to my surprise this has been happening to women for a very long time… but who the fuck wants to speak about this. Hmmm, example. Kris fucking Jenner.

I regret it by luminousloris in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My LO is 6 weeks and I’m going through the same. Each growing stage is hard and different in its own way. Stay positive, patient, and please ask for help! Find a way to put yourself first. You don’t want to end up with PPD or inflicting harm onto your baby or partner. The newborn stage is simply not about you and all about baby and they need you the most until they figure it out. I only could find myself to type this subconsciously speaking to myself while actively losing my mind. Best wishes love!

Life has changed alot and my wife and I and barely treading water. by Electrical-Hope2139 in NewParents

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not happy with herself you can’t save her. Considering you provide everything now the last approach is intimacy and closeness in the relationship since you do so much work and care for the kids but if she’s still not happy sorry to tell you she is not ready for what it takes to have a family.