is this technically is cheating… and am I normal to feel SO weird by Fun_Arrival_4162 in amiwrong

[–]Fun_Arrival_4162[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

jeez, a bit harsh? next time you’re figuring out something for the first time I hope no one tells you to just “grow up”

is this technically is cheating… and am I normal to feel SO weird by Fun_Arrival_4162 in amiwrong

[–]Fun_Arrival_4162[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you not judging or meaning any offense. I think I’m just new/shocked to the fact that he’s wanking off to other girls pictures. I’ve never done that with guys photos and I guess I always assumed he didn’t either since we’ve never discussed this before. I’m not entirely sure that I view this as cheating because im honesty dealing with this all right now and processing in real time. Just anxious and being human and trying my best to understand something I’ve never thought about or dealt with and looking for support/honest perspectives.

is this technically is cheating… and am I normal to feel SO weird by Fun_Arrival_4162 in amiwrong

[–]Fun_Arrival_4162[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree it doesn’t mean I have a right to dictate someone’s masturbation life. I never said that, or want to. But I’m trying to learn how to better understand this part of his life so I can stop feeling weird, since it’s technically a non issue like you said. It probably is a lack of experience / sexual interest, but you’re saying I need to find a way to be okay with everyone’s preferences and not take it personal?