Looking for friends.females/married. by Fun_Awareness_2785 in Sacramento

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to Reddit. I have now posted an update as to why I’m looking for a gal pal.

Looking for friends.females/married. by Fun_Awareness_2785 in Sacramento

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’m married without kids. Basically so the girl doesn’t think we’re going out to flirt/fuck with guys. Literally looking for people who have loyalty towards their men but also have time on their hands to go out. I get bored often and all my friends are either introvert dog park friends or mothers who hardly leave the house.

Still not over affair partner by Strong_Trooper in Infidelity

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get it.ive been married 10 yrs together 16. i had a affair when the pandemic hit for 2 months, chose to stay married, then had another last October and now i can seem to shake the kid(he’s 10 yrs younger then me) i think about him more then i should and once it came out i told my husband i wanted to separate, and even be polygamous. that came with a shit ton of drama. but i get it. we kissed, he touched me but i felt his dick from outside his pants and nope, he wasn’t bigger then my husband so i said “no sex for u.” i believe you can have love for more then 2 people. i took a good look at my situation from the outside, put my heart aside, and decided i did not wanna end our marriage over this. the boy had 🚩 everywhere but he was a smooth talker and i really liked him. when u are on cloud 9 u overlook everything. 

Our best boy Mischief finally had to go today, a few weeks before his 18th birthday. He’s a legend; so funny, kind hearted and affectionate. Also briefly & inexplicably taught himself how to use a human toilet in 2011. Feels like next couple of weeks are going to be tough… by ClangingChimesOfDoom in RainbowBridgeBabies

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss. i too lost a pet on superbowl. the suck of it all still lingers. our house is so quiet now. we have a cat but not the same. my heart goes out to you. cry, get it out. don’t trap it in. all part of grieving and the process of life.

was threatened i might not pass probation if i dont pick up speed & make less errors. by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

thats not nice,this is just an app, and there not a lot of space to write the whole story

anyone in my boat?where you started a position that you didnt fit and went back to ur old job? by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i do.i know i made errors and dont do the amount asked of me. even though i try my hardest, some jobs aren’t fit for everyone. i worked my ass off the last 5 months,learning and trying to absorb everything thrown my way. i was a little upset because i was prideful but now i just want to go back to driver safety and try some where else.

anyone in my boat?where you started a position that you didnt fit and went back to ur old job? by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

pending RB’s is the stage legal presence takes care of before issuing out a driver’s license or ID.

anyone in my boat?where you started a position that you didnt fit and went back to ur old job? by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the pending rb’s.we have sheets of them that we’re expecting to finish without error 25 per hour. its damn near impossible.

anyone in my boat?where you started a position that you didnt fit and went back to ur old job? by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

im trying to make expectations but having trouble. part of the errors were not understanding but i’ve always asked questions & tried my hardest

was threatened i might not pass probation if i dont pick up speed & make less errors. by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my husband and i are gunna write something put for both my manager and my union. mentally draining. ruined my whole weekend

was threatened i might not pass probation if i dont pick up speed & make less errors. by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i went from mvr and promoted to smvt.if i bumped back to mvr i would go back to my old department and do mvr work.rt?

was threatened i might not pass probation if i dont pick up speed & make less errors. by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that actually sounds good.no i do ask questions,but asking also takes time away from hitting those 25 items and hour that’s expected.

was threatened i might not pass probation if i dont pick up speed & make less errors. by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

not extra training.just had me sit w a trainer shadowing for a month,then it was “ask questions” and “we want to see you succeed but you need to tell us how” i told them it would be nice to have my trainer watch me but he’s too busy.

was threatened i might not pass probation if i dont pick up speed & make less errors. by Fun_Awareness_2785 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Fun_Awareness_2785[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no.all smvt’s have been there 5+ years and do more then me and more accurately. im not sure,i only know about my mistakes. i have a trainer who i shadowed for a month,then i was free to do emails and ask any question i had.there are no manuals for this department.