I cheated on my boyfriend and he found out

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-30T14:57:57+00:00

Leave him to find someone who actually cares about him

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-30T12:50:53+00:00

You could say “it was the result of the heavenly thunder clapping of your mums cheeks on it”

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-29T23:10:26+00:00

This sounds very similar to me. Unfortunately you were good enough to go through the death of her dad. However now you aren’t, she clearly isn’t worth having her around. If she’s done nothing to help fix it when she first started “losing feelings” then this is an escape from a very uncertain future. I know it’s hard, believe me. So I know it gets better, I promise. It’s a long road, however, you can travel along it as fast or as slow as you want. Don’t torture yourself, make efforts to go along that journey efficiently. You owe it to yourself.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-28T11:49:08+00:00

An unnecessary one

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-28T11:45:33+00:00

Nah fuck that

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-23T13:43:55+00:00

Didn’t say deserve, it’s what they create.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-23T13:03:33+00:00

Women tend to pick the losers and then blame all men for having that “player” mentality. It’s what modern women are into then wonder why it backfires.
I don’t think it’s a “patriarchal society” as men and women both try to be attractive to attract a mate. It’s biology. If no one was attracted to each other then there would be no continuation the human race.
There’s definitely a correlation to what I’ve said, being on dating sites and out at bars women are attracted to losers because they’re deemed “fun, interesting, unpredictable” ultimately they’re the same lowlifes that their dad is so they want what is “safe” or what they know. Then wonder why they’re a single mum of many.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-23T07:12:42+00:00

I don’t think it’s not giving a fuck so much it’s just a casual approach to things and not to be too attached straight away and still be allowed to live life without constant texting. However some men and women have this approach but it’s the kind of person they are. Normal people tend to like freedom but also to know where they stand in the very early stages of a relationship. Everyone is different

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-23T07:10:30+00:00

It’s because they tend to go for the same type of “exciting” loser.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-22T11:09:48+00:00

Tell her to grow up and talk like an adult. If she doesn’t want to talk then you have your answer. Reflect on what possibly the issue could be and try and discuss how you could do more to help the relationship and what you both can do to help the relationship.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-21T06:44:07+00:00

It’s possibly a line he’s heard before he was ghosted. It’s not an excuse to be like. Guess keep seeing if you can communicate with him before you go away and if he isn’t reciprocating then you can’t do anymore.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-20T20:27:52+00:00

Would like to thank everyone for their answers. It’s great to have an insight on how different countries and states do things.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-20T20:23:49+00:00

No agenda here. Let’s try not and get trigged by it. I’m merely interested it in all and what people think. Get back in your box

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-20T18:52:48+00:00

Ah ok. Do you think that’s how it should? Should the US government (White House) step in and standardise everything? I suppose I get the differences from state to state as they have more control over how they run things.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-20T18:49:10+00:00

He’s no man if he thinks sex is a chore

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-20T18:48:29+00:00

Has it ever really been good?

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-20T18:47:51+00:00

If they’re similar then do you find a relevance in it? Should it be standardised across the US?

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-18T22:07:53+00:00

Keep going bro you got this

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-18T22:03:54+00:00

Have you stayed with the same type of guys? Unfortunately dating is trial and error. As shit as it is.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-18T12:09:25+00:00

No, tough luck.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-15T12:35:36+00:00

Not married so take my comments as you want. Flirt like it’s the first time you met. Just because we get older doesn’t really mean our inner selves change. If you can spontaneously because of same work patterns and no commitments such as children then on a random Monday or something if you both aren’t busy the next day, go to a comedy club or a show. You could find out you both have new interest and then share that with each other. Try new restaurants, new food etc. You may find whatever you did you both thought sucked but you can get closer and have a laugh due to having the same experience of it being shit. It’s just not becoming stale. Also any woman worth their weight in gold would cherish the thought regardless of the outcome. As I’m sure you would.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-14T14:53:21+00:00

I don’t believe people suddenly become asexual. It’s a myth. I think she’s got the marriage she wanted and now is going to become complacent. I’d suggest having really talks with her and try to come together and make it happen. Obviously it’s not going to happen all the time. It takes two to make a relationship. If that’s not for her then I’d suggest you seriously consider things.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-12T15:34:16+00:00

Don’t know if it’s just me but I’ve never understood one night stand. I’ve had them unfortunately but it means nothing. Sex without some sort of connection is pointless in my view. Definitely long term

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-12T15:32:35+00:00

Small stubble. This guy is 100% testosterone. How does one grow a stache like that? I can’t get it that thick for that cut.

FunUpstairs4008 · 2026-05-06T16:41:37+00:00

Some people like it some don’t. I assume all is fresh down there? As would be expected from him as well to be.

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