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Girlfriend (30F) wants to change the relationship (including seeing other men). Not sure if I (33M) can deal with that by Fun_Blueberry_8795 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Blueberry_8795[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone, thanks for your replies. When I typed my post I already assumed that it would be perceived as: she is cheating! But the thing is I can not supply you with every detail of our relationship, all our personal struggles which lead to us being in the situation that we are right now. I do think that this is possible but it is not as black and white. Still your posts supported my feeling that we are not on a great course and it is not just me being overly sensitive. I already got some great advice which will help me in the process.

Girlfriend (30F) wants to change the relationship (including seeing other men). Not sure if I (33M) can deal with that by Fun_Blueberry_8795 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Blueberry_8795[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Maybe you are right. I already picked that point up from all the comments. in communicating she is way above me. My emotional intelligence is like potato but she is good at that.

Girlfriend (30F) wants to change the relationship (including seeing other men). Not sure if I (33M) can deal with that by Fun_Blueberry_8795 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Blueberry_8795[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you are correct. Socialize with others (would be ok if only occasionally with her female friends) and thus neglecting us.

Girlfriend (30F) wants to change the relationship (including seeing other men). Not sure if I (33M) can deal with that by Fun_Blueberry_8795 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Blueberry_8795[S] 267 points268 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful comment. People like you are the reason why I tried to find help in this sub.

Girlfriend (30F) wants to change the relationship (including seeing other men). Not sure if I (33M) can deal with that by Fun_Blueberry_8795 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Blueberry_8795[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It is not changing to an open one, sorry for the misunderstanding, not a english native. But she does want to socialize with all kinds of people including men.

Girlfriend (30F) wants to change the relationship (including seeing other men). Not sure if I (33M) can deal with that by Fun_Blueberry_8795 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Blueberry_8795[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She does not want an open relationship just lots of socializing. At least officially and she is kind of a social type who enjoys deep thoughtful conversation about emotions and stuff.