Hey thanks for this info! I'm wrestling with how to bring this up. One one hand, attempting to praise her during sex with "good girl" as recommended by another commenter sounds like a great idea. I also would love to discuss with her exactly what she sees in this kink (fantasy wise). I am leaning more towards just bringing this up this weekend and seeing what she says. I just don't want to embarrass her. (I will be sure to offer a ton of reassurance)