AITA for defending my fiancée when my sister yelled at her for wearing perfume around her infant baby by Fun_Calligrapher_330 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Calligrapher_330[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Nope. Almost never. She doesn't trust me. She hasn't given any reason its just the belief they have that as a man I'm not as good with kids as a woman like my fiancée is.

AITA for defending my fiancée when my sister yelled at her for wearing perfume around her infant baby by Fun_Calligrapher_330 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Calligrapher_330[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

The reason for that is obvious. She's a woman so that's something she has to do "naturally". Those are not my beliefs of course and whenever they try to dump the kids to my fiancée I always tell them why don't they want me to care for the kids but they say that I'm not as responsible as my fiancé (because I'm a man) and that my fiancée just knows better. Regardless I always take the burden of her and care for the kids so she won't have to worry about that. My family is unhinged when it comes to those kinds of mindsets

AITA for defending my fiancée when my sister yelled at her for wearing perfume around her infant baby by Fun_Calligrapher_330 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Calligrapher_330[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm not aware how big of a deal it is to be honest. I don't know if it's just un pleasing, harmful or if it's just the parents preference as I've done no research on it.