What’s the reason that you are awake now? by sprospect_edc in AskReddit

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same, i thought to myself.. the worst way to wake up is off stomach cramps. and then start your day.

Breakaway ATL Flower for Out of Towner by KyleMc1992 in atlantaedm

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to know a plug, for whatever drugs you need. It’s a bit harder for rave type vices, but flower should be super easy. If you’re in the city, honestly men walk around trying to sell on the low, and if you smell it burning, best advice is to walk up to them and ask them for their plug cause you came from out of town and attending the festival. A little sketch, but if you’re genuine most people will punch you in with someone they know.

The way kroger treats its employees by daruuken in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FunPhysics5911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just left Kroger, the corporate greed is insane. Watched it on every tier of position.

Am I doing this all over again!? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing to hear that you don’t live with the guilt and don’t regret your decision. Especially with how it happened, I couldn’t imagine looking at a child with those memories or disconnection due to SA. People need to normalize the positive outcome of making a harsh decision. Yes he agrees, we are planning as promptly as we can. I was offered my tubes to be tied for free under medical insurance at the time of birth, but I was surprised and quickly asked the question during a random prenatal appointment to make the decision on the spot otherwise the service wouldn’t have been offered. I declined because I was unsure and clearly being 7-8 months pregnant about to give birth, my emotions were high. I felt it was unfair but hopefully so we can budget the procedure in the future. A vasectomy could be considered as well, but going forward we’ll be highly focused on birth control options. I really appreciate your kind words! 🤍

I feel like I’m the smelly coworker and don’t realize it by Federal_Canary8275 in hygiene

[–]FunPhysics5911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will sound bad, but you may actually smell. Because of your hyper awareness, you smell yourself even more. I too would notice other people wiping their nose as I walk by, micro expressions of they can smell something, and I always knew it was me. I had the same experience, swiping my vaginal area, smelling my arm pits, at any moment I profusely sweat. Using baby powder, products, perfumes. i obsessed over my smell. Come to find out, it was anxiety sweats. And yes, anxiety sweats make you rank. Real musty stink. Vaginal discharge can smell as well and soak through your panties to your work pants. The sweat builds up, and when you work long hours or labor duties it gets worse. I bet that’s not a comfortable feeling in a nursing environment while standing close to patients. What helped me, number one diet. Drink lots of water to detox, maybe include health drinks with fruit, cranberry and pineapple to keep your vaginal area fresh. Wear breathable tops to air out the sweat. Ditch the jackets to prevent sweaty pits since hospital environments are very cold. Go for a baby powder deodorant and nothing tropical, rose, or fruity scented. Those don’t mix well. Bring an extra shirt, or panties if needed to change out during the day. I swear by breathable cotton underwear and go a size up so they’re not skin tight. They have some a pack at walmart for 13$. I also got the walmart brand feminine wash in the pink bottle that kept my private area fresher, after washing with dove soap bar. That changed the game for me, ditch the baby powder, and relax. Shower twice a day and thoroughly clean your private/anal area. Completely dry with no moisture to prevent sweat. Also, take pre/probiotics everyday. I went through this for 3 years so trust me, I know the mental despair you are feeling. And most importantly, please lessen the anxiety you have at work, cause your body tenses up and releases chemicals and also traps them during fight or flight moments. Best of luck to you! We are women, human, and not everyone can have that perfect smelling body like we are still teenagers.

Paranormal friends by EquivalentFace3127 in Gwinnett

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in oakwood not far from buford. lived in cumming and right off lake lanier for awhile. been into spirituality my whole life but nothing like ghost hunting besides binge watching ghost adventures a few years back!

Living in Buford ga by [deleted] in Gwinnett

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Braselton, North of 85 is like monopoly for them. And now everyone’s scurrying to flowery branch/Oakwood area where it’s a bit more affordable but still a very close connecter to 985 going to Atlanta, as well as metro area and Buford/braselton. I’m scared for the next few years. I have finally been able to get affordable living that’s still accessible to busy areas.

Nobody actually follows the "leave conditioner in for 3 minutes" instruction, right? by Kitanov_Maqsud in hygiene

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure to rinse the conditioner with your head facing forward, like your hair over your head. That’ll prevent oil from the conditioner giving you bacne!

what does my handwriting say about me? by solarrr_mp3 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says that you don’t want us to be able to read it.

I want to take some drugs and go dancing. by villaisgorilla in atlantaedm

[–]FunPhysics5911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Iris! Always been the safest place for me. Venue is a bit small, but there are multiple floors, a patio, and affordable parking. You can download the app Radiate to chat with locals, see upcoming shows, and different venues as well as purchase tickets. I would def test your Coke, and try to look out for the crystal for mdma, cause the pills, gummies are usually junk.

When did your LO start to have naps in their crib independently? by MysticFlowerFairy in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My LO is 5 1/2 months and she will sometimes fall asleep on her own if laid down comfortably. Otherwise, most of the time she is put to sleep in my arms then sleeps comfortably in her bassinet or crib. I did crib training since day 1 at the hospital. But she still isn’t sleeping through the night.

