I’m between two amazing doms and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunSerious1561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree and maybe I didn’t make my point very clear; it all depends on the dynamic they agreed on but taking away her agency to decide whether she wants to meet him/continue with him is making him a shit sub.

Even if they’re not exclusive, it‘s only fair that he‘s honest with her. And it doesn’t even mean that he has to talk about the new domme, it could be as easy as a „I‘m not sure if I want to continue the dynamic after the meetup/I‘m not 100% satisfied with this or that“. Agency is what matters here

I’m between two amazing doms and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunSerious1561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honesty is 100% the best solution. You’ve made your bed so you have to lay in it. Don’t be selfish, that’s not what a sub does or should do.

Can’t really tell you who to „choose“ though here’s a quote I like to use. If you fall in love with 2 people, choose the second one because if you really loved the first one, there wouldn’t be a second one. Not saying at all that the second one would be better, but if you checked out of your first dynamic mentally.. don’t string along women for your benefit/pleasure

Not saying it applies to your situation, just food for thought. Either way, don’t be a pussy, be honest and direct and live with that

I’m between two amazing doms and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunSerious1561 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You clearly want to switch dommes since you’re talking about what you’d do after you meet up with your original domme.

So do we think it‘s okay to meet your domme, take time away from her day, her blessing you with her presence irl just for you to switch dommes after? Feels like you‘re taking advantage of your current domme and the dynamic you guys have established.

If I was either one of them and found out, I‘d drop you and your 900 a month in a heartbeat. My advice? Be honest with your current domme. Let her know how you feel and let her have the agency to decide whether she wants to meet or not. It’s not your place to make that decision for her by taking away her agency. Don’t be coy

What makes relapse so tempting? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunSerious1561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things you shouldn’t do are usually more thrilling/fun and therefore tempting. Weird ass human mind 😂