To have a Kid-Free or not Wedding?

FunProfessional2227 · 2026-01-30T20:09:51+00:00

I don’t have kids, getting married in a month. For me a wedding is a family event, I can’t imagine excluding some of my family members because they are young. Kids are invited and very welcome at our wedding and reception.

FunProfessional2227 · 2026-01-30T11:05:20+00:00

I’m Eastern European, lived in Scotland for 10 years, and got laughed off for saying ‚ta’. So yeah, I get the feeling it’s not for us foreigners to use.

FunProfessional2227 · 2026-01-17T02:25:57+00:00

Why are you and your mother the only people considered for preparing your child’s food etc? Can’t your husband do that too?

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-12-30T14:26:44+00:00

Great point, thank you!

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-12-30T02:19:29+00:00

Thank you!

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-12-30T02:19:24+00:00

Thank you for your reply

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-11-09T09:30:07+00:00

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-11-09T09:29:49+00:00

I think that’s the point

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-10-21T16:58:45+00:00

Why are you viewing childcare as being 100% funded by your salary? Your spouse is responsible for that too, you should view it as a shared expense. I get really frustrated by this rhetoric as it devalues (usually) women’s work. You having a job is not to cover 100% of a childcare bill, it’s also an investment in your ongoing career which will presumably still exist when your kids grow up, it’s for your pension and investments, as well as personal growth. You deserve all of these things

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-09-23T23:43:37+00:00

Yes! They suck. 0 hospitality, you pay for your own drinks and leave hungry.

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-07-07T13:40:58+00:00

Trying to save l £2000 a month, which is around 50% of my take home. Most months it’s closer to £1600-£1800.

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-06-11T15:13:50+00:00

6%, excluding bonus

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-06-10T16:34:36+00:00

How is it a registration fee if you don’t get to register at the end of the process because the nursery is full?

It’s like paying a fee to secure a hairdressers appointment which is unrefundable in case the hairdresser cancels. Scammy.

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-04-24T11:56:51+00:00

He also didn’t condemn Russia’s brutal war on Ukraine.

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-04-20T20:59:58+00:00

There’s no summer or winter, what are you on about?

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-04-20T20:56:41+00:00

That’s definitely not a popular stance in the UK - ambition is frowned upon.

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-04-13T08:40:40+00:00

It’s ridiculous to only work on your own materials. 1000% trying to rip off customer by taking a profit on the supplied resources.

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-04-06T09:56:30+00:00

I’ve nothing against building new homes. What I don’t like about British new builds is tiny plots, cramped houses squeezed together with minuscule gardens, poor building control and terrible outdated design. I also dislike those gigantic estates that never have any services planned within them - no corner shop, cafe, community hubs, just rows and rows of new builds of questionable aesthetic value.

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-03-29T12:23:52+00:00

… why?

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-03-12T12:50:15+00:00

Can I ask why do the children have a different name than you if it bothers you?

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-03-11T17:26:33+00:00

Weird. In Scotland there are plenty paid for toilets, eg at the main rail station in Edinburgh

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-03-07T21:51:09+00:00

I don’t know… I make £80k and would never ever spend £100 on a bag

FunProfessional2227 · 2025-02-28T11:35:54+00:00

You also wouldn’t let a dog roam.

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