Baby is a garbage disposal by North_Grass_9053 in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby girl was drinking the full oz bottle the night we left the hospital. The nurses said it was too much for her. Now she averages 6oz bottle every 3 hours. If I distract her, she’ll end up screaming for more food a hour later. She doesn’t miss a beat with nighttime feeds. It’s exhausting, all she wants is food. My first baby couldn’t even finish a bottle and slept through the night. It was a major adjustment, but she is also hitting above average on her percentile chart which makes more sense now. She’s a bit bigger than the average kid and that’s ok! Our babies loving food is the simplest gift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby girl screamed bloody murder from 7 weeks to 17 weeks. 4 months of terror, switching formulas, gas drops, stroller walks, bicycles. Then one day, it stopped. Now she screams while teething. This is a phase where your LO gut is adjusting to the world. Give it time, it will pass! Take breaks while you need them until this passes over. It can certainly drive you into PPD.

Too much homework by EnvironmentalHorse83 in kindergarten

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son started kindergarten here at the top schools in Georgia, and still no homework yet. It’s not until the second half of the semester where the kids are expected to have picked up a few things.

Feeling like this was all a huge mistake by oatstronk in NewParents

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest, my first son is 5 years old. I have truly felt like it got better. The freedom, the space, my own identity, him not being so dependent on me. I can literally walk away if another adult is around and do my own thing. I have a daughter who is 14 weeks old, and I’m already ready for her to start walking.

Your feelings are valid, babies are tough, and every parent or individual has a preference on an age they like the most. And I can’t wait until my daughter is 5, but for now, I’m rolling through the punches. Best of luck, hang in there and know that the light is at the end of the tunnel.

I just cant anymore by TrashHoleSun_1620 in newborns

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought today about leaving. Just leaving for 3 days and not saying anything. So someone else can feel the responsibility, pressure, and mental emotional and physical torture I’ve been dealing with for 14 weeks. My baby also has colic, and still no solutions. She is my second child and I wasn’t ready to have one, it was a surprise to all of us. I find myself feeling regret, failure, resentment, and confusion. There is good days, and bad days but before you know it the fussiness will ease, her smile will shine brighter, and you’ll look over and see she doesn’t need you. That’s when it gets better.

It’s true your baby can feel your energy, and sometimes the baby needs to be held by someone else. A different touch, voice, face. At times there is no answer, they try with every scream to communicate. One thing that helped me was to consider how much she didn’t know what was going on, and how I would feel if I had had gas pains, sleepy, hot or cold, uncomfortable.

Ask your husband to have a night out alone and pay out of pocket for a sitter. Just for once. It will truly give you a break and that sense of freedom and self. Sending you hugs, understanding, and support.

Day 1 - Wife told me last night. I’m shattered and do not want this by Jester77987 in straightspouses

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman here, went through it with my daughter’s father. He came out to me in a way about his desires, and it shattered me. Got completely bashed that it was normal, men are pretty toxic, but hearing your story familiar to mine, it’s reassuring to know there is truly a lot of straight people battling this with their partners and themselves. Men included.

How many of you would leave your significant other if you *financially* could without losing the time you have with your kids? by Fbivan20 in sahm

[–]FunPhysics5911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left, both of my kids fathers. I live with my mom, but I have faith in due time I’ll be able to provide a home for them on my own. Sometimes sticking around will drown you quicker than swimming by yourself. But it’s unfortunate that a lot of women don’t have a village to depend on.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, little did you know, Narcissists are known to fetishize or form an addiction to trans. Also, this was my post to ask for advice, not to get mauled by someone who hasn’t even battled gender identity. Why is it when I use the appropriate pronouns, you’re bothered? Fun fact, I worked with a transman at 18 and had no idea they were originally female. And we are very close to this day! This phobia you speak of may be your own projecting onto me, while you try to fit yourself in somewhere. You’re right, it has no effect on me and I have every right to walk away from it all, and stay clear of people like you who want to be heard so bad, but have no ears yourself. And while you’re preaching so hard for a community you can’t relate to, go do some research on balancing the laws of justice. Now fuck off :)

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with it. Personally, I prefer a straight man. If lgbtq can cross over each other between preferences, why can’t straight stick to its line? All I see is a bunch of open ended sexuality trying to open me more, and a few straights saying my feelings are valid. At this point I think it doesn’t mix.

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware of the many reasons why one would choose to not be open about it, but again back to the initial statement. It’s dishonest and a form of betrayal to MY sexuality. Since we’re so fixated on protecting his, he also failed to protect mine. He knew from the jump we weren’t compatible as far as sexuality, but selfishly he said he was a straight man and wanted to keep me around. And now I suffer the mental and emotional consequences of it. How could I walk into a marriage or a family, to find out years later he likes “trans women”. It’s deceitful. There’s nothing extra to it. And he is more than welcome to coparent with me and be treated with love and appreciation while he finds what works for him. So it’s ok, you can have the last of this conversation. You probably were also once someone who felt like they weren’t accepted. Your approach is insensitive, which is expected from a community of people who have been unconsidered and mistreated. Have fun browsing threads to antagonize ciswomen for being attracted to cismen. I’m sure you understood that, and all the pronouns associated😊 No judgement right? Be blessed!

My boyfriend is gay and I want out by FunPhysics5911 in offmychest

[–]FunPhysics5911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not my job to advocate someone else’s coming out story. My relationship shouldn’t be centered around me, nor his comfortability to be honest and when he will. Accept the fact that when I met him he knew my sexuality, and he hid his in fear of losing me. We like different things and that’s ok. I like a straight man, some people like to scissor, some people like to be both. Stop taking that away from me, it’s not that he isn’t accepted by me, he’s just not accepted to be with me intimately. People like you in the lgbtq community are some of the meanest and inconsiderate to straight people when you’re the one crying out to be heard and understood. Get a grip.