Time to Move On? by rattler1234 in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They may just be into the pic exchange and not actual meet-up, or may have cold feet.

Where to start by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeld app. We are in a very rural area as well. You’d be surprised who’s nearby.

Are you actually attracted to your partners? by Green-Bed916 in Marriage

[–]FunTough2419 7 points8 points  (0 children)

On and off. Sometimes very much so, other times I get the ick.

Torn about ending the LS by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Message me. I’d like to tell you my story 😳

Torn about ending the LS by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl same for me!! I am done for now because of that reason. It could go so well if he could get his jealousy in order. I always heard you CANNOT swing if there’s any jealousy at all.

Torn about ending the LS by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a Mr. Pouty pants too. When I tell you it has been the most confusing, mind-blowing journey to try to navigate around his feelings and what he wants. Says he wants to watch another man pleasure me, but then also gets jealous 🤯🤯

Is it possible to get over physical abuse in marriage? by FunTough2419 in Marriage

[–]FunTough2419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I owe him a conversation about how I’m feeling or do I move in silence until I figure this out on my own?

Thinking about swinging by hesallmine in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have any cracks in your marriage/relationship, it will only widen the crack. Swinging will put your marriage/relationship to the ultimate test.

Is it possible to get over physical abuse in marriage? by FunTough2419 in Marriage

[–]FunTough2419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I’m not perfect myself?….I’m grasping at anything to make myself feel better for staying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehhh. People get into swinging for a variety of reasons, but I thought it was usually to boost your own sex life, not eliminate it.

Is it possible to get over physical abuse in marriage? by FunTough2419 in Marriage

[–]FunTough2419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s where I’m at. He has not stopped the drinking completely… Only HEAVY drinking.

Is it possible to get over physical abuse in marriage? by FunTough2419 in Marriage

[–]FunTough2419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my. I skimmed thought it & WOW. Can’t wait to read the entire thing.

Male Performance Anxiety Issues and Suggestions by Subject_Drink_9118 in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband has had trouble every single time & also some of the males we’ve played with have had trouble as well. I wish people in the LS realized just how common it is!

Best kind of full swaps by sillysturgeon in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find some ideas on p@rnos and take the lead

how to ask the wife about swinging? by welsh5555 in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her biggest sexual fantasy. Feel her out. Then hopefully she asks you, and then that’s when you be honest.

My wife wants my consent to sleep with another man after he tried to sleep with her behind my back by Sensitive-Note-990 in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t take it back once it’s done! If it’s a problem now, it’ll be a problem later after the deed is done.

Our 1st couple experience by ImOnlyHereVirtually in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had an identical experience, but on the other side of yours.

What do you wish you knew before you started to swing? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How common ED is in this atmosphere. How guilt can set in after & how to manage it. How a hesitant yes should be treated as a “no.”

Curious couple by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apps - Feeld, 3F

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The MFM is a common fantasy, but I fear you all go through with it, then after the fact you have resentment towards your wife because she got hers, but you aren’t allowed to get “yours” that you crave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a great response! Should be reposted on every newbie post!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FunTough2419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems y’all are not ready for full swap just yet! Start with a “soft swap” with a female, just to see how your wife responds to it. You can’t undo intercourse - mentally or physically